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Post by disneypal on Sept 4, 2024 20:19:47 GMT
How do you suppose s/he got a gun? (I assume it is a guy but could have been a girl for all I know). Most likely from their own home, I suppose - it seems that's where kids usually get them. School has been in session for a month - what could be this kid's motivation? How disturbing!!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 20:22:13 GMT
Uvalde changed my mind about phones in classrooms. Without a 9 yr old documenting the incompetence of the police we would have not known how long those kids suffered while grown men with BIG GUNS let them die!!. The trouble is that it has made no difference.
ETA: My statement makes my cry.. it is not a good thing, but something we HAD to know and hear.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Sept 4, 2024 20:22:57 GMT
That campaign ad indicates that you should solve all of your problems with guns and violence. That is a big problem in our society. Not only do people have easy access to weapons, it is seemingly ok to use them when you feel that you have been wronged. We need to deal with both of those issues (and the many others that lead into violence).
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 20:23:48 GMT
How do you suppose s/he got a gun? (I assume it is a guy but could have been a girl for all I know). Most likely from their own home, I suppose - it seems that's where kids usually get them. School has been in session for a month - what could be this kid's motivation? How disturbing!! A girl was interviewed and she stated he was a quiet kid that sits in the back of the room ..
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Post by pantsonfire on Sept 4, 2024 20:28:40 GMT
The crazy, sick, and twisted thing about this is... It is easier to ban cell phones from kids hands that is a life line in situations like this than it is to ban weapons from their hands that takes that lifeline away. Ban the fucking weapons. Ban. The. Guns. Not the fucking phone. I agree with banning the weapons, but also am not against phones being banned or at least not available during school hours. Not only do they interfere with learning, I think it would result in less bullying and inappropriate behavior. But I do understand that in situations like this they can be helpful. Your missing the point.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 20:36:04 GMT
GBI Director Hosey.
Male 14 yrs old, will be charged and tried as an adult.
4 deceased are 2 students, 2 teachers.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Sept 4, 2024 20:37:53 GMT
I agree with banning the weapons, but also am not against phones being banned or at least not available during school hours. Not only do they interfere with learning, I think it would result in less bullying and inappropriate behavior. But I do understand that in situations like this they can be helpful. Your missing the point. I think you are missing my point. Guns aren't the only issue. We ALSO need to look at what is leading people to want to engage in these acts in the first place. Phones have a bigger (and often more negative role) in the classroom on a daily basis than the likelihood of needing to be used during a school shooting. And not allowing them may lead to less bullying, more social interaction, and therefore happier kids.
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Post by disneypal on Sept 4, 2024 20:38:38 GMT
The local news is showing the GBI Director's press conference. He indicates the 14-year-old male shooter is named Colt Gray. I was surprised they said his name since he is a juvenile, but they are charging him as an adult on 4 counts of murder.
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Post by pantsonfire on Sept 4, 2024 20:49:54 GMT
I think you are missing my point. Guns aren't the only issue. We ALSO need to look at what is leading people to want to engage in these acts in the first place. Phones have a bigger (and often more negative role) in the classroom on a daily basis than the likelihood of needing to be used during a school shooting. And not allowing them may lead to less bullying, more social interaction, and therefore happier kids. There will still be distractions There will still be behaviors. There will still be bullying My husband is a teacher and phones have never been an issue because of how he handles it. He treats his students with respect and in turn gets it back. He taught gang members. Ones who did bad things. My point was that it was super easy for districts a ross the US to ban phones yet we can't do that for guns. No legislation. No paid behind the back No cell phone pins on their suits No thoughts and prayers about the phones. A simple well no more phones. The phones don't kill people. Yes fully aware of suicide due to bullying. But that phone can't be pointed at classmates and kill them. The weapons do. The guns I til the guns are gone leave the phones alone and focus on the real issues. Because bullying and behaviors and distractions were there before cell.phones and will be there after
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Post by Zee on Sept 4, 2024 20:51:09 GMT
The crazy, sick, and twisted thing about this is... It is easier to ban cell phones from kids hands that is a life line in situations like this than it is to ban weapons from their hands that takes that lifeline away. Ban the fucking weapons. Ban. The. Guns. Not the fucking phone. In this case, phones were not banned as all the major stories lead with kids sending texts to their parents about a shooting. Most kids had phones, one had a gun. And as you know, there will never be a banning of guns because of the 2nd Amendment. Also, 14 year olds are not allowed to carry guns to school, so there isn't any actual "ban" that can work. Until people take accountability and keep their guns locked away and out of the hands of kids, thieves, and people who illegally obtain them, there isn't going to be any answer to this. A start might be to stop blasting the stories everywhere and glamorizing this kind of behavior, and the 24/7 news cycle, and the documentaries, etc etc etc but hell I don't expect us to have the answer here when guns can't simply be banned. What I don't understand is how bartenders can be prosecuted if someone gets drunk at their bar and drives and kills someone, but a gun owner can't be held liable when their unsecured gun kills someone. Just thinking out loud...
