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Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2021 15:59:42 GMT
"A 16-year-old girl whom police said was mistaken for an intruder early Wednesday morning was fatally shot by her father. Police said they received a call around 4:30 a.m. saying that someone inside the home had shot at what he believed to be someone breaking in after the house's security system was activated. The 911 call, obtained by The Dispatch, was made by the mother of 16-year-old Janae Hairston, who said the teen had been shot in the garage by her father, who believed she was an intruder. "
I am very sorry for this family. What a horrific thing. It's what can often happen w/the "shoot first, ask questions later" approach.
This is exactly the kind of case where charges are often not filed because the parents are suffering. And yet a child is dead because her parents believed a gun would keep them safer and they had no idea how to actually use one safely.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Dec 30, 2021 16:13:51 GMT
Not the first time, surely not the last. It happens too often. Possibly she was sneaking in late. Or just went to the garage to find something...
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Post by gar on Dec 30, 2021 16:34:31 GMT
Tragic but sadly it’s bound to happen from time to time considering the circumstances.
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Post by hop2 on Dec 30, 2021 17:18:21 GMT
Who shoots a human being before they can even see them to identify them?
Just because a person may or may not be an ‘intruder’ does not make them a threat to you so it’s not ‘self defense’ to shoot an intruder you can’t even see properly yet to determine IF they are actually a threat. That’s just trigger happy stupidity.
There should at least be manslaughter charges. I mean if you can charge a parent who forgot their kid in a car then you can charge a parent who would shoot their kid before they’ve even identified them.
This is a ‘tragedy’ but a completely preventable one. This is not an accident it is negligent to shoot a person you didn’t even see yet.
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Post by myshelly on Dec 30, 2021 17:21:18 GMT
Why should charges be filed?
The man meets all the requirements of self defense.
He genuinely believed someone was breaking into his house.
The fact that he was mistaken makes it a tragedy, not a crime.
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Post by gramasue on Dec 30, 2021 17:27:03 GMT
That is so incredibly sad.
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Post by freecharlie on Dec 30, 2021 17:37:48 GMT
Ds and I just had this conversation as to why I don't have an unsecured handgun in my room.
I've had nightmares where I think there is an intruder and I accidentally shot one of my kids. It terrifies me.
Stbx has a handgun in a safe in his nightstand. I only hope that having to put in the code would allow him to distinguish between a family member or pet and an actual intruder
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Post by epeanymous on Dec 30, 2021 17:40:23 GMT
I have posted about this before. I grew up in a house where my father kept an unsecured, loaded handgun under his mattress. Combine that with his substance abuse, and I was terrified something like this would happen to me.
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Post by Merge on Dec 30, 2021 18:17:27 GMT
Once again showing the world the statistical truth that if you have a gun in your home it is much more likely to be used against you or one of your family members than to be used in self-defense.
The dad should be charged because the daughter was not an intruder and verification of that should have been simple. Even the police are required to announce themselves before they shoot someone. Otherwise, what's to keep anyone from shooting a family member in an argument and saying they thought the person was an intruder? To me, if you choose to have a gun in your house, you take responsibility for the possibility that you may do something stupid with it and be held liable.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Dec 30, 2021 18:41:27 GMT
Why should charges be filed? The man meets all the requirements of self defense. He genuinely believed someone was breaking into his house. The fact that he was mistaken makes it a tragedy, not a crime. The fact that this ISN'T considered a crime by all is the problem.
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Post by lucyg on Dec 30, 2021 19:00:14 GMT
Why should charges be filed? The man meets all the requirements of self defense. He genuinely believed someone was breaking into his house. The fact that he was mistaken makes it a tragedy, not a crime. Sometimes drivers “genuinely believe” there is no one in the crosswalk before they blow through the intersection and kill some kids. We hold them responsible, anyway. At least, in California we do. When you live in a house with other people and you cannot positively account for their whereabouts in the middle of the night, it is not an honest mistake to just start shooting at any moving body in the dark. YMMV, of course.
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Post by hop2 on Dec 30, 2021 19:03:15 GMT
Why should charges be filed? The man meets all the requirements of self defense. He genuinely believed someone was breaking into his house. The fact that he was mistaken makes it a tragedy, not a crime. In my state you can not just shoot a person for breaking into your house. You need to show a reason why you feared for your life. If he couldn’t see the person well enough to see that it was his daughter then he didn’t see the person well enough to have a cause for self defense. Trespassing, even breaking & entering are not of themselves cause to kill in self defense. If he could not see her to tell if it was his daughter then he could not see her well enough to require killing in self defense. In fact he exhibited indifference to human life. ( manslaughter at the very least ) He should be charged no one in his home is safe if this is how he “responsibly” uses a gun
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Post by myshelly on Dec 30, 2021 19:13:04 GMT
Why should charges be filed? The man meets all the requirements of self defense. He genuinely believed someone was breaking into his house. The fact that he was mistaken makes it a tragedy, not a crime. The fact that this ISN'T considered a crime by all is the problem. I don’t think it’s anything approaching a crime and it’s hard for me to fathom how anyone could.
