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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 15:24:40 GMT
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt I'm just going to leave that here. Oh FFS. A truism that doesn't remotely apply here.
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Post by Lurkingpea on Jun 15, 2024 15:26:21 GMT
I don't care about the label.one way or another. I sometimes am on my phone, sometimes my iPad. I don't think the politics thread has any sort of stigma but obviously some do. A lot of peas have stopped posting in the past year or so. A lot. I don't imagine there is one reason for it. Some maybe because of politics. Some because of personal reasons. No one can know for sure. It never occurred to me that the political tag created any kind of stigma though.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 15, 2024 15:37:48 GMT
Merge I certainly think you're entitled to your thoughts, feelings and opinions. Even this one: I've long since come to terms with the fact that a ridiculous number of people don't give a damn about what happens to others and would rather discuss socks. But we are reading things like this and how are we to interpret?
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 15:42:30 GMT
Merge I certainly think you're entitled to your thoughts, feelings and opinions. Even this one: I've long since come to terms with the fact that a ridiculous number of people don't give a damn about what happens to others and would rather discuss socks. But we are reading things like this and how are we to interpret? What I'm saying is that my dislike of the tag is not prompted by a desire for more people to care about the issues I care about. I've given up on that. Please interpret the statement that way. ETA: I have a good friend who I've tried to engage more with the fight for public education. He's receptive, but at the end of the day his comment is, "I should know more about these things, but I'd rather drink." He's the CEO of a multi-million dollar corporation, BTW. If I can't engage someone with that kind of clout and brainpower, why would I expect to engage a random group of women here?
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 15, 2024 15:44:16 GMT
I doubt that happens, bots can't do that and trolls who have only joined to post their dodgy links wouldn't know they can do that either. I think she is referring to our resident trolls not spammer trolls. The resident trolls are who I am talking about. Not the new members who join, to post a hyper links to somewhere else. The resident trolls stir the pot, tag or un-tag threads, be annoying....simply because they can.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 15, 2024 15:52:55 GMT
Merge can I interest you in a bit of humor regarding chasing apathetic people?
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 15:56:13 GMT
Merge can I interest you in a bit of humor regarding chasing apathetic people? That is funny!
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Post by katlady on Jun 15, 2024 16:02:10 GMT
Well, then we don’t get the entertainment of guessing why a thread about tomatoes is labeled political. 🙄😀 (sarcasm ) Someone probably mentioned that a politician’s wife grows tomatoes, and bingo, it is now political. 🙄
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 15, 2024 16:02:13 GMT
ScrapbookMyLife just as an FYI you can hide yourself from the list of current users. So yeah best to not say. I know that. My using the common denominator theory was to figure it out. Based on who was online at the time, several times when I was tagging the exact same thread and within a minute it was un-tagged. One night it was a back and forth of about 20 times. Tag and un-tag. Since I originally thought I wasn't tagging correctly, I kept re-tagging...not realizing it was a resident troll playing games. Once I figured out it was a resident troll playing games, I did a multiple night-few nights test to see if I could figure out who it was based on the online users at the time. I also (I think) figured out that particular trolls alter ego, but again based on the tagging and immediate un-tagging of a certain couple threads. But, I can't be 100% sure....therefore not naming names. But who I *think* it is...is not surprising, because I think that person is a little unhinged. I'm sure we (some but not all) as members.....know (or could make a good guess).......who the resident trolls are, who the shit stirrers are, who is going to argue every single time, who is going to "back peddle and make excuses" instead of listen to solid and wise pea advice, etc... It was the same way on the original pea board.
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 16:04:59 GMT
Well, then we don’t get the entertainment of guessing why a thread about tomatoes is labeled political. 🙄😀 (sarcasm ) Someone probably mentioned that a politician’s wife grows tomatoes, and bingo, it is now political. 🙄 Yep. "Michelle Obama had tomatoes in the White House garden during her husband's two terms as part of her push to include more fresh produce in school meals." Bang, political. That's the kind of nonsense I'm talking about.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 15, 2024 16:10:32 GMT
Well, with the number of people saying that they have done the tagging/un-tagging shenanigans with the one(s) who find it so exciting to wield the label, it's clearly a totally pointless function now. I agree. I was tagging old threads (that are more than a year old).....thinking I was being helpful. Once I figured out, that it was resident troll un-tagging them...on purpose, because they like to play games with the other members....I quit tagging, because it's a waste of my time and efforts as well as I don't want or need to become the target of unhinged unstable member.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 15, 2024 16:19:33 GMT
Maybe peas just need to use the mobile version. Like I said, I use my phone to pea 99% of the time and don't see labels. I partake only on my desk top computer, never my phone. I simply scroll on by the topics I have no interest in or that I don't want to engage in. If I've opened a thread and decide it's not for me, I simply close it and move on. I don't care either way, if a thread is tagged or not.
