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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 18:31:32 GMT
I disagree with you, and that’s fine. But please don’t accuse me of something I’m not doing. Kate is the victim, not the Kensington Palace PR, and I didn’t blame her for anything. Here's the perfect reply I saw on another forum...not written by me, but sums up what I think perfectly: I haven’t said anything negative about Kate or had any crazy theories, and I’ve been complaining about their PR for weeks. Sure, William & Kate are head of KP, and I personally think they need to recognize that they need a better team. That is their responsibility. But that’s hardly victim blaming.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Mar 23, 2024 18:31:53 GMT
Hey cancer sucks - it always sucks - but these people have chosen a life where they say their divine right is better than everyone else. Sorry not sorry, I don't feel sorry for them ever. King Charles was no better than a mediocre person - and doubt William is any better and we're not even getting into Andrew's utter ridulousness - you want to claim the ruler of your country is ok with raping an 18 year old - oh but wait he's at lest 4 people from ruling so it's okay - yeah - you do you - I just seriously have never and do no understand why we keep sending our $$$$ into that insanity birthright is WRONG and who actually wants to justify this? I’m kinda confused Darcy, what dollars are you personally sending to the UK? And by what mechanism is anyone in the US sending money to the BRM? I'm not a royalist by any means, but I honestly don’t understand why this enrages you so much. 🤷♀️ look at tourism and specifically us tourism around the monarchy - it's beyond ridiculous - but you do you
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Post by Darcy Collins on Mar 23, 2024 18:38:26 GMT
Hey cancer sucks - it always sucks - but these people have chosen a life where they say their divine right is better than everyone else. Sorry not sorry, I don't feel sorry for them ever. King Charles was no better than a mediocre person - and doubt William is any better and we're not even getting into Andrew's utter ridulousness - you want to claim the ruler of your country is ok with raping an 18 year old - oh but wait he's at lest 4 people from ruling so it's okay - yeah - you do you - I just seriously have never and do no understand why we keep sending our $$$$ into that insanity birthright is WRONG and who actually wants to justify this? I’m kinda confused Darcy, what dollars are you personally sending to the UK? And by what mechanism is anyone in the US sending money to the BRM? I'm not a royalist by any means, but I honestly don’t understand why this enrages you so much. 🤷♀️ And you explain to to me why Andrew is in line to the throne - go ahead - explain to me why this doesn't enrage you.
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Post by gillyp on Mar 23, 2024 18:38:59 GMT
I’m kinda confused Darcy, what dollars are you personally sending to the UK? And by what mechanism is anyone in the US sending money to the BRM? I'm not a royalist by any means, but I honestly don’t understand why this enrages you so much. 🤷♀️ look at tourism and specifically us tourism around the monarchy - it's beyond ridiculous - but you do you Maybe our US Peas who come over and ask beforehand about visiting London and the palaces etc. etc. are better placed to explain why they spend their $ here?
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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 18:39:50 GMT
It was foolish to describe it as a planned surgery, right after they had announced an international trip that would then be canceled, without addressing that discrepancy. This harping on about "planned surgery" is starting to do my head in. Say, for arguments sake, the Princess saw her doctor on a Thursday in January and was told "that problem we've been discussing really needs to be addressed, I can operate next Wednesday" and she agrees, that IS planned surgery. It might be short notice but it is still planned. If she saw the doc on Thursday and he said we need to operate right away and they did that day, that is emergency surgery. The international trips are arranged months in advance so of course they can announce one and then almost immediately cancel in this scenario. I really, REALLY do not get what the problem is! And that’s exactly what a good PR team would have made sure was well explained in the initial statement, knowing it would cause a lot of confusion. You know what planned surgery means, I know what planned surgery means, but obviously the general public got a different impression from the statement. You’ve seen the confusion it caused. If the second I saw that wording I thought “oh that’s going to cause problems,” then I feel like a professional PR team should have seen that coming and headed it off at the pass.