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Post by myshelly on Dec 30, 2021 19:17:01 GMT
Why should charges be filed? The man meets all the requirements of self defense. He genuinely believed someone was breaking into his house. The fact that he was mistaken makes it a tragedy, not a crime. In my state you can not just shoot a person for breaking into your house. You need to show a reason why you feared for your life. If he couldn’t see the person well enough to see that it was his daughter then he didn’t see the person well enough to have a cause for self defense. Trespassing, even breaking & entering are not of themselves cause to kill in self defense. If he could not see her to tell if it was his daughter then he could not see her well enough to require killing in self defense. In fact he exhibited indifference to human life. ( manslaughter at the very least ) He should be charged no one in his home is safe if this is how he “responsibly” uses a gun It truly terrifies and repulses me that there is a small majority of states where this is true. I absolutely believe with every fiber of my being that if someone breaks into your house you have the legal and moral right to shoot to kill. I don’t understand how anyone could think that’s a bad thing. You should always have the right to protect your household (and I personally think that should extend to your property and your business). I would not want to live in a state without those protections.
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Post by nightnurse on Dec 30, 2021 19:32:01 GMT
I don’t want to live somewhere where teenagers are accidentally gunned down and people just shrug and say it was bound to happen, or it’s a reasonable price to pay for gun ownership
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Post by gar on Dec 30, 2021 19:33:26 GMT
I absolutely believe with every fiber of my being that if someone breaks into your house you have the legal and moral right to shoot to kill. I don’t understand how anyone could think that’s a bad thing. I think that's a bad thing. I don't think burglary warrants death. It is not excusable to break in to someone's house but killing someone is not an equal retaliation. Of course in the UK the chances of that person breaking into your house being armed is very low so that undoubtedly colours my opinion. I guess yours is based on the probability of them being armed. But suppose they broke in to steal stuff from your garage and were going to leave with their haul. As wrong and bad as that is I don't think it warrants being shot, and potentially, killed.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Dec 30, 2021 19:34:59 GMT
There are times when I wish Proboards had a downvote option like Reddit. This is one of those times.
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Post by Merge on Dec 30, 2021 20:10:03 GMT
What's wrong with this country is that we have a whole lot of people who think that rights come without responsibilities. That's not how it works in a civilized society.
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Post by chlerbie on Dec 30, 2021 20:14:48 GMT
In my state you can not just shoot a person for breaking into your house. You need to show a reason why you feared for your life. If he couldn’t see the person well enough to see that it was his daughter then he didn’t see the person well enough to have a cause for self defense. Trespassing, even breaking & entering are not of themselves cause to kill in self defense. If he could not see her to tell if it was his daughter then he could not see her well enough to require killing in self defense. In fact he exhibited indifference to human life. ( manslaughter at the very least ) He should be charged no one in his home is safe if this is how he “responsibly” uses a gun It truly terrifies and repulses me that there is a small majority of states where this is true. I absolutely believe with every fiber of my being that if someone breaks into your house you have the legal and moral right to shoot to kill. I don’t understand how anyone could think that’s a bad thing. You should always have the right to protect your household (and I personally think that should extend to your property and your business). I would not want to live in a state without those protections. Legal and moral right to "SHOOT TO KILL"? Because someone wants to steal my TV? I get defending yourself if your life is in danger, but I just can't fathom shooting to KILL someone who is robbing me. It's not worth me living with myself knowing I'd taken someone's life over my personal belongings.
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Post by Skellinton on Dec 30, 2021 20:51:46 GMT
It truly terrifies and repulses me that there is a small majority of states where this is true. I absolutely believe with every fiber of my being that if someone breaks into your house you have the legal and moral right to shoot to kill. I don’t understand how anyone could think that’s a bad thing. You should always have the right to protect your household (and I personally think that should extend to your property and your business). I would not want to live in a state without those protections. Legal and moral right to "SHOOT TO KILL"? Because someone wants to steal my TV? I get defending yourself if your life is in danger, but I just can't fathom shooting to KILL someone who is robbing me. It's not worth me living with myself knowing I'd taken someone's life over my personal belongings. The "moral" right is just mind boggling to me. Who the hell thinks shooting someone without being positive they are threat to them is a moral right? My husband who doesn't agree with me on gun rights even said he hopes this guy goes to jail. His comment was "You don't pull the trigger unless you can positively identify that the person in your home is armed or dangerous. Period. The fact that this man shot his daughter shows he didn't take any time to identify who it was. ". Cops are supposed to ask the person to raise their hands, drop the weapon, etc. They aren't supposed to just roll up on a situation and shoot first ask questions later.
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Post by valincal on Dec 30, 2021 20:58:12 GMT
Those are some dumbass criminals, breaking into American homes knowing the homeowner is likely armed. You’d think they wait until no one was home.
