huskergal
Pearl Clutcher
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Post by huskergal on Dec 3, 2021 17:58:32 GMT
I absolutely cannot reconcile how people who are so adamantly against abortion do not give 2 shits about living, breathing, autonomous children who get slaughtered by guns.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Dec 3, 2021 18:01:53 GMT
Does anyone know if they have other kids?
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pinklady
Drama Llama
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Post by pinklady on Dec 3, 2021 18:16:02 GMT
Does anyone know if they have other kids? Regardless, both parents should be permanently sterilized.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2021 18:22:13 GMT
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Post by sideways on Dec 3, 2021 18:25:55 GMT
I am at my hair appointment right now in downtown Oxford. I’m so angry right now. This tragedy was so preventable, on several levels.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Dec 3, 2021 18:27:02 GMT
For sure. Also, I’m sure they would say that you can’t use it if it’s locked up. Duh. How are you going to protect yourself from those other gun owners if your gun is safe?? (Note the sarcasm).
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Post by sideways on Dec 3, 2021 18:28:15 GMT
Does anyone know if they have other kids? There is at least one more. I saw a report mentioning an 18 year old half or step brother. The dad was also recently in trouble in Florida for child support. I don’t know if that was for the 18 year old from when he was a minor, or if there is another minor child in Florida.
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Post by busy on Dec 3, 2021 18:29:32 GMT
These fucking parents. Thank god they are charged. But also, I don't understand why the school allowed him to stay. It says the parents didn't choose to take him out of school after the meeting, but parental choice doesn't usually have anything to do with suspensions, etc. This kid was clearly disturbed in a way that could (and did) harm others - he shouldn't have been onsite. NYT article
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Dec 3, 2021 18:54:13 GMT
Prosecuter McDonald needs the support of the peas!
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Post by Merge on Dec 3, 2021 19:19:20 GMT
These fucking parents. Thank god they are charged. But also, I don't understand why the school allowed him to stay. It says the parents didn't choose to take him out of school after the meeting, but parental choice doesn't usually have anything to do with suspensions, etc. This kid was clearly disturbed in a way that could (and did) harm others - he shouldn't have been onsite. NYT articleGenerally speaking, schools have very little ability to remove a student from campus unless there is an active threat in progress.
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Post by busy on Dec 3, 2021 19:36:26 GMT
These fucking parents. Thank god they are charged. But also, I don't understand why the school allowed him to stay. It says the parents didn't choose to take him out of school after the meeting, but parental choice doesn't usually have anything to do with suspensions, etc. This kid was clearly disturbed in a way that could (and did) harm others - he shouldn't have been onsite. NYT articleGenerally speaking, schools have very little ability to remove a student from campus unless there is an active threat in progress. Kids get suspended for stupid shit all the time... why not suspend them for this? Maybe it varies from state to state but a kid in my son's grade was just suspended for three days for calling a teacher a bitch. This kid's issues certainly were worse.
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Post by Merge on Dec 3, 2021 19:42:39 GMT
Generally speaking, schools have very little ability to remove a student from campus unless there is an active threat in progress. Kids get suspended for stupid shit all the time... why not suspend them for this? Maybe it varies from state to state but a kid in my son's grade was just suspended for three days for calling a teacher a bitch. This kid's issues certainly were worse. Schools around here - and in many parts of the country - avoid suspension as much as possible, especially out of school suspension. Lots of research to show that students of color have been suspended much more frequently than white students for the same transgressions, and of course for many students a suspension is a vacation with video games where they do no work and don't learn anything. The preference now is for restorative justice and keeping kids in school. Clearly, there are flaws, but out of school suspensions are not seen as solving behavior problems. Lots of kids see it as a reward rather than a punishment. (And I don't get the impression that this kid's very questionable parents would have made his life miserable during a suspension as you or I might do.)
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2021 19:55:59 GMT
The preference now is for restorative justice and keeping kids in school. Clearly, there are flaws, but out of school suspensions are not seen as solving behavior problems. Lots of kids see it as a reward rather than a punishment. I also think this particular student might have just moved the shooting from the hallways to the entrance court at either morning or afternoon bell if he'd been kicked out.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Dec 3, 2021 20:01:12 GMT
Apparently the parents are now missing.
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Post by epeanymous on Dec 3, 2021 20:01:44 GMT
I absolutely cannot reconcile how people who are so adamantly against abortion do not give 2 shits about living, breathing, autonomous children who get slaughtered by guns. They have souls now so when they are murdered they go to heaven.