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Post by nightnurse on Sept 4, 2024 20:51:44 GMT
I think you are missing my point. Guns aren't the only issue. We ALSO need to look at what is leading people to want to engage in these acts in the first place. Phones have a bigger (and often more negative role) in the classroom on a daily basis than the likelihood of needing to be used during a school shooting. And not allowing them may lead to less bullying, more social interaction, and therefore happier kids. Having been in an active shooter situation, I can say unequivocally that having my phone saved lives. The shooter took out our switchboard area and the operators very rightly fled before an overhead announcement could be made. I got an alert on my phone and stopped two colleagues from leaving our office and walking into the shooter on the way out. For about two hours, we were holed up in the office listening to pounding and thuds and raised voices and the only info we had came from our phones. How about instead of banning them, we ban the guns? And maybe supply kids with the tools they need to navigate the world, use social media safely and appropriately, manage their mental health and be kind to one other? Work on building coping skills and resilience. I agree that the problem is bigger than guns but the easy and most effective place to start is with access to guns. Talking about phones is a distraction. Mental health and guns need to be our focus.
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Post by Zee on Sept 4, 2024 20:56:18 GMT
Another thought I have, but don't have an answer to, is why no one gave a shit about our "resilience" and kindness, etc yet we didn't routinely shoot each other and need trauma counseling etc etc etc Gen X, definitely a different mindset nowadays. So many kids are indeed much kinder, but they also just seem less equipped to handle life, setbacks, disappointments, and emotions. I wish there weren't so many of them clearly struggling.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Sept 4, 2024 21:03:31 GMT
I think you are missing my point. Guns aren't the only issue. We ALSO need to look at what is leading people to want to engage in these acts in the first place. Phones have a bigger (and often more negative role) in the classroom on a daily basis than the likelihood of needing to be used during a school shooting. And not allowing them may lead to less bullying, more social interaction, and therefore happier kids. Having been in an active shooter situation, I can say unequivocally that having my phone saved lives. The shooter took out our switchboard area and the operators very rightly fled before an overhead announcement could be made. I got an alert on my phone and stopped two colleagues from leaving our office and walking into the shooter on the way out. For about two hours, we were holed up in the office listening to pounding and thuds and raised voices and the only info we had came from our phones. How about instead of banning them, we ban the guns? And maybe supply kids with the tools they need to navigate the world, use social media safely and appropriately, manage their mental health and be kind to one other? Work on building coping skills and resilience. I agree that the problem is bigger than guns but the easy and most effective place to start is with access to guns. Talking about phones is a distraction. Mental health and guns need to be our focus. I agree, but I also think that phones play a big part in mental health and bullying. I see a lot of comments online from teachers saying how much of a detriment having phones in class is to the learning as well as bullying, and that teachers should be able to focus on teaching their class, not focusing on phone usage. Kids not paying attention to the classes, taking photos or videos of people during school hours, etc. So, by supporting the decision to ban or limit the phones in schools, I am trying to also support teachers. But, maybe it isn't as big of a deal as some are making it. I also am not saying that there shouldn't be stricter gun laws (I wish we could ban them altogether but that isn't happening). I am just saying that there are reasons to keep them out of schools and that we can do both at the same time. It doesn't have to be that we ignore one issue (especially if it is an easier one to tackle) until the bigger issue is solved.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Sept 4, 2024 21:06:46 GMT
Another thought I have, but don't have an answer to, is why no one gave a shit about our "resilience" and kindness, etc yet we didn't routinely shoot each other and need trauma counseling etc etc etc Gen X, definitely a different mindset nowadays. So many kids are indeed much kinder, but they also just seem less equipped to handle life, setbacks, disappointments, and emotions. I wish there weren't so many of them clearly struggling. There definitely are some societal changes that we are seeing and those need to be addressed as well. It is a very complex issue, even though people try to make it simple.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 21:26:57 GMT
We need to address personal responsibility! In general I did not have to raise my voice with my DS, a look worked reasonably well, particularly when out and about.. Fair punishment is not bad. NO is an acceptable word to use with children. You are not entitled to every thing you want!!