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Post by busy on Mar 23, 2024 18:40:34 GMT
It was foolish to describe it as a planned surgery, right after they had announced an international trip that would then be canceled, without addressing that discrepancy. This harping on about "planned surgery" is starting to do my head in. Say, for arguments sake, the Princess saw her doctor on a Thursday in January and was told "that problem we've been discussing really needs to be addressed, I can operate next Wednesday" and she agrees, that IS planned surgery. It might be short notice but it is still planned. If she saw the doc on Thursday and he said we need to operate right away and they did that day, that is emergency surgery. The international trips are arranged months in advance so of course they can announce one and then almost immediately cancel in this scenario. I really, REALLY do not get what the problem is! The phrasing of the original statement was 100% intended to say "nothing to see here, moving on," - their use of "planned" was supposed to give the impression it was routine and nbd. Except it was clearly urgent (not emergent), given they canceled a just-announced trip. Which raised everyone's concern/suspicion. Had that original announcement been better, without giving private information, this would all be very different.
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Post by gillyp on Mar 23, 2024 18:41:51 GMT
I’m kinda confused Darcy, what dollars are you personally sending to the UK? And by what mechanism is anyone in the US sending money to the BRM? I'm not a royalist by any means, but I honestly don’t understand why this enrages you so much. 🤷♀️ And you explain to to me why Andrew is in line to the throne - go ahead - explain to me why this doesn't enrage you. Because the chances of that happening are so slim as to be almost non existent. Harry has more chance of getting to the throne. We will cross that bridge when and if we need to.
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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 18:45:46 GMT
And you explain to to me why Andrew is in line to the throne - go ahead - explain to me why this doesn't enrage you. Because the chances of that happening are so slim as to be almost non existent. Harry has more chance of getting to the throne. We will cross that bridge when and if we need to. To me, it’s the principle of the matter. Just like it disgusts me and makes me mad that someone like Trump is eligible to run for President, it disgusts me that Andrew’s actions haven’t caused him to be removed from the line of succession.
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Post by gar on Mar 23, 2024 18:48:51 GMT
Because the chances of that happening are so slim as to be almost non existent. Harry has more chance of getting to the throne. We will cross that bridge when and if we need to. To me, it’s the principle of the matter. Just like it disgusts me and makes me mad that someone like Trump is eligible to run for President, it disgusts me that Andrew’s actions haven’t caused him to be removed from the line of succession. Don’t assume it doesn’t enrage us either. He hasn’t been charged or found guilty of any crimes in the UK and therefore he is technically innocent in the eyes of the government who are the only ones who have the power to remove him. But this has been discussed to death here already.
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Post by pjaye on Mar 23, 2024 18:52:14 GMT
it all got more and more out of control because everything seemed even more suspicious. The point is that NORMAL people didn't think this was at all suspicious. After the initial, very clear announcement most people who have a passing interest in the royals might have discussed this amongst themselves and then moved on with their lives. The announcement was fine, the PR was fine. It was clear and direct...there was nothing to misinterpret. Then the two-bit celebrity media whores (mainly in America) decided to amp this up for their own benefit, they stirred up shit and rumours of abortions and affairs and her being dead, or in a coma for views and clicks & for entertainment. For attention for themselves. And it's obvious some of you fell for it hook line and sinker, and now you're embarrassed and trying to blame it all on "bad Palace PR", but it wasn't the Palace PR that made you think this was suspicious - it was listening to all the other dickheads.
