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Post by destined2bmom on Nov 14, 2019 20:23:05 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending prayers and sympathy for your family. Know that we are here for you.
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Post by disneypal on Nov 14, 2019 20:24:26 GMT
I am sorry, even with the bad things that have happened, I am sure it is emotional for you. I feel for your DDs, it is hard to lose a parent.
Be at peace in knowing that his suffering is over. ((HUGS))
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Post by lucyg on Nov 14, 2019 20:47:26 GMT
I’m glad it’s over with now, and sorry for your no-doubt-mixed feelings. Have a cup of tea and a peaceful day.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 14, 2019 20:50:52 GMT
My heart goes out to you at this difficult and confused emotional time.
May your children find healing in the future.
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Post by tentoes on Nov 14, 2019 22:19:36 GMT
It's never easy to lose a parent. ((HUGS)) to you, and to your children. Yes, sometimes it's best to only try and remember the good times, and put the bad times in the background.
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Post by twinks on Nov 14, 2019 22:36:30 GMT
Hugs to you and your children at this difficult and conflicting time.
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msladibug
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Post by msladibug on Nov 14, 2019 22:39:13 GMT
(((HUGS))) to you and your children.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 14, 2019 22:58:49 GMT
Take care of you!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))
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Post by flanz on Nov 14, 2019 23:07:05 GMT
Words fail me, but I'm sending you love and cyber hugs, along with thoughts for peace and healing for all of you! (((HUGS)))
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Sue
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Post by Sue on Nov 14, 2019 23:11:25 GMT
I'm so sorry for all the hurt you and your family have suffered because of this man the last few years. And now I'm sorry also that his passing is confusingly painful for all of you who are saying goodbye. You've been a strong and courageous woman. I wish you and your family peace at last. Hugs.
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Post by roberta on Nov 14, 2019 23:16:43 GMT
Thinking of you and yours.
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teddyw
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Post by teddyw on Nov 14, 2019 23:22:07 GMT
I’m so glad this is over for you. Hopefully your kids can have some peace with all this. Sorry for your loss. Even though it was a horrible end to your marriage and that part of your life it’s still a loss.
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Post by quinlove on Nov 15, 2019 2:22:52 GMT
Sending you hugs and love. Be gentle with yourself. ❤️
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Post by AussieMeg on Nov 15, 2019 2:45:00 GMT
and thinking about my kids. Two are communicating with me. The DD I struggle with wont, she’s probably thinking about how this is all my fault. DD has not let anyone tell them he’s been in prison, or for what. This makes me quite angry for you. She's not a little kid who is having trouble dealing with her parents' divorce and blaming one parent. He nearly fkn killed you for goodness sake! Where would she be laying the blame if he'd been successful?! Argh. Anyway. I'm sorry for the pain this has caused you and your family.
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Post by jenjie on Nov 15, 2019 3:04:23 GMT
I was listening to a sermon today and the guy said “there’s no kind of pain like kid pain.” When they hurt, you hurt. I’m sorry.
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Post by KikiPea on Nov 15, 2019 3:19:45 GMT
I missed your OP. I am so sorry your family had to go through this. Big augs and prayers for all of you!
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Post by Baseballmom23 on Nov 15, 2019 3:56:55 GMT
(((hugs))) may you all find peace
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zella
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Post by zella on Nov 15, 2019 4:26:41 GMT
I'm so sorry that you still have problems with your kids after everything he did. Hard to believe. I hope that his death will bring you a new, more complete sense of peace and resolution. Can't say I'm sorry he died. And as you say, he did pay for his sins; that rarely seems to be the case.
I want to say too, how kind it is of you to care about me when you're going through all this. Just speaks to your character. Hope you don't have another rough winter up there.
Just remember to take care of yourself, no matter what happens, okay? Be good to yourself. You deserve it.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Nov 15, 2019 4:30:05 GMT
and thinking about my kids. Two are communicating with me. The DD I struggle with wont, she’s probably thinking about how this is all my fault. DD has not let anyone tell them he’s been in prison, or for what. This makes me quite angry for you. She's not a little kid who is having trouble dealing with her parents' divorce and blaming one parent. He nearly fkn killed you for goodness sake! Where would she be laying the blame if he'd been successful?! Argh. Anyway. I'm sorry for the pain this has caused you and your family. This is why I’m so conflicted. I get that he was their dad, and she wants to hold in to some idealized view. But a big part of me is indignant, and tired of always being the bigger person. Reading her sentimental “Memorial “ on Instagram really stuck in not just my craw, but my son here. At least if I’d died, she would probably have written a nice sentimental post about me. Thank you. Your post helped. Sometimes i think I try to hard to see from everyone else’s view, instead of ask how I feel.
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Post by MZF on Nov 15, 2019 11:03:04 GMT
(hugs) wishing you and your children peace
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Post by Patter on Nov 15, 2019 11:04:26 GMT
I am so sorry for your family's loss. Hugs and prayers!
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 15, 2019 12:36:54 GMT
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