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artbabe
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Post by artbabe on Jun 15, 2024 16:31:17 GMT
The tags aren't really needed, because I always look at the thread title and poster first. A lot of the peas are so predictable that I can tell what the thread is going to be about before I open it.
The games threads are annoying but whatever...
I like the old threads. As mentioned, sometimes I get ready to answer and I found out I already answered two years ago. I like to see what I wrote then. I also like to see the old peas that have left the board.
We do need to make this board move more. I'm guilty of not starting threads over here- I do start threads on the scrapbook side of the board. I'll try to come up with a few topics to add to this one.
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Post by Clair on Jun 15, 2024 17:21:41 GMT
Merge I certainly think you're entitled to your thoughts, feelings and opinions. Even this one: I've long since come to terms with the fact that a ridiculous number of people don't give a damn about what happens to others and would rather discuss socks. But we are reading things like this and how are we to interpret? What I'm saying is that my dislike of the tag is not prompted by a desire for more people to care about the issues I care about. I've given up on that. Please interpret the statement that way. ETA: I have a good friend who I've tried to engage more with the fight for public education. He's receptive, but at the end of the day his comment is, "I should know more about these things, but I'd rather drink." He's the CEO of a multi-million dollar corporation, BTW. If I can't engage someone with that kind of clout and brainpower, why would I expect to engage a random group of women here? I understand where you're coming from on this but we sometimes overlook we all come to this board for different reasons. I read this board a lot but don't post often. Some days I come here out of boredom, some days for entertainment and some days to see if there is a thread about current events. I am very passionate about many things but this board is not where a share those opinions --- and some days I do care more about 'socks' than current events because that is where my head is at that moment. Also, don't overlook the fact that even if someone doesn't engage in thread doesn't mean your comments aren't being read and reaching people.
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Post by freecharlie on Jun 15, 2024 17:42:50 GMT
After only reading the OP, I mainly pea on my phone and the political tag never shows up
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Post by disneypal on Jun 15, 2024 18:00:22 GMT
Personally, I appreciate the threads marked as "Political". Yes, I can read the subject line and figure it out. I'm not a "tender flower" but I like being to quickly see at a glance, the moment I log in as to which threads are political so I can avoid them.
As far as the game threads. I don't participate in them, but don't have a problem with them and understand why others enjoy it.
I believe if you are not enjoying this board, for whatever reason, maybe it's time to take a little break from it.
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Post by merry27 on Jun 15, 2024 18:02:02 GMT
Normally I don't care if we have the label or not. But with the upcoming election, I think it should stay until then because the political threads will start overspilling into regular threads if the past is any sign of whats to come.. Then once it's over, it can go away again. I agree (as usual!) with Mom. I also don’t care for the game threads and think they should be moved to their own category. Also agree with how slow things have been on here. I have been a member for almost 21 years and miss the days when it was busier.
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Post by Bridget in MD on Jun 15, 2024 18:46:15 GMT
I wish the post would update when the tag is applied or that only the OP could apply it.
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 18:53:10 GMT
Personally, I appreciate the threads marked as "Political". Yes, I can read the subject line and figure it out. I'm not a "tender flower" but I like being to quickly see at a glance, the moment I log in as to which threads are political so I can avoid them. As far as the game threads. I don't participate in them, but don't have a problem with them and understand why others enjoy it. I believe if you are not enjoying this board, for whatever reason, maybe it's time to take a little break from it. Why do you feel you can just ignore the game threads but not the political ones? Why do you feel it’s more important for you to be able to see the threads you don’t like at a glance than for the rest of us to be able to do so? Perhaps what we need is a series of tags. Every thread must have a tag - fluff, game, politics, animals, kids, travel, etc.
