BarbaraUK
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Jun 27, 2014 12:47:11 GMT
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Post by BarbaraUK on Aug 4, 2015 20:48:47 GMT
Thank you for the update, so pleased that this thread has helped Noah feel good.
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Post by ilikepink on Aug 4, 2015 21:01:39 GMT
I haven't read all the responses, so I apologize if this has been said 5 pages worth: Thank you for sharing this story in such a manner; I could only hope to respond as a mom the way you have if any of my children faced such a life-changing situation. We need more people like you and your family in the world.
I'm also happy that I live in a world with young people like Noah.
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Olan
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Jul 13, 2014 21:23:27 GMT
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Post by Olan on Aug 4, 2015 21:11:20 GMT
wrongwayfeldman what is the name of the leadership camp for social justice. I would love to donate. Olan, that is so kind. The camp is called ANYTOWN, and the one near us was held in St Louis, Mo. They have camps all over the United States, and it was truly a life changing experience. This year, the students, called "delegates," focused on the "-isms" in our society: Racism, Sexism, Classism, etc. Their mission statement states that they are "A unique and powerful program that prepares young people to be effective leaders for inclusion; creating schools, youth programs, and communities that are welcoming to all of us, not just some of us." I was able to attend the closing ceremony on the last day, and there wasn't a dry eye in the house as these young kids shared their whole hearts. The experiences that our youth go through these days can be very unbelievable, and it's a wonder they come out as amazing as they are. Some of these kids shared stories of things that they have been through that would make a grown man drop to his knees, yet they still fight toward positive change and want to make a difference for other kids. Their local St Louois website is: www.nccjstl.org/anytown/FYI: the cost for attending the camp is listed as over $1500, but from what I understand, almost every student there attended on a full scholarship. Our local public school provided grants for 8 kids to attend. Awesome! Thanks for sharing this. Anytown sounds like my cause.
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jayfab
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Jun 26, 2014 21:55:15 GMT
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Post by jayfab on Aug 4, 2015 21:23:56 GMT
Thank you for sharing. Noah sounds like a great person and I see where he learned it from. You're a great mom! Best wishes in all Noah's endeavors.
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peabay
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Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Aug 4, 2015 22:13:13 GMT
Just went to your blog: he's adorable.
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Post by flanz on Aug 4, 2015 22:34:15 GMT
Your blog is terrific!
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julieb
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Jul 3, 2014 16:02:54 GMT
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Post by julieb on Aug 4, 2015 22:43:34 GMT
Wow. Your story is so heart wrenching. We all struggle as parents wondering if we are doing our best and could we have done better or something different. I read your blog and have seen the pictures of your beautiful/handsome Noah. You did everything right! You are the definition of the unconditional love that parents should show their children and I will think of you everything I start to make a negative comment of how my boys' hair looks or what they are wearing. Thank you.
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cycworker
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Jun 26, 2014 0:42:38 GMT
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Post by cycworker on Aug 4, 2015 22:49:03 GMT
You are an amazing mom. I'm honoured to have read your/Noah's story.
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Post by RiverIsis on Aug 5, 2015 0:17:33 GMT
Thank you for sharing your story!! That is quite brave!! I have a question. How do you respond to those that believe this is a sin? and quote bible verses left and right about it? I have an aunt, who is greatly against anything other then heterosexual. It's very frustrating, as I don't believe in that, nor am I raising my girls to believe that, and she posts crap about it on FB daily. Thank you again. It's funny you asked that question. I was actually planning to post the very same one here. I'm not too eloquent when it comes to quoting scripture, but I know that I have always believed that God saw us all before we were born. Every living minute was laid out before a single day had passed. Doesn't that mean that He knew the path we would walk? I can't believe that He has no place other than in His arms for every one of us, if we believe in Him. That's all I need to get through this. My mother has a good friend who has difficulty accepting her step daughter being Lesbian. I told my mom as religions should believe in the infallibility of God that maybe just maybe it is conceivable to believe that God put people whom he created Gay, Lesbian, Transgender, Bi, etc in our lives to test if we would follow the greatest commandment to love one another as him.
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lbrock44
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Jun 29, 2014 2:56:24 GMT
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Post by lbrock44 on Aug 5, 2015 1:27:21 GMT
Noah sounds like a really amazing kid, and he's so lucky to have such a wonderful family.
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Post by angiet on Aug 5, 2015 1:40:07 GMT
Thank you for sharing your story and Noah's. Noah is lucky to have you.
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Post by nantini on Aug 5, 2015 2:09:47 GMT
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. I wish the best for Noah, he certainly has a wonderful loving support system.
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Post by alittleintrepid on Aug 5, 2015 2:23:57 GMT
Just went to your blog. Noah is adorable and you're a great mom. Thank you for sharing your journey with us...please tell Noah that I'm proud of him for being true to himself and helping those that come after him!
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Post by metaldancer on Aug 5, 2015 3:18:05 GMT
Thank you so much for linking us to your blog!! Those pictures are wonderful and tell such an awesome story! It's a brave, new world, Noah...you're going to shine in it.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Aug 5, 2015 4:51:10 GMT
Thank you for sharing the story of Noah and his mom I look forward to watching Noah grow and supporting him on his journey through your blog postings.
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boop
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Jul 17, 2015 17:01:22 GMT
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Post by boop on Aug 5, 2015 5:44:31 GMT
Thank you for sharing this and a big congratulations on welcoming your son into your family! Noah is lucky to have parents who are so supportive and encouraging of him. This is a journey that will always be complex, challenging, and in need of people who can always be there for him as he grows and learns more about himself. How fantastic that he seems to be surrounded by people who can give him that unconditional love.
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Post by genny on Aug 5, 2015 15:28:13 GMT
Thank you for posting this. Your story is real, honest and full of emotion. One of my children just yesterday (we are on vacation and took a long walk down the beach) told me they were confused about their sexuality. I know it's a different thing, but your raw story could not have come at a better time for me. I will do my very best to model your faithful and accepting example of mothering at it's best as we navigate these waters together. It will just be this child and myself for awhile, as I've been asked not to breathe a word of this confession to my DH or any other family, at least for now. I admire you and Noah and your entire family tremendously. And I second the motion that you start a blog or write a book - you are a fabolous writer! Genny, I can tell that you are an awesome mom too! The fact that your child was able to confide in you is huge, and your thoughtful reply here bodes well for how you will navigate this time with your child and be a source of support. Kudos and hugs to you! Thank you so much flanz, that means a great deal to me!
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Post by kckckc on Aug 5, 2015 15:34:42 GMT
Thank you for sharing. I am touched by the story of your family. Wishing all the best for Noah, you and your family!
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peppermintpatty
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Jun 26, 2014 17:47:08 GMT
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Post by peppermintpatty on Aug 5, 2015 15:35:12 GMT
Thank you for posting this! Noah is so very lucky to have you in his life. It is so sad to think of all those who are ostracized from their families because they cannot accept their children and what their wishes are. No opinion is worth losing the love of your family over and I hope that you can continue to share your story with others!
To Noah----WAY TO GO! We are proud of you and all that you are doing! I am glad that you will be able to live your life on your terms! We should all take a lesson from your strength. I hope that the strength you gain from your family will help others in their journeys!
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