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Post by edie3 on Sept 4, 2024 21:27:05 GMT
Those poor children. How can anyone "get over this"? Much less the families of those killed, just a normal school day... And what could be going through a 14 year old's mind that he thought this was the answer?
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 21:29:48 GMT
Those poor children. How can anyone "get over this"? Much less the families of those killed, just a normal school day... That has become the answer from TFG and his adoring fans. Thoughts and prayers do not stop bullets! We need to stop the bullets before they are fired from guns that children should not have access to!
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Post by Merge on Sept 4, 2024 21:35:48 GMT
Another thought I have, but don't have an answer to, is why no one gave a shit about our "resilience" and kindness, etc yet we didn't routinely shoot each other and need trauma counseling etc etc etc Gen X, definitely a different mindset nowadays. So many kids are indeed much kinder, but they also just seem less equipped to handle life, setbacks, disappointments, and emotions. I wish there weren't so many of them clearly struggling. There also simply weren’t as many guns sitting around people’s houses. Going to the range to shoot weapons of war wasn’t good family fun for most people. I grew up in a suburb that was 90% military families, and never once did I see a gun in any friend’s house or hear anyone talk about guns. The number of guns sold per person per year is six times higher now than it was in 1960, and about five times higher than it was in 2000 (when GenX had long since graduated). www.thetrace.org/2023/03/guns-america-data-atf-total/#:~:text=In%201960%2C%20some%201%2C130%20firearms,6%2C785%20guns%20per%20100%2C000%20people. Troubled kids in our generation came to school and started fights, or they skipped school and went out and got in trouble some other way. (My husband got mad and lit off bottle rockets in the hallway of his middle school.) They didn’t have easy access to semiautomatic rifles as so many do today and they didn’t live in a culture where guns are glorified both as super cool toys and as the way a man proves himself a man. Every underage school shooter ever got his gun at some point from an adult. Kids have guns because adults have more guns, and adults fetishize those guns.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Sept 4, 2024 21:44:14 GMT
What a colossal douchebag.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 21:44:40 GMT
Another tid-bit from the article Merge posted.. What’s the relationship between gun production and gun deaths?When we charted gun manufacturing and imports alongside annual gun deaths going back to 1968, we found that when gunmakers ramped up production, gun deaths rose. Researchers caution that this does not necessarily mean that an increase in gun manufacturing causes an increase in gun deaths. In many instances, however, gun production and gun deaths peaked in the same year. www.thetrace.org/2023/03/guns-america-data-atf-total/#:~:text=In%201960%2C%20some%201%2C130%20firearms
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Post by mom on Sept 4, 2024 21:45:38 GMT
The crazy, sick, and twisted thing about this is... It is easier to ban cell phones from kids hands that is a life line in situations like this than it is to ban weapons from their hands that takes that lifeline away. Ban the fucking weapons. Ban. The. Guns. Not the fucking phone. In this case, phones were not banned as all the major stories lead with kids sending texts to their parents about a shooting. Most kids had phones, one had a gun. And as you know, there will never be a banning of guns because of the 2nd Amendment. Also, 14 year olds are not allowed to carry guns to school, so there isn't any actual "ban" that can work.