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Post by gillyp on Mar 23, 2024 18:55:47 GMT
This harping on about "planned surgery" is starting to do my head in. Say, for arguments sake, the Princess saw her doctor on a Thursday in January and was told "that problem we've been discussing really needs to be addressed, I can operate next Wednesday" and she agrees, that IS planned surgery. It might be short notice but it is still planned. If she saw the doc on Thursday and he said we need to operate right away and they did that day, that is emergency surgery. The international trips are arranged months in advance so of course they can announce one and then almost immediately cancel in this scenario. I really, REALLY do not get what the problem is! And that’s exactly what a good PR team would have made sure was well explained in the initial statement, knowing it would cause a lot of confusion. You know what planned surgery means, I know what planned surgery means, but obviously the general public got a different impression from the statement. You’ve seen the confusion it caused. If the second I saw that wording I thought “oh that’s going to cause problems,” then I feel like a professional PR team should have seen that coming and headed it off at the pass. This harping on about "planned surgery" is starting to do my head in. Say, for arguments sake, the Princess saw her doctor on a Thursday in January and was told "that problem we've been discussing really needs to be addressed, I can operate next Wednesday" and she agrees, that IS planned surgery. It might be short notice but it is still planned. If she saw the doc on Thursday and he said we need to operate right away and they did that day, that is emergency surgery. The international trips are arranged months in advance so of course they can announce one and then almost immediately cancel in this scenario. I really, REALLY do not get what the problem is! The phrasing of the original statement was 100% intended to say "nothing to see here, moving on," - their use of "planned" was supposed to give the impression it was routine and nbd. Except it was clearly urgent (not emergent), given they canceled a just-announced trip. Which raised everyone's concern/suspicion. Had that original announcement been better, without giving private information, this would all be very different. As someone mentioned further up in this thread or the other one, cakediva said, I think - the furore, stories, insistence on news seems mainly to have come from the US. Most in the UK were accepting it for what it was from what I have seen. 'Planned and happening within a week' does not give the impression to me that it's routine but that something needed to happen sooner rather than later. We have NO idea how long the Princess has been receiving care/observation for whatever her medical problem was. SHE might have been told many months ago that an operation would be needed at some point and had now reached that point. That is not suspicious, it's just how it is.
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Post by busy on Mar 23, 2024 18:57:06 GMT
The announcement was fine, the PR was fine. It was clear and direct...there was nothing to misinterpret. Could not disagree more, and every comms professional I know thinks it was a shitshow.
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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 19:02:58 GMT
To me, it’s the principle of the matter. Just like it disgusts me and makes me mad that someone like Trump is eligible to run for President, it disgusts me that Andrew’s actions haven’t caused him to be removed from the line of succession. Don’t assume it doesn’t enrage us either. He hasn’t been charged or found guilty of any crimes in the UK and therefore he is technically innocent in the eyes of the government who are the only ones who have the power to remove him. But this has been discussed to death here already. I didn’t say anything about it enraging anyone. I was responding to a message that seemed to me to imply that it didn’t bother a specific poster as much because he was so far down the line and he’d never actually ascend to say that that shouldn’t matter. To me, it does matter. (Eta: And the person I was responding to was asked why it didn’t enrage her/y’all and she replied “because…”. That gives the impression that it doesn’t enrage her, whether or not that was the intention. So even if I had been commenting on whether it should or should not have enraged her, it wouldn’t have been assuming).
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Post by pjaye on Mar 23, 2024 19:05:19 GMT
Except it was clearly urgent No it wasn't. I found a breast lump - I saw my doctor (a week later), I had a mammogram (two weeks later)...then I saw a surgeon and we planned surgery for 6 weeks time to have the lump removed. I told my employer I was having surgery and that I would need some time off. I didn't tell them what for and they didn't ask. Nothing about this was "urgent" it was discovered and planned. I found the lump in September, I had surgery in December. That's the definition of routine. That's the process that is followed when someone has a symptom and surgery is PLANNED. People don't have surgery and have body parts removed for no reason. Then two weeks later I got the results. My lump was benign, but even if it was cancer, it doesn't change anything, I still did not have urgent surgery. Seriously, why can't you understand this simple concept? You doubling down on your opinion that this is the definition of urgent surgery is just plain wrong and is making you look foolish.