Moral? Wtf.
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Post by anaterra on Dec 30, 2021 21:39:13 GMT
I do agree that the man should've made sure he was shooting at an intruder... that was wayyyy wrong...
But im on the bench of if you are breaking into MY HOUSE... i WILL shoot you before you shoot me..
I live rural so maybe that makes a different mindset... but i dont care if you are breaking in to steal a tv or a slice of bread... if i feel worried about you breaking in... im shooting and yes it is to kill!!!
The person breaking in obviously doesnt care about his own life enough to buy his own tv instead of stealing one!!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2021 21:48:58 GMT
Legal and moral right to "SHOOT TO KILL"? Because someone wants to steal my TV? Absolutely. 'Murika! And then people wonder why our society is so messed up. Protection of property = right to kill.
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Post by ~summer~ on Dec 30, 2021 21:52:43 GMT
I agree that you shouldn’t be able to just shoot someone because they are in your home. I once accidentally walked into a house bc it was Sunday and the way they had the for sale sign placed I thought it was an open house (it wasn’t!).
My brother also once walked into the wrong apartment when he was in early 20s and well slightly inebriated…
.eta - and not to mention the hypothetical high kid that breaks into your house to look for stuff to steal - I just don’t think they should be killed
And I also agree - who shoots at something they can’t even see? I have teens - and anytime I hear noises at night I assume it is they! (Them?)
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Post by gar on Dec 30, 2021 21:56:32 GMT
The person breaking in obviously doesnt care about his own life enough to buy his own tv instead of stealing one!! You must know it isn't that simple.
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Post by Merge on Dec 30, 2021 22:02:02 GMT
Just popping back in to add that if my husband killed one of our daughters in the night because he thought she was an intruder, it wouldn’t matter if he was charged or not because I would have killed him before the police ever got to him. I could just claim I thought he was an intruder, after all, and since he’d just fired a gun, I reasonably believed him to be armed and dangerous.
If I truly believed there to be an intruder in my home, I’d run out the back bedroom door with my phone and call the police. My first concern is preservation of my life and my family’s, and like the vast majority of people, I am in no way qualified to confront a potentially armed intruder. I’m zero percent concerned about protecting my TV.
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Dec 30, 2021 22:04:32 GMT
The person breaking in obviously doesnt care about his own life enough to buy his own tv instead of stealing one!! You must know it isn't that simple. Yes. I do know. And i dont just shoot randomly... i have never shot AT a person.. We have cameras around our gates and house... i can almost always see who is approaching our house.. so if the person looks suspicious and doesn't knock... i can't say that either i or dh wouldn't load the gun... For the record we dont have a loaded gun in the house.... the guns are locked. . The ammo is locked... in separate gun cases... but we do have both...
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Post by PLurker on Dec 30, 2021 22:07:53 GMT
Just popping back in to add that if my husband killed one of our daughters in the night because he thought she was an intruder, it wouldn’t matter if he was charged or not because I would have killed him before the police ever got to him. I could just claim I thought he was an intruder, after all, and since he’d just fired a gun, I reasonably believed him to be armed and dangerous. If I truly believed there to be an intruder in my home, I’d run out the back bedroom door with my phone and call the police. My first concern is preservation of my life and my family’s, and like the vast majority of people, I am in no way qualified to confront a potentially armed intruder. I’m zero percent concerned about protecting my TV. Exactly. While I have no reason to not believe the father, people can (and do) claim whatever they want to get away with stuff. Gotta be careful before self defense becomes who shoots and kills first. Faster trigger finger "wins".
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Post by gar on Dec 30, 2021 22:08:58 GMT
You must know it isn't that simple. Yes. I do know. And i dont just shoot randomly... i have never shot AT a person.. We have cameras around our gates and house... i can almost always see who is approaching our house.. so if the person looks suspicious and doesn't knock... i can't say that either i or dh wouldn't load the gun... For the record we dont have a loaded gun in the house.... the guns are locked. . The ammo is locked... in separate gun cases... but we do have both... I can't imagine living like that.
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Post by dizzycheermom on Dec 30, 2021 22:15:55 GMT
In my state you can not just shoot a person for breaking into your house. You need to show a reason why you feared for your life. If he couldn’t see the person well enough to see that it was his daughter then he didn’t see the person well enough to have a cause for self defense. Trespassing, even breaking & entering are not of themselves cause to kill in self defense. If he could not see her to tell if it was his daughter then he could not see her well enough to require killing in self defense. In fact he exhibited indifference to human life. ( manslaughter at the very least ) He should be charged no one in his home is safe if this is how he “responsibly” uses a gun It truly terrifies and repulses me that there is a small majority of states where this is true. I absolutely believe with every fiber of my being that if someone breaks into your house you have the legal and moral right to shoot to kill. I don’t understand how anyone could think that’s a bad thing. You should always have the right to protect your household (and I personally think that should extend to your property and your business). I would not want to live in a state without those protections. But no one broke into his house…
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