Until people take accountability and keep their guns locked away and out of the hands of kids, thieves, and people who illegally obtain them, there isn't going to be any answer to this. A start might be to stop blasting the stories everywhere and glamorizing this kind of behavior, and the 24/7 news cycle, and the documentaries, etc etc etc but hell I don't expect us to have the answer here when guns can't simply be banned.
What I don't understand is how bartenders can be prosecuted if someone gets drunk at their bar and drives and kills someone, but a gun owner can't be held liable when their unsecured gun kills someone. Just thinking out loud...All of this! And especially the part where the gun owner has to be held accountable criminally and civilly if someone gets ahold of their weapon because it was not secured correctly.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 21:50:13 GMT
In this case, phones were not banned as all the major stories lead with kids sending texts to their parents about a shooting. Most kids had phones, one had a gun. And as you know, there will never be a banning of guns because of the 2nd Amendment. Also, 14 year olds are not allowed to carry guns to school, so there isn't any actual "ban" that can work.
Until people take accountability and keep their guns locked away and out of the hands of kids, thieves, and people who illegally obtain them, there isn't going to be any answer to this. A start might be to stop blasting the stories everywhere and glamorizing this kind of behavior, and the 24/7 news cycle, and the documentaries, etc etc etc but hell I don't expect us to have the answer here when guns can't simply be banned.
What I don't understand is how bartenders can be prosecuted if someone gets drunk at their bar and drives and kills someone, but a gun owner can't be held liable when their unsecured gun kills someone. Just thinking out loud...All of this! And especially the part where the gun owner has to be held accountable criminally and civilly if someone gets ahold of their weapon because it was not secured correctly. Registered, insured, and licensed just like cars. Their argument that guns don't kill people, well neither do cars. The operators are responsible.
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Post by FuzzyMutt on Sept 4, 2024 21:59:51 GMT
Another thought I have, but don't have an answer to, is why no one gave a shit about our "resilience" and kindness, etc yet we didn't routinely shoot each other and need trauma counseling etc etc etc Gen X, definitely a different mindset nowadays. So many kids are indeed much kinder, but they also just seem less equipped to handle life, setbacks, disappointments, and emotions. I wish there weren't so many of them clearly struggling. There also simply weren’t as many guns sitting around people’s houses. Going to the range to shoot weapons of war wasn’t good family fun for most people. I grew up in a suburb that was 90% military families, and never once did I see a gun in any friend’s house or hear anyone talk about guns. The number of guns sold per person per year is six times higher now than it was in 1960, and about five times higher than it was in 2000 (when GenX had long since graduated). www.thetrace.org/2023/03/guns-america-data-atf-total/#:~:text=In%201960%2C%20some%201%2C130%20firearms,6%2C785%20guns%20per%20100%2C000%20people. Troubled kids in our generation came to school and started fights, or they skipped school and went out and got in trouble some other way. (My husband got mad and lit off bottle rockets in the hallway of his middle school.) They didn’t have easy access to semiautomatic rifles as so many do today and they didn’t live in a culture where guns are glorified both as super cool toys and as the way a man proves himself a man. Every underage school shooter ever got his gun at some point from an adult. Kids have guns because adults have more guns, and adults fetishize those guns. We’ve (sadly) hashed through this before. You and I are a similar age and clearly we had different upbringings. I grew up with guns in my parents house (not secure and loaded.) My Uncles’ homes, my grandparents homes. My friends homes. We DID go shooting regularly (at a minimum 3X a year to sight in different weapons.) I was a military brat, in the military and married to a guy in the military. Guns were everywhere. My dad bought me my first gun at 16. My sister too. They also bought my son his first gun (about 8yrs old.) Before anyone goes batty… we didn’t get to keep our guns in our personal possession until we moved out. And.. for the record, the gifted to my son was fired from time to time for target practice while supervised. To this day, I have it in my safe. He’s an adult now, and he still doesn’t have possession of it- I don’t think he’s all that interested. It isn’t taboo, and it isn’t exciting. I think my parents approach toward guns is a huge part of the problem. Not having them. Not teaching us how to use them. Not gifting them to us. My issue is 100% with having them not secured in their home (and many loaded) for the last 50 years. For the record…. None of us, my parents, siblings, extended family…. Not one person, has shot a person (other than in wartime situation.) We have also never encountered a firearm that managed to fire itself. It’s heartbreaking that far too many families are dealing with these tragic shootings. And we just keep talking around and around and around the problem. Banning anything, regardless of what scary name it is given isn’t going to change this. The guns aren’t the problem. The problem is hopelessness, despair, mental illness, emotional distress, violent culture, anger, fear, and a host of media and social media attention seeking behavior.
