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Post by lisae on Jun 23, 2024 15:28:57 GMT
If you were having a baby today, what names would you choose? I didn't have children so these names are thought of years ago and I still like them.
Girl: Claire (in honor of a relative)
Boy: Damian (from a soap opera character)
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jun 23, 2024 15:31:46 GMT
My favorite names, that I have loved for decades are: Girl - Sage Boy - Levi
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Post by gar on Jun 23, 2024 15:44:52 GMT
That's spooky...I thought about posting this as a fluff post earlier today I would choose Cerys (pronounced Ke'-riss, equal emphasis) which is Welsh, and Freya which coincidentally, our DD and her fiancé have chosen for their baby due in August There's another but it escapes me at the moment A boy would be called Luca or Jude. I still love my DDs names though 😊
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Post by seaexplore on Jun 23, 2024 16:14:28 GMT
I would use the same names I used.
My DD is named loosely after her great grand father on my mom’s side (male/female names) and shares my mom’s middle name.
My DS shares a middle name with DH and FIL and his middle name is also my husbands grandfathers first name.
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Post by sueg on Jun 23, 2024 16:14:36 GMT
I never got to use the girl names I liked and DH vetoed my choice for DS2, but I’d definitely still use them.
Girl - Monica Clare or Ellen Monica. The second was my favourite, as my two grandmothers were Eileen and Elena and my mum (who passed a year before DS1 was born) was Monica.
Boy - Xavier. I didn’t have a middle name chosen for this, but DH said we couldn’t give our kid the initial ‘X’. DS, who is unlikely to have kids of his own, says that if he ever did have a son, he’d name him Xavier, because X is a cool initial!
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jun 23, 2024 16:18:38 GMT
I had several kids, so used up my names.
But I would lean traditional, as I always have, and not give them a "tragedeigh" name. (Ever read that reddit?)
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Post by Zee on Jun 23, 2024 16:23:23 GMT
I had two names picked out, for a girl and a boy, and I used them both so not sure what I would do now.
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Post by quinlove on Jun 23, 2024 16:25:08 GMT
I agree about the initial X. That is pretty cool. Xavier or Xander would work for that. I like the coolness. Before I read your reply, I was going with Luca or Luka.
Girl names might be Chloe, Rory, Kinsley, Zoey.
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Post by gar on Jun 23, 2024 16:26:26 GMT
I agree about the initial X. That is pretty cool. Xavier or Xander would work for that. I like the coolness. Before I read your reply, I was going with Luca or Luka. Girl names might be Chloe, Rory, Kinsley, Zoey. Rory is a girl’s name in your world? I’ve only ever heard it as a boy name 😊
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Post by quinlove on Jun 23, 2024 16:40:39 GMT
Gar - I think it’s a rarely used girl name. I’m going by a Kennedy from Massachusetts was named that. Could be wrong though.
And, I would like it as a boy name too. Rory is one of my favorite golfers.
eta ~ I have never watched the Gilmore Girls.
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Post by melanell on Jun 23, 2024 16:48:09 GMT
I never used any of my girl names choices, and of those we had chosen before "Sarah" is one I would still use. I also love "Grace".
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Post by melanell on Jun 23, 2024 16:48:44 GMT
I agree about the initial X. That is pretty cool. Xavier or Xander would work for that. I like the coolness. Before I read your reply, I was going with Luca or Luka. Girl names might be Chloe, Rory, Kinsley, Zoey. Rory is a girl’s name in your world? I’ve only ever heard it as a boy name 😊 Gilmore Girls contributed a great deal in making Rory a girl's name here, I think. Of course, there has been a long-standing tradition of taking names traditionally used for boys and switching them over to use for girls. I always feel for the boys who are given those names during the "cusp" years so to speak. I knew both a Kim & a Shannon born in the 70s who were guys. And later on I saw it happen with names like Taylor, Jordan/Jordyn, etc.
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Post by TankTop on Jun 23, 2024 16:50:53 GMT
I love my children’s names. Only thing I would change is my son’s middle name.
I would give him my maiden name as a middle name. Anderson.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Jun 23, 2024 16:50:57 GMT
Rory is a girl’s name in your world? I’ve only ever heard it as a boy name 😊 The trend over here for quite a few years is that any name is a girl's name. As someone with a boy's name it's not a trend I can get behind. As for names, I would go with DD's name again. My only complaint about it was that it was uncommon when we used it but 10 years later it was in the top 40 names. Now the name is everywhere and that annoys me. If I were naming a boy I would use Graeme.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jun 23, 2024 16:53:07 GMT
Rory is a girl’s name in your world? I’ve only ever heard it as a boy name 😊 Gilmore Girls contributed a great deal in making Rory a girl's name here, I think. Of course, there has been a long-standing tradition of taking names traditionally used for boys and switching them over to use for girls. I always feel for the boys who are given those names during the "cusp" years so to speak. I knew both a Kim & a Shannon born in the 70s who were guys. And later on I saw it happen with names like Taylor, Jordan/Jordyn, etc. I agree. I don’t recall hearing the name Rory for a boy or a girl before Gilmore Girls.
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Post by peabay on Jun 23, 2024 16:54:43 GMT
The only thing I would change is my dh thought our daughter's name (Molly) was too much of a nickname so he wanted a "real" name and then we'd call her Molly. It's just created confusion in her life - it's not as easy as a John to Jack thing and I regret acquiescing on that.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jun 23, 2024 16:56:06 GMT
I would still use my son’s name. If he had been a girl I would have used Casey Blanche or something with Layla. But i would choose a different, more unique girl’s name now.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Jun 23, 2024 16:57:43 GMT
I would still use my son’s name. If he had been a girl I would have used Casey Blanche or something with Layla. But i would choose a different, more unique girl’s name now.