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Post by gar on Mar 23, 2024 19:05:23 GMT
Don’t assume it doesn’t enrage us either. He hasn’t been charged or found guilty of any crimes in the UK and therefore he is technically innocent in the eyes of the government who are the only ones who have the power to remove him. But this has been discussed to death here already. I didn’t say anything about it enraging anyone. I was responding to a message that seemed to me to imply that it didn’t bother a specific poster as much because he was so far down the line and he’d never actually ascend to say that that shouldn’t matter. To me, it does matter. Ok, wrong word. Disgusts us.
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Post by pjaye on Mar 23, 2024 19:06:02 GMT
Could not disagree more, and every comms professional I know thinks it was a shitshow. Easier to blame someone other than yourself I suppose.
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Post by nightnurse on Mar 23, 2024 19:12:13 GMT
No one in the UK would lose health insurance because they had cancer, the NHS is free for everyone. Also, any employer looking to sack someone because they're ill would be in a world of hurt. My point was that millions of people around the world would have to worry. I’m aware it’s not a concern in the civilized world but is sure as hell is a concern in the us.
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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 19:16:33 GMT
it all got more and more out of control because everything seemed even more suspicious. The point is that NORMAL people didn't think this was at all suspicious. After the initial, very clear announcement most people who have a passing interest in the royals might have discussed this amongst themselves and then moved on with their lives. The announcement was fine, the PR was fine. It was clear and direct...there was nothing to misinterpret. Then the two-bit celebrity media whores (mainly in America) decided to amp this up for their own benefit, they stirred up shit and rumours of abortions and affairs and her being dead, or in a coma for views and clicks & for entertainment. For attention for themselves. And it's obvious some of you fell for it hook line and sinker, and now you're embarrassed and trying to blame it all on "bad Palace PR", but it wasn't the Palace PR that made you think this was suspicious - it was listening to all the other dickheads. No, a lot of normal people took the statement as was intended (not at all urgent) and feel like they were trying to pull one over the public’s’ eyes and make it seem like less of a big deal than it was. For the record, I am not one of those people (eta) because I understood what they meant by the term planned surgery. And I also understood that it was purposefully used to try and help keep the public calm and less worried. But as evidenced by the sheer number of people that were upset by this, it was obvious that a better explanation of the term at the beginning could have helped a lot of people feel less confused. I think here on the pod a lot of us are more aware of medical issues and terms than a lot of people IRL. (Eta2) A better PR team would have foreseen the confusion and the statement would have included verbiage to indicate that while it was/wasn’t urgent ( none of us can really know because we don’t know what kind of cancer she has or what the abdominal surgery was for), the surgery was planned after (whatever events) had been announced so they would need to be moved/cancelled. A simple statement could have and should have prevented a lot of confusion. Without including any more detail about her illness than they originally did. Another thing that made normal people really take note, take more of an interest in this situation, is that after hearing whispers of her not having been seen they released a photo that was then pulled by 4 very reputable news agencies because it was altered in a manner that didn’t meet their guidelines. Even that didn’t have to be that big of a deal if KP had replied to requests for the original photo so the agencies had more to base their decisions on. But because they didn’t respond, the image was pulled and normal people really started speculating what the changes were. It was a very amateur job, a quick look by a good PR team should have caught the issues, and they should have been able to say that those changes might night meet the guidelines on their own, we need to include the original photo. None of that is conspiracy, and I said nothing about any of this that was cruel or that I feel the need to take back, so my opinions are not based on embarrassment. And while I agree there were a lot of terrible and crazy conspiracy theories floated around, I think it is a mistake to not acknowledge that plenty of normal people felt that this was handled poorly, and that they might have a few points. KP PR was terrible, and William and Kate have paid the price.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Mar 23, 2024 19:16:37 GMT
Catherine is no shrinking violet, i think she's a very strong woman, who knows her own mind, and while I think it's disgusting that the Royal family were pressured into making a video like this, I think Catherine got to decide how to do it. I'm sure William would have been in it if she wanted that. I don’t know if you’re married but I am and if I had a cancer diagnosis my husband would be next to me at all time for support because got each other’s backs. Thats why I am surprised by his absence not because I think that she is weak. That is you and your relationship. They make their own choices. All of this speculation and questioning of why they/she did such and such is just that. Speculation. We don’t know why people do what they do, and I understand curiosity and wondering why they made that choice. But attributing judgement or value to actions that we don’t know anything about is how we got to where we are with this situation. I think it is especially rich that peas who take every opportunity to be nasty about harry and Megan are calling people names for saying something about Kate. Some of you are overly invested in the royal family.