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Post by busy on Dec 3, 2021 20:03:19 GMT
Kids get suspended for stupid shit all the time... why not suspend them for this? Maybe it varies from state to state but a kid in my son's grade was just suspended for three days for calling a teacher a bitch. This kid's issues certainly were worse. Schools around here - and in many parts of the country - avoid suspension as much as possible, especially out of school suspension. Lots of research to show that students of color have been suspended much more frequently than white students for the same transgressions, and of course for many students a suspension is a vacation with video games where they do no work and don't learn anything. The preference now is for restorative justice and keeping kids in school. Clearly, there are flaws, but out of school suspensions are not seen as solving behavior problems. Lots of kids see it as a reward rather than a punishment. (And I don't get the impression that this kid's very questionable parents would have made his life miserable during a suspension as you or I might do.) I’m aware of the research on suspension and its disparate impact; I don’t think it’s a great tool to be used frequently (and I disagree with DS’s school suspending the kid in the case I cited). However, in an extreme case like this where it seems like there’s a real potential for danger to others… I don’t know, seems like there needs to be stronger action taken. Hindsight is always 20/20 but what’s been shared publicly is alarming to say the least, and there’s almost always more than we know that’s even worse.
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Post by epeanymous on Dec 3, 2021 20:04:24 GMT
Kids get suspended for stupid shit all the time... why not suspend them for this? Maybe it varies from state to state but a kid in my son's grade was just suspended for three days for calling a teacher a bitch. This kid's issues certainly were worse. Schools around here - and in many parts of the country - avoid suspension as much as possible, especially out of school suspension. Lots of research to show that students of color have been suspended much more frequently than white students for the same transgressions, and of course for many students a suspension is a vacation with video games where they do no work and don't learn anything. The preference now is for restorative justice and keeping kids in school. Clearly, there are flaws, but out of school suspensions are not seen as solving behavior problems. Lots of kids see it as a reward rather than a punishment. (And I don't get the impression that this kid's very questionable parents would have made his life miserable during a suspension as you or I might do.) As someone who had a kid at a high school that was happy to suspend and expel kids (which I do not favor), when the school had a similar issue (kid who was posting a ton about guns and enemies on social media), the school did the exact same thing -- called in the kid and the parents, and when the parents said the kid was fine and the kid said he didn't mean it, did nothing. Maybe more will come out, but my read here is that the parents and kid persuaded the school he wasn't serious and wasn't a danger. I don't think that the school disciplinary policy -- whatever it was -- probably even mattered.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Dec 3, 2021 20:11:10 GMT
Apparently the parents are now missing. Maybe ask Brian Laundries parents to help find them….
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Post by epeanymous on Dec 3, 2021 20:21:22 GMT
For sure. Also, I’m sure they would say that you can’t use it if it’s locked up. Duh. How are you going to protect yourself from those other gun owners if your gun is safe?? (Note the sarcasm). We're only a day away from people advocating that students at school arm themselves.
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Dec 3, 2021 20:21:47 GMT
"You have to learn not to get caught." If this is true, that is disgusting. I hope those parents suffer the rest of their life, every single f*ing day, knowing what their child did since they laughed off warning signs. And I am normally in the camp of "parents aren't always to blame for what their kid does," but in this case, I am making an exception.
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Post by Merge on Dec 3, 2021 20:28:48 GMT
Schools around here - and in many parts of the country - avoid suspension as much as possible, especially out of school suspension. Lots of research to show that students of color have been suspended much more frequently than white students for the same transgressions, and of course for many students a suspension is a vacation with video games where they do no work and don't learn anything. The preference now is for restorative justice and keeping kids in school. Clearly, there are flaws, but out of school suspensions are not seen as solving behavior problems. Lots of kids see it as a reward rather than a punishment. (And I don't get the impression that this kid's very questionable parents would have made his life miserable during a suspension as you or I might do.) I’m aware of the research on suspension and its disparate impact; I don’t think it’s a great tool to be used frequently (and I disagree with DS’s school suspending the kid in the case I cited). However, in an extreme case like this where it seems like there’s a real potential for danger to others… I don’t know, seems like there needs to be stronger action taken. Hindsight is always 20/20 but what’s been shared publicly is alarming to say the least, and there’s almost always more than we know that’s even worse. That's the whole thing, though - hindsight is 20/20. I cannot tell you how many kids I've had concerns about over the years - kids who draw very disturbing pictures, make violent threats, etc. So far, none of them has ever shot up a school. And suspending them wouldn't have done anything. I'm not at all saying the school did the right thing in this case or that we can't do more. A lot of schools, mine included, would have gotten a counselor and social worker involved at the point of first concern. Admin is rarely equipped to determine whether what a student says/does is a real concern or a cry for help. Because we usually don't and can't know ahead of time which students pose a serious threat, to me, the answer is to charge every parent whose child brings a family-purchased firearm to school and/or uses it to shoot someone (and where no laws exist to allow this, make those laws). A kid who doesn't have access to a gun can't shoot anyone, plain and simple. The schools cannot be where the buck stops in preventing school shootings. It has to be on the people who provide kids with guns in the first place. In my city alone, there have been two students apprehended in school with loaded firearms just this week. Fortunately, no one was injured. But those parents should IMO be charged with something and have a price to pay. (They won't, because Texas, but they should be.)
