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Post by kkrenn on Jan 14, 2022 4:40:00 GMT
Keep posting and say whatever comes to mind it doesn't matter!
We are here for you.
Hugs
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PLurker
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Post by PLurker on Jan 14, 2022 4:44:58 GMT
I cannot even imagine the pain you are feeling. Hugs to you.
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styxgirl
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Post by styxgirl on Jan 14, 2022 4:45:40 GMT
I don’t have words to help… I am thinking of you and praying for peace for you. I can’t even begin to imagine how you are feeling, but know, we are here for you.
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smcast
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Post by smcast on Jan 14, 2022 4:47:21 GMT
😥 It is not fair, it is awful, and I'm sure your mind is thinking all kinds of things. Have you talked to your doctor about something to help calm things or possibly help you sleep if need be? Just a thought to help a little to take care of yourself. Hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2022 5:05:42 GMT
I’m so sorry Really Red for the pain and loss you are experiencing. Sending you hugs.
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 14, 2022 5:06:43 GMT
I am so sorry. I wish we could help ease your pain. If it helps you, please share as much as you want to about your son. He clearly was a remarkable young man and his friends and family were lucky to have him in their lives.
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sassyangel
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Post by sassyangel on Jan 14, 2022 5:10:27 GMT
I’m so very sorry for your immense pain, nothing I say will take it away or change it, I know that - but I validate it and you always have a safe space here - anytime you need it. *hug*
I like hearing memories about him from you, he sounds like a truly amazing man, and it’s really so not fair we no longer have him here. The world is clearly missing out on him. But if it helps you, and you feel like you want to, id really like to hear more about him. No one can ever take your precious memories of him.
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Post by Really Red on Jan 14, 2022 5:30:31 GMT
: :Thank you. Your words resonate with me. They really help. I called my niece (my godddaughter) and she was amazing. Sometimes, you just need to hear someone being "normal" to feel that way.
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Post by quinlove on Jan 14, 2022 5:37:50 GMT
I sincerely hope that you are able to feel the tremendous amount of love that all of us are sending to you. ❤️
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Post by ntsf on Jan 14, 2022 5:43:08 GMT
I have nothing to add but sending my love and hugs to you through the electrons.. I hope you can find comfort in the fact that in his life, he changed the world for more than one person. that is a true gift. hugs.
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Post by dewryce on Jan 14, 2022 5:43:57 GMT
I am so very sorry Really Red, what you are going through is unimaginable. Say what you need to say here, we are there to listen. The good, the bad, the horrible and the wonderful. He was an amazing young man and we love hearing about him. (((Hugs))))
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msliz
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Post by msliz on Jan 14, 2022 5:50:10 GMT
{{{hugs}}}
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jan 14, 2022 5:54:53 GMT
I'm so very glad you reached out. {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
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Post by brynn on Jan 14, 2022 5:59:51 GMT
((Hugs))Really Red, you raised a wonderful human being. I am so sorry he isn't here. We are here whenever you need us.
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Post by beebee on Jan 14, 2022 6:01:05 GMT
I have no words that would help the pain, but I wish I could give you a big hug. Your son sounds like he was an amazing, sweet, compassionate guy who touched lives. That is truly wonderful
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Post by malibou on Jan 14, 2022 6:32:49 GMT
Tucking you up safely in my warmest thoughts where you shall remain as you figure out your new path. Be gentle with yourself.
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Post by FrozenPea on Jan 14, 2022 6:35:03 GMT
Hugs
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2022 6:59:41 GMT
My heart breaks for you. As with others, I send you so much positive, healing energy and love.
When my father passed suddenly, I was lost. One of the best things I did was to find a grief support group. Changed things so much and gave me a place to really feel comfort and share. I am still friends with some of those people today.
I also agree with other Peas about sharing these wonderful stories about your son. We would love to hear.
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Post by twinks on Jan 14, 2022 7:08:53 GMT
I am so sorry. Personally I like to hear about your son and appreciate you sharing him with us. His compassion and kindness towards others is inspiring. Please continue to share him with us. I am not here much, mainly I lurk, but I am available to listen. I care.
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Post by destined2bmom on Jan 14, 2022 7:10:21 GMT
Huge hugs and prayers to you. I cannot even begin to imagine how you feel.
From all of the stories that you have shared about your son; he was an incredibly intelligent, kind-hearted, fun loving, beautiful young man.
Please share your thoughts and feelings with us. We are here for you.
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Post by used2scrap on Jan 14, 2022 7:35:06 GMT
I’m so very sorry. Your son matters and you matter and your pain matters. Be gentle on yourself as much as you can.
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Post by gillyp on Jan 14, 2022 8:15:17 GMT
I’m so glad you felt able to call your niece. Just hearing another voice can help slow down the turmoil in your mind and the pain in your heart. I hope she, too, has lovely memories of her cousin that she can share with you or remind you of.
Much cyber support coming your way.
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Jan 14, 2022 8:35:00 GMT
Sending big hugs to you.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Jan 14, 2022 8:39:03 GMT
I am so very very sorry this happened. While I do not have the uniquely tragic experience of losing a child, when dealing with terrible grief in my past I would write all my feelings in a journal. A journal I had no intention of anybody ever seeing, just a place to unload those feelings that plagued me.
There was a lot of crazy looking script, many exclamation points, sometimes the paper even tore, words were flowing so fast and furious.
I know this might not help everyone, but it sure helped me.
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Post by gar on Jan 14, 2022 8:52:14 GMT
i’m so glad you called your niece. I hope your therapist can help you to find a way to live with your terrible grief so that in time, you can smile when you think of your boy. Huge pea hugs to you - you know there’s always someone here ((hugs))
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Post by Deleted on Jan 14, 2022 9:20:08 GMT
I'm glad that you reached out to your niece Really Red Nothing I can say would make that unimaginable pain any easier for you to bear, I just wish it could but we are all here for you and I'm sending you a big (((((( hug)))))) Please reach out to family and friends though. Don't keep them in the dark about your pain as I'm sure they would want to offer their support if they knew how difficult it is for you to get through the pain.
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Post by joelise on Jan 14, 2022 9:25:55 GMT
I don’t know what I can say to help the pain but wanted to let you know that I’m thinking of you.
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michellegb
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Post by michellegb on Jan 14, 2022 9:27:30 GMT
Others have said all the things I want to say so well. I wish you didn't have to go throught this. Sending you big hugs.
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Post by maryannscraps on Jan 14, 2022 9:56:33 GMT
Sending gentle hugs to you. He made a big difference in the world in his short time here. You must be very proud of him.
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Post by ddly on Jan 14, 2022 10:34:21 GMT
I’m so sorry for your pain! I’m glad you were able to talk with your niece. Hugs coming your way!
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