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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 19:20:02 GMT
I didn’t say anything about it enraging anyone. I was responding to a message that seemed to me to imply that it didn’t bother a specific poster as much because he was so far down the line and he’d never actually ascend to say that that shouldn’t matter. To me, it does matter. Ok, wrong word. Disgusts us. Nothing I said places any sort of feelings on any poster, or assumed anything about any poster or group of posters. I was simply voicing my opinion and sharing my feelings as to why it isn’t okay that he is in the line of succession.
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Post by myshelly on Mar 23, 2024 19:38:17 GMT
This harping on about "planned surgery" is starting to do my head in. Say, for arguments sake, the Princess saw her doctor on a Thursday in January and was told "that problem we've been discussing really needs to be addressed, I can operate next Wednesday" and she agrees, that IS planned surgery. It might be short notice but it is still planned. If she saw the doc on Thursday and he said we need to operate right away and they did that day, that is emergency surgery. The international trips are arranged months in advance so of course they can announce one and then almost immediately cancel in this scenario. I really, REALLY do not get what the problem is! The phrasing of the original statement was 100% intended to say "nothing to see here, moving on," - their use of "planned" was supposed to give the impression it was routine and nbd. Except it was clearly urgent (not emergent), given they canceled a just-announced trip. Which raised everyone's concern/suspicion. Had that original announcement been better, without giving private information, this would all be very different. I don’t disagree with you about the need for improvement in PR, but “planned surgery” is literally a medical term and the people who keep harping on it are ridiculous. It just means that she didn’t go to the emergency room and get rolled straight back to surgery. It is not a contradiction or discrepancy or anything else.
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Post by pjaye on Mar 23, 2024 19:39:10 GMT
I think it is especially rich that peas who take every opportunity to be nasty about harry and Megan Obviously me...but every one of my opinions about those two is based on facts that either one or both of them have willingly and for personal profit put into the public domain. None of it is based on crazy conspiracy theories or their private medical information. These two have done a 2 part Oprah interview, a 4 part miniseries, and various other interviews and he's written a book and they have fed information to Omid Scobie and he's written another 2 books. That's all fair fodder to discuss and have opinions about. I'm not making stuff up - it's there for anyone to see and read for themselves. And most of my "nastiness" is about the fact that they have endlessly bitched about both of their families FOR MONEY. So now that I am calling out the other people who are making money from conspiracy theories about Catherine, is entirely consistent. I didn't need to make up any stories about his frostbitten penis or how the cream he rubbed on it reminded him of his mother. I didn't need to try to access any private medical information to get a blow by blow description of Meghan's miscarriage - she detailed every aspect of it in a public newspaper. They willingly SELL these stories not only about themselves, but about other members of their families, for the public to watch/read about. Completely different to what is currently happening with Catherine.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Mar 23, 2024 19:41:43 GMT
And you explain to to me why Andrew is in line to the throne - go ahead - explain to me why this doesn't enrage you. Because the chances of that happening are so slim as to be almost non existent. Harry has more chance of getting to the throne. We will cross that bridge when and if we need to. oh so slim chance makes a rapist ok to have divine right to rule - Explain again why we think you’re bonkers
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Post by dewryce on Mar 23, 2024 19:48:25 GMT
The phrasing of the original statement was 100% intended to say "nothing to see here, moving on," - their use of "planned" was supposed to give the impression it was routine and nbd. Except it was clearly urgent (not emergent), given they canceled a just-announced trip. Which raised everyone's concern/suspicion. Had that original announcement been better, without giving private information, this would all be very different. I don’t disagree with you about the need for improvement in PR, but “planned surgery” is literally a medical term and the people who keep harping on it are ridiculous. It just means that she didn’t go to the emergency room and get rolled straight back to surgery. It is not a contradiction or discrepancy or anything else. And the people discussing it on this thread right now understand that, but obviously a lot of the general public didn’t.
