gramma
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Post by gramma on Aug 29, 2024 22:46:58 GMT
Does anyone else think that we need Just T to check in here every day? And maybe give one of us someone we can reach if we don't hear from her for a few days? This whole thing scares me!! |
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Aug 29, 2024 23:04:10 GMT
Does anyone else think that we need Just T to check in here every day? And maybe give one of us someone we can reach if we don't hear from her for a few days? This whole thing scares me!! Thank you for worrying about me. I will try to post more on regular threads so you know I am okay. I am friends with one person from here on FB, and we have been in communication. I am doing fine right now. I've been at my friend's since Monday. She's so great, I honestly don't know what I would have done without her this summer. Tomorrow, I am leaving for a trip with a friend that I have had in the works since May. It's going to be a really nice, relaxing getaway. Today, I had to go home to pack some clothes and stuff for that trip, and my daughter in law went with me in case he was home. He wasn't, thank goodness. Thank you all again for your good thoughts and concern about me. I look forward to this all being over and me being able to really share just ALLL the shit. LOL Although you may not believe it all.  But it's really a lot of stuff I could NOT make up if I tried. |
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Just T
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Post by Just T on Aug 29, 2024 23:07:32 GMT
I really don't think so. I don't think he wants her to know anything about it. If she thinks he's a widower, he's been deceiving her for years. So is he never going to introduce her to his kids? What kind of life is that? No clue. I don't see how he can. He's lived such lies. For a long time. |
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 29, 2024 23:29:34 GMT
First. Yay for the ruling! I love when you win. While he may be backed into a corner, if you were to go missing or worse, it would hit the news and then the gf would find out. I'll gladly be the petty bitch that tells her once this is all over.  show up at one of their races and be like..."hey just t's ex...I was taking to jt the other day and she mentioned you two were divorced. I'm sorry to hear that..you were such a lovely couple..." |
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on Aug 30, 2024 0:14:57 GMT
First. Yay for the ruling! I love when you win. While he may be backed into a corner, if you were to go missing or worse, it would hit the news and then the gf would find out. I'll gladly be the petty bitch that tells her once this is all over.  show up at one of their races and be like..."hey just t's ex...I was taking to jt the other day and she mentioned you two were divorced. I'm sorry to hear that..you were such a lovely couple..." Yesssss! Do it! Make sure you have someone filming so we can all revel in that shit. 😂 |
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Post by Scrapper100 on Aug 30, 2024 2:35:19 GMT
I haven’t read all the replies yet but I hope you don’t share a phone plan. I know on iPhones I could see where my husband is based on find my phone / persons. You don’t want to lead him to your friend’s home. I hope he realizes that if you disappeared he would be the chief suspect. We are still on the same plan. After I read this comment yesterday, I did call the phone carrier and ask if he could put a find my phone thing on my phone without my permission, and they said no. They did say there are programs he could install if he had access to my phone, but he doesn't. Even if he got a hold of it, it has face recognition and my password is not something he would ever be able to guess and figure out. So you had it turned off a while ago. I don’t think we turned ours on but I can see my husband and he can see my phone. I didn’t know about it until recently. You can go in and turn it off but it’s just automatic on iPhones I think? Assume androids have a similar feature. |
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mich5481
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Post by mich5481 on Aug 30, 2024 11:56:35 GMT
I’m betting the gf is getting free trips around the world. She may be a user and doesn’t care about his life outside off her fun. She seems to have money of her own. Right at the beginning of all this, my boss googled and found her address and then her house on Google Earth. She seems to live in a ritzy area of a large city. We also haven't been able to figure out what she does for a job, if she even has one. We are all afraid to look her up on Linked In since people can see who looks at their profile. You can change your settings on LinkedIn to private, where they just see that someone looked at the profile, but not who. |
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gramma
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Post by gramma on Sept 5, 2024 16:02:57 GMT
Just TWe need a check in girlie. Because, you see some of us have you on our "worry list"
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But it's really a lot of stuff I could NOT make up if I tried. 
show up at one of their races and be like..."hey just t's ex...I was taking to jt the other day and she mentioned you two were divorced. I'm sorry to hear that..you were such a lovely couple..."
show up at one of their races and be like..."hey just t's ex...I was taking to jt the other day and she mentioned you two were divorced. I'm sorry to hear that..you were such a lovely couple..."