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Post by Merge on Dec 3, 2021 20:31:16 GMT
For sure. Also, I’m sure they would say that you can’t use it if it’s locked up. Duh. How are you going to protect yourself from those other gun owners if your gun is safe?? (Note the sarcasm). We're only a day away from people advocating that students at school arm themselves. They've already advocated for K-12 teachers to be armed. Why not students 18 and up as well, right? Or maybe even younger? People in this country have lost their damn minds. (I put the paper blinds up on my classroom window today because we're having our twice-annual lockdown drill on Monday morning. Just part and parcel of being a school teacher these days.)
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Post by onelasttime on Dec 3, 2021 20:31:41 GMT
It seems the parents are on the lam..
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2021 20:32:47 GMT
Apparently the parents are now missing. Maybe ask Brian Laundries parents to help find them…. Or perhaps they are at Mar-a-Lago.
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Post by Skellinton on Dec 3, 2021 20:34:54 GMT
Generally speaking, schools have very little ability to remove a student from campus unless there is an active threat in progress. Kids get suspended for stupid shit all the time... why not suspend them for this? Maybe it varies from state to state but a kid in my son's grade was just suspended for three days for calling a teacher a bitch. This kid's issues certainly were worse. In my district several years ago a kid was sent home for bringing a Lego minifig gun to school. I cannot believe this kid was not sent home, but I don't imagine it would have changed what happened.
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Post by Merge on Dec 3, 2021 20:34:56 GMT
Maybe ask Brian Laundries parents to help find them…. Or perhaps they are at Mar-a-Lago. My first thought as well.
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Post by busy on Dec 3, 2021 20:35:53 GMT
The schools cannot be where the buck stops in preventing school shootings. It has to be on the people who provide kids with guns in the first place. 100% agree. The parents are definitely the ones to be accountable here. When there are massively terrible parents like these, though... it just feels like there should be *some* backstop at the school or somewhere to protect the rest of the school. But I'm also not one who supports on-campus police and other crap like that, so I don't know what the answer is. Well, actual meaningful gun reform is the best answer, but... sigh.
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Post by kristi521 on Dec 3, 2021 20:38:17 GMT
Holly, Brandon, Bloomfield Hills, Clarkston, Clawson, Troy, Rochester, Lake Orion, Warren Consolidated school districts all closed tomorrow because of copycat threats. Some threats have been deemed not credible, but schools closing anyways out of an abundance of caution. Holly and Clarkston closed the rest of the week. My youngest is at a school in Macomb County. There was a threat going around social media on Wednesday night. The school didn't address it with the parents until 15 minutes after school was to start. I called my daughter out of school Thursday as a result. Do I think it was hoax/practical joke? Likely it was, but not willing to take that chance. The email we got from the school said that the threat was not credible and the student was not attending school that day...To me, those sentences contradict each other.
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Post by Skellinton on Dec 3, 2021 20:38:34 GMT
We're only a day away from people advocating that students at school arm themselves. They've already advocated for K-12 teachers to be armed. Why not students 18 and up as well, right? Or maybe even younger? People in this country have lost their damn minds. (I put the paper blinds up on my classroom window today because we're having our twice-annual lockdown drill on Monday morning. Just part and parcel of being a school teacher these days.) We have monthly drills, they alternate between outside threat and inside threat. Horrible to have to gently explain to the 3 and 4 year olds what we are practicing.
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Post by Merge on Dec 3, 2021 20:43:46 GMT
They've already advocated for K-12 teachers to be armed. Why not students 18 and up as well, right? Or maybe even younger? People in this country have lost their damn minds. (I put the paper blinds up on my classroom window today because we're having our twice-annual lockdown drill on Monday morning. Just part and parcel of being a school teacher these days.) We have monthly drills, they alternate between outside threat and inside threat. Horrible to have to gently explain to the 3 and 4 year olds what we are practicing. Uggghhhhhhh. I'm glad they're doing the drill while I have 4th graders and not the littles. I can't imagine how you keep them quiet. The only good thing I can say about upper elementary and these drills is that they've been doing them their whole school lives now. They're sadly nonchalant about it all.
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