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Post by quiltz on Jun 23, 2024 16:58:44 GMT
I like the names that I chose for my children. Easy spelling and easy to pronounce. The names have been used in many generations but not easily defined to any generation. Not cultural identifiable.
Wouldn't be an embarrassment in the corporate world but not in the top 20.
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Post by katlady on Jun 23, 2024 17:10:46 GMT
I like my boy's names.
We didn't have a girl, but if I had one today, I would probably choose a "modern" name, something like Madison, Brooklyn, or Mallory. If I were to have another boy right now, I like Chase for some reason.
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Post by Basket1lady on Jun 23, 2024 17:17:57 GMT
I’m still happy with the names that we chose. In hindsight, I may have pushed MIL to use the form of DDs name that we used. She didn’t like it and called her by her formal name. It caused a lot of issues over the years with teachers and DD thinking our name for her was wrong. I love my MIL, but dang. She had 3 kids of her own that she named, with 2 adopted and she changed both of their names. If anyone should have understood, it should have been her!
We’ve been using our extra, unused names on the dogs. Casey (for KC-10s, which DH worked with), sandy was already named, and we now have an Emma. We are hot into negotiations with the next dog name now!
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Post by Merge on Jun 23, 2024 17:36:24 GMT
The only thing I would change is my dh thought our daughter's name (Molly) was too much of a nickname so he wanted a "real" name and then we'd call her Molly. It's just created confusion in her life - it's not as easy as a John to Jack thing and I regret acquiescing on that. Same, but for Maggie. She does NOT like being called Margaret when a new teacher/professor calls roll. Maggie suits her perfectly, though. My oldest is Grace and I still love her name. If we had a boy, he would have been Aidan or Ian. The only other girl name in the lineup for us was Audrey.
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Post by gramasue on Jun 23, 2024 17:37:13 GMT
For a girl, I would choose Grace. For a boy, probably Chance or Declan. (I never had a boy)
Out of three daughters, there is only one I would change if she were born today. The other two, I still really like and would choose them again.
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Post by littlemama on Jun 23, 2024 18:20:14 GMT
I would name a girl, Grace. By family tradition, that should have been my name. It would have been much, much better than my actual name.
I still like DS name, so I might still use that
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Post by gsquaredmom on Jun 23, 2024 18:54:44 GMT
Rory is a girl’s name in your world? I’ve only ever heard it as a boy name 😊 The trend over here for quite a few years is that any name is a girl's name. As someone with a boy's name it's not a trend I can get behind. As for names, I would go with DD's name again. My only complaint about it was that it was uncommon when we used it but 10 years later it was in the top 40 names. Now the name is everywhere and that annoys me. If I were naming a boy I would use Graeme. [br I have a Graeme! He is 28 now. I’d use it again.
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Post by leannec on Jun 23, 2024 19:00:48 GMT
I would still use the names that we gave both dd's ... they are traditional and never go out of style ...
Emma and Molly ... if we had another girl her name would have been Charlotte ... it is a family name on my ex's side and there is now a niece named Charlotte!
If either of the dd's had been boys they would have been named Kieran ... a second choice would have been Liam ...
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Post by malibou on Jun 23, 2024 19:24:27 GMT
I wouldn't change ds23 name. Its a classic name with my mil maiden name for a middle name. But I am a bit bummed that when he was born his name wasn't even in the top 300 names for boys, and now its in the top 10. If I had had a daughter I would have gone with Hazel, and I still would.
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Post by peano on Jun 23, 2024 23:32:26 GMT
I wouldn’t change DS’s name: Ian Benjamin. We always knew his middle name would be Benjamin for my paternal grandfather, but it took DH and me a LONG time to come up with a first name we could agree on.
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Post by AussieMeg on Jun 23, 2024 23:58:03 GMT
I swear, the Peas have some serious ESP skills going on - this is the third time in a couple of days where someone has started a thread about something I have literally just been discussing - it's uncanny! Last night DD and I were discussing baby names. It started because she was telling me that several people at a party the night before told her how much they loved her name, and how cool her parents must be haha! She also met two of her favourite podcasters recently, one of whom is also on TV, and they told her how much they love her name. So even though she didn't like her name when she was younger, she likes it now. The first name we both mentioned was Saoirse - we both love love love this name, but probably wouldn't use it because we'd be setting up the kid with a lifetime of "How do you spell that?" or "Say-oy-sie? Say-oh-erse? Sow-erse?" We both also like Sadie, although one of DD's friends used that name, so there's no way she could use it, more's the pity. I really like that a lot of old traditional names are coming back in. Whenever I hear one for the first time, I'm a bit like Really? But then they grow on me. I know children born in the last 5-10 years with names of both my grandparents and some great aunts: Elsie, Esther, Nellie, Florence, Hazel etc.
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Post by AussieMeg on Jun 24, 2024 0:05:04 GMT
Same, but for Maggie. She does NOT like being called Margaret when a new teacher/professor calls roll. Maggie suits her perfectly, though. So is her name actually Margaret? Or are teachers making the assumption when they see Maggie on the roll, that it must be short for Margaret? I really like the name Maggie. One of my friends from my teenage years named his daughter Maggie Mae, and I thought it was such a cool name. I *think* Mae is the middle name, and not part of a hyphenated first name.
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