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 18:55:31 GMT
For those who point out that the board moves more slowly now - a big part of what moved the old NSBR so quickly was drama and controversy, including politics. Make of that what you will.
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Post by disneypal on Jun 15, 2024 19:02:28 GMT
Why do you feel you can just ignore the game threads but not the political ones? While the game threads don't have a tag - the subject almost always starts with "GAME" so it immediately pops to the eyes and you can quickly tell it's a game thread. It's the closest thing to a tag.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Jun 15, 2024 19:03:34 GMT
Why do you feel you can just ignore the game threads but not the political ones? While the game threads don't have a tag - the subject always starts with "GAME" so it immediately pops to the eyes and you can quickly tell its a game thread. It's the closest thing to a tag. And a lot of peas put FLUFF for fun threads
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 19:37:29 GMT
Why do you feel you can just ignore the game threads but not the political ones? While the game threads don't have a tag - the subject almost always starts with "GAME" so it immediately pops to the eyes and you can quickly tell it's a game thread. It's the closest thing to a tag. But not all the other types of threads. How am I to know at a glance if someone’s Disney -related thread is going to annoy me? Oh, I’m not. I just close it and move on like an adult. Perhaps the real issue here is that the peas who don’t like political threads feel owed an accommodation the rest of us don’t get.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Jun 15, 2024 19:53:51 GMT
While the game threads don't have a tag - the subject almost always starts with "GAME" so it immediately pops to the eyes and you can quickly tell it's a game thread. It's the closest thing to a tag. But not all the other types of threads. How am I to know at a glance if someone’s Disney -related thread is going to annoy me? Oh, I’m not. I just close it and move on like an adult. Perhaps the real issue here is that the peas who don’t like political threads feel owed an accommodation the rest of us don’t get. I think at this point you are reaching. When we get closer to the election and threads get political that were not intended to be political or as some peas do and turn posts political, it will be nice for those who are not in a good headspace or just don't want to deal with political stuff to see that the thread contains politics. Do I think the back and forth or flagging and unflagging posts is childish? Yes. Is it enough to get my knickers in a wad? No. If you expect peas to just move on then why can't you do the same? Why can you feel the need to tell others how to pea and read but it can not be flipped?
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Post by Merge on Jun 15, 2024 19:58:25 GMT
But not all the other types of threads. How am I to know at a glance if someone’s Disney -related thread is going to annoy me? Oh, I’m not. I just close it and move on like an adult. Perhaps the real issue here is that the peas who don’t like political threads feel owed an accommodation the rest of us don’t get. I think at this point you are reaching. When we get closer to the election and threads get political that were not intended to be political or as some peas do and turn posts political, it will be nice for those who are not in a good headspace or just don't want to deal with political stuff to see that the thread contains politics. Do I think the back and forth or flagging and unflagging posts is childish? Yes. Is it enough to get my knickers in a wad? No. If you expect peas to just move on then why can't you do the same? Why can you feel the need to tell others how to pea and read but it can not be flipped? Because I’m not the one insisting on flags for threads I don’t like. And you are not the one having your non-political threads tagged by fools just because it’s a world affairs topic.
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Post by michellegb on Jun 15, 2024 20:13:21 GMT
This has been an interesting discussion and I appreciate hearing everyone's views. I kind of apathetic. I don't care either way because I read the thread title to decide if I'm interested. However, some jerk (just calling like I see it) has now marked at least 5 pages with Politics on every damn post. WTF. I honestly wonder about people and their motivations. This is so immature and obnoxious.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jun 15, 2024 20:19:55 GMT
And as of right now, literally EVERY post has been tagged political. 🙄 Someone on here really needs to find a better hobby.
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dawnnikol
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Post by dawnnikol on Jun 15, 2024 20:22:57 GMT
And as of right now, literally EVERY post has been tagged political. 🙄 Someone on here really needs to find a better hobby. Like scrapbooking..
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michellegb
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Post by michellegb on Jun 15, 2024 20:29:49 GMT
And as of right now, literally EVERY post has been tagged political. 🙄 Someone on here really needs to find a better hobby. Like scrapbooking..
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 15, 2024 20:32:06 GMT
And as of right now, literally EVERY post has been tagged political. 🙄 Someone on here really needs to find a better hobby. Like scrapbooking.. 🤣😂🤣😂
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