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Post by busy on Mar 23, 2024 19:49:29 GMT
Could not disagree more, and every comms professional I know thinks it was a shitshow. Easier to blame someone other than yourself I suppose. Oh, go to hell. I didn't buy into any of the conspiracy theories. All along, I've said I think their messaging has been shit and I stand by that. As I said in my first post on this thread, days before her cancer announcement:
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Post by gillyp on Mar 23, 2024 19:49:59 GMT
Ok, wrong word. Disgusts us. Nothing I said places any sort of feelings on any poster, or assumed anything about any poster or group of posters. I was simply voicing my opinion and sharing my feelings as to why it isn’t okay that he is in the line of succession. It was me that made the comment. Prince Andrew is so insignificant to me that I pretty much forget he exists until someone mentions him here. There is little about him in the British press so his position at the moment doesn't make me want to get rid of him for a future occurrence that may never happen. We have other things that are more important to occupy Parliament at the moment.
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Post by pjaye on Mar 23, 2024 19:56:37 GMT
Another thing that made normal people really take note, take more of an interest in this situation, is that after hearing whispers of her not having been seen they released a photo that was then pulled by 4 very reputable news agencies No, not "the public" just the gullible ones. I never believed any of it and neither did lots of posters here, don't lump everyone in into your basket. Who took this photo? William did. Who edited it? Catherine did. Who takes the large majority of photos of the children that get published in the media? Catherine does. Who DOESN'T get to take these photos and make money from them anymore? Photographers & their various media outlets. So who has a vested interest in discrediting these photos, and making out like they are "fake" and that they can't be trusted? It's not really hard to think this through and work out who is taking advantage of this situation to feed the conspiracy theories because they are pissed off that they aren't making any money, and by picking apart minor details in the photos they aimed to erode the more gullible public's trust. And it obviously worked on some of you. Not all of us though.
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Post by myshelly on Mar 23, 2024 19:59:06 GMT
I don’t disagree with you about the need for improvement in PR, but “planned surgery” is literally a medical term and the people who keep harping on it are ridiculous. It just means that she didn’t go to the emergency room and get rolled straight back to surgery. It is not a contradiction or discrepancy or anything else. And the people discussing it on this thread right now understand that, but obviously a lot of the general public didn’t. It doesn’t sound like busy does because she called it a discrepancy.
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Post by pjaye on Mar 23, 2024 19:59:49 GMT
It just feels ill-advised for them not to do something to quell it. and you were wrong about that too...or did you enjoy the fact that she was basically bullied into making that video? Did you like seeing her pain first hand?
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Post by busy on Mar 23, 2024 20:01:02 GMT
Another thing that made normal people really take note, take more of an interest in this situation, is that after hearing whispers of her not having been seen they released a photo that was then pulled by 4 very reputable news agencies No, not "the public" just the gullible ones. I never believed any of it and neither did lots of posters here, don't lump everyone in into your basket. Who took this photo? William did. Who edited it? Catherine did. Who takes the large majority of photos of the children that get published in the media? Catherine does. Who DOESN'T get to take these photos and make money from them anymore? Photographers & their various media outlets. So who has a vested interest in discrediting these photos, and making out like they are "fake" and that they can't be trusted? It's not really hard to think this through and work out who is taking advantage of this situation to feed the conspiracy theories because they are pissed off that they aren't making any money, and by picking apart minor details in the photos they aimed to erode the more gullible public's trust. And it obviously worked on some of you. Not all of us though. Oh ffs now you're shilling your own conspiracy theory that multiple respected news outlets colluded to issue kill orders on that photo to somehow enrich themselves? Good lord.
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