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Post by aj2hall on Sept 4, 2024 22:02:38 GMT
The crazy, sick, and twisted thing about this is... It is easier to ban cell phones from kids hands that is a life line in situations like this than it is to ban weapons from their hands that takes that lifeline away. Ban the fucking weapons. Ban. The. Guns. Not the fucking phone. In this case, phones were not banned as all the major stories lead with kids sending texts to their parents about a shooting. Most kids had phones, one had a gun. And as you know, there will never be a banning of guns because of the 2nd Amendment. Also, 14 year olds are not allowed to carry guns to school, so there isn't any actual "ban" that can work. Until people take accountability and keep their guns locked away and out of the hands of kids, thieves, and people who illegally obtain them, there isn't going to be any answer to this. A start might be to stop blasting the stories everywhere and glamorizing this kind of behavior, and the 24/7 news cycle, and the documentaries, etc etc etc but hell I don't expect us to have the answer here when guns can't simply be banned. What I don't understand is how bartenders can be prosecuted if someone gets drunk at their bar and drives and kills someone, but a gun owner can't be held liable when their unsecured gun kills someone. Just thinking out loud... Or why cigarette manufacturers can be held liable but not gun manufacturers? (Blame that on Republicans for giving the gun industry immunity in 2005) Safe storage laws are an important step, but there isn't one simple solution to fix gun violence. Reducing gun violence will require multiple solutions. Good places to start would be common sense gun safety that most Americans can agree on - federal laws requiring background checks for all gun purchases, raising the age to purchase a gun to 21, a waiting period, bans on bump stocks and high capacity magazines etc. Personally, I would add bans on assault weapons as well because no one needs a weapon of war. And just like there are limits to the first amendment, there should be limits to the 2nd amendment as well.
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Post by aj2hall on Sept 4, 2024 22:06:11 GMT
There also simply weren’t as many guns sitting around people’s houses. Going to the range to shoot weapons of war wasn’t good family fun for most people. I grew up in a suburb that was 90% military families, and never once did I see a gun in any friend’s house or hear anyone talk about guns. The number of guns sold per person per year is six times higher now than it was in 1960, and about five times higher than it was in 2000 (when GenX had long since graduated). www.thetrace.org/2023/03/guns-america-data-atf-total/#:~:text=In%201960%2C%20some%201%2C130%20firearms,6%2C785%20guns%20per%20100%2C000%20people. Troubled kids in our generation came to school and started fights, or they skipped school and went out and got in trouble some other way. (My husband got mad and lit off bottle rockets in the hallway of his middle school.) They didn’t have easy access to semiautomatic rifles as so many do today and they didn’t live in a culture where guns are glorified both as super cool toys and as the way a man proves himself a man. Every underage school shooter ever got his gun at some point from an adult. Kids have guns because adults have more guns, and adults fetishize those guns. We’ve (sadly) hashed through this before. You and I are a similar age and clearly we had different upbringings. I grew up with guns in my parents house (not secure and loaded.) My Uncles’ homes, my grandparents homes. My friends homes. We DID go shooting regularly (at a minimum 3X a year to sight in different weapons.) I was a military brat, in the military and married to a guy in the military. Guns were everywhere. My dad bought me my first gun at 16. My sister too. They also bought my son his first gun (about 8yrs old.) Before anyone goes batty… we didn’t get to keep our guns in our personal possession until we moved out. And.. for the record, the gifted to my son was fired from time to time for target practice while supervised. To this day, I have it in my safe. He’s an adult now, and he still doesn’t have possession of it- I don’t think he’s all that interested. It isn’t taboo, and it isn’t exciting. I think my parents approach toward guns is a huge part of the problem. Not having them. Not teaching us how to use them. Not gifting them to us. My issue is 100% with having them not secured in their home (and many loaded) for the last 50 years. For the record…. None of us, my parents, siblings, extended family…. Not one person, has shot a person (other than in wartime situation.) We have also never encountered a firearm that managed to fire itself. It’s heartbreaking that far too many families are dealing with these tragic shootings. And we just keep talking around and around and around the problem. Banning anything, regardless of what scary name it is given isn’t going to change this. The guns aren’t the problem. The problem is hopelessness, despair, mental illness, emotional distress, violent culture, anger, fear, and a host of media and social media attention seeking behavior. Guns and the proliferation of them are the problem. Other wealthy countries have the same societal problems but not the gun violence. The difference is the availability of guns and gun culture in the US.
