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Post by laurasw on Oct 12, 2020 22:37:01 GMT
I am so sorry!
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Post by gramasue on Oct 12, 2020 22:37:39 GMT
I'm so sorry that you have been so betrayed. It's a terrible feeling. Please do whatever is necessary to take care of you and your kids, and know that we're all thinking of you.
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Post by Lexica on Oct 13, 2020 1:02:11 GMT
It’s a vicious betrayal and heartbreaking to find out after all these years he’s not who you thought he was. Take your time, live you’re life and don’t take on his guilt. You are not responsible for his shitty lack of basic human decency. Yes, it is a vicious betrayal, but the up side of that is she didn't lose this amazing partner that she thought he was. She lost an immature pathetic excuse of a man and a lying snake. Those are much easier to walk away from.
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Post by epeanymous on Oct 13, 2020 1:08:51 GMT
I am so sorry. That is a lot a lot of years.
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Post by snyder on Oct 13, 2020 1:13:21 GMT
I'm sorry you have been treated this way by someone you loved. I will say a prayer for you to have the strength to get through and beyond this hurt.
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Post by annie on Oct 13, 2020 1:17:34 GMT
I am so very sorry! Just awful.
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Post by kristi on Oct 13, 2020 2:27:39 GMT
I am sorry you are going through this {hugs}
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Oct 13, 2020 2:36:12 GMT
I'm very sorry!
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Post by SallyPA on Oct 13, 2020 2:37:39 GMT
I’m so sorry. What a horrible betrayal. Hugs and well wishes as you move on with the next steps. Many of us have been there and the peas will always have the best advice and support when you need it.
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Post by chaosisapony on Oct 13, 2020 2:46:52 GMT
I'm sorry you're going through this. But I am glad you're not married to this person and that you have your own residence!
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Post by scrapmaven on Oct 13, 2020 2:56:09 GMT
You will get through this. 21 years is a long time, but you will heal and grow and should you choose to do so in the future you can find a much stronger, trustworthy man who loves you and treats you with the honesty and respect that you deserve. Right now you're very hurt, but you'll be OK. This is the end of a bad relationship w/a creep and the beginning of a life that is completely yours to do with as you will.
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Post by kluski on Oct 13, 2020 3:12:37 GMT
While yesterday, today, tomorrow, and the next few days may suck...it actually sounds like your life is finally beginning. Embrace the freedom. Heal yourself from his problems that he made yours and start living.
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Post by refugeepea on Oct 13, 2020 3:31:29 GMT
I'm sorry.
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Post by notjstamom on Oct 13, 2020 3:46:39 GMT
I am so sorry 😢
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Post by tanya2 on Oct 13, 2020 4:11:26 GMT
omg! I am so sorry you're going through this. i'm curious what made him suddenly confess though?
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Post by emelle64 on Oct 13, 2020 11:51:58 GMT
I am so terribly sorry. I hope that you’re able to find some people to support you during this difficult time. One or two friends that you can call dear night will make all the difference.
Emelle
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Post by rickmer on Oct 13, 2020 12:32:20 GMT
i am so very sorry. to try to fight back after the initial feelings of hurt and betrayal just to be blindsided again is devastating.
i would like to say at least he told you the truth BUT i suspect it was either to alleviate his own guilt, cuz other one was going to cut him off OR it was going to come out anyway (ie: someone saw him).
he has tanked his family and his life for his selfishness. take care of you and your kids... chin up, shoulders back, you can get through this. there is light on the other side... eventually.
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Post by silverlining on Oct 13, 2020 17:24:14 GMT
I'm so sorry. I'm glad that you have your own house and are already working on untangling your finances. You are stronger than you know!
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Post by jubejubes on Oct 13, 2020 20:40:00 GMT
So sorry that this has happened to you.
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