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Post by mom on Sept 4, 2024 22:31:21 GMT
So I have been researching the shooters family.....his dad is something else IMHO. He literally has movie clips on his FB that say 'shoot her, shoot her' from Jurassic Park and makes a comment about Colton being so uncoordinated he'd trip over his own shadow at soccer.
___disclaimer ____
this is my own research, and I could possibly have the wrong family, but I am pretty sure Im right.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 4, 2024 22:35:51 GMT
So I have been researching the shooters family.....his dad is something else IMHO. He literally has movie clips on his FB that say 'shoot her, shoot her' from Jurassic Park and makes a comment about Colton being so uncoordinated he'd trip over his own shadow at soccer. ___disclaimer ____ this is my own research, and I could possibly have the wrong family, but I am pretty sure Im right. . Bold mine... If it is the family, nice way for his dad to talk about his tripping etc .. So who was Colt's first bully??..??
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Post by mom on Sept 4, 2024 22:40:51 GMT
So I have been researching the shooters family.....his dad is something else IMHO. He literally has movie clips on his FB that say 'shoot her, shoot her' from Jurassic Park and makes a comment about Colton being so uncoordinated he'd trip over his own shadow at soccer. ___disclaimer ____ this is my own research, and I could possibly have the wrong family, but I am pretty sure Im right. . Bold mine... If it is the family, nice way for his dad to talk about his tripping etc .. So who was Colton's first bully??..?? I wouldn’t be surprised. It looks like he comes from a family of mom, dad and 4 boys. No recent photos though.
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Post by aj2hall on Sept 4, 2024 22:54:37 GMT
www.nytimes.com/live/2024/09/04/us/georgia-shooting-apalachee-high-schoolHere’s the latest:
The suspect “gave up and got on the ground” after he was confronted by school resource officers, said Sheriff Jud Smith of Barrow County, which includes Winder. Officials said the 14-year-old, whom they identified as Colt Gray, would be prosecuted as an adult.
The shooting was the deadliest episode of school violence in Georgia history, and prompted an outpouring of sympathy and outrage. President Biden, in a statement, lamented the attack as “another horrific reminder of how gun violence continues to tear our communities apart.”
Many in Winder were still waiting to learn the identities of those injured and killed. The authorities had not yet named any victims, although they planned to provide an update later on Wednesday. “My heart hurts for our community,” Sheriff Smith said.
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Post by nightnurse on Sept 4, 2024 23:10:06 GMT
I think part of the problem is illustrated here on this thread. Someone like merge will post statistics and facts and other people will say they don’t matter because they don’t match their own personal experiences. I’m guilty of it myself with my phone comments. But we need to look at the big picture, not just your own anecdotes. The guns are the problem. Mental health is the problem. Also it looks like the bullying problem started at home., not phone using classmates. I’d like to see the stats on the parenting style of shooters’ parents because the implication is always that parents are too soft on their kids and they need safe spaces and can’t cope and that’s why they shoot but anecdotally it certainly seems the opposite-authoritarian parents who idolize strength and guns and toughness seem to breed shooters, not gentle parents
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