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Post by drawkcab on Oct 14, 2015 16:20:45 GMT
Every year I'm stumped for what to give SO's family. Parents, siblings, their spouses, their kids who have kids of their own and him
Have any great suggestions?
It seems to be turning into an exchange of gift cards and that doesn't appeal to me. I'm tempted to tell him gifts for his family are his problem, but I like him more than that.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2015 17:12:30 GMT
An oilcloth coat for son. The type a cowboy wears. Only the short version, not a duster.
I got a small carryall for husband. Big enough to hold pencils , screws, and other small stuff that gets lost in a big bag.
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Oct 14, 2015 17:23:27 GMT
I haven't even thought that far ahead yet!
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Post by Karmady on Oct 14, 2015 17:29:39 GMT
We are going to Europe next summer so the Christmas gifts with be small. When we take more expensive trips, we downsize our Christmas and birthday gifts that year. We would rather do stuff than buy stuff. I might buy family tickets to a theatre performance. I'll assess if they need anything for the trip like a new travel bag. Other than that, I'll stuff their stockings
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2015 17:37:11 GMT
Christmas is going to be pretty low-key here this year.
It looks like DS is getting a puppy, but that won't likely be at Christmas, but after, when a pup from our chosen breeder is available. So he'll probably get a stuffed dog or something as a placeholder.
DH & I aren't exchanging gifts. We've had some significant purchases this year and are going to Hawaii next year, and decided we are going to skip gifts at Christmas.
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Post by janeinbama on Oct 14, 2015 17:45:10 GMT
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Post by drawkcab on Oct 14, 2015 18:18:30 GMT
Some great ideas there! I had to look up the Bug A Salt zapper... I can see some of them having fun with it. I tend to make thing and my family has put in their requests this year, but these guys don't like "home made" things. No way am I spending time on something that's not appreciated.
Gotta say I love the idea of taking a trip. Not with everyone, just my SO.
Any other thought, I'd love to hear. Thanks to those who've shared!
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Oct 14, 2015 18:20:45 GMT
I had a thread on my love of these a while ago, but lots of the people on my list will be getting Yeti tumblers. Depending on the person, some may have a gift card inside them as well. Those will take care of a lot of the non-family gifts for me.
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Post by tamaraann on Oct 14, 2015 18:25:30 GMT
Last fall I bought a fleece lined flannel shirt for myself at LL Bean. Then I bought one for dh for his birthday in March. All 3 of my dds have been wanting their own. They are super cozy! But a little spendy. I ordered them each on Monday when they were having 10% off. That's all so far.
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Post by janeliz on Oct 14, 2015 18:33:49 GMT
I'm also hoping for a more low-key Christmas, at least as far as gift giving goes. I have, though, picked up two things so far---a Stella & Dot necklace for my sister, and the Urban Decay Naked Basics eye palette for my 13 y/o. I'm taking our youngest to NYC in December as a 10th birthday gift, so I'll be closely watching what I spend this Christmas.
We don't exchange Christmas gifts with very many members of our extended family, but when I'm stumped for ideas I like to go with foodie gifts. Nice oils and vinegars, a specialty food item, etc.
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Post by Dictionary on Oct 14, 2015 18:41:40 GMT
janeinbama drawkcab My son gave me one of the salt bug guns and sadly it didn't work, we tried coarse and fine salt and it barely phased the spiders and flys we shot with the gun..disappointing Well so far I have three quilts I made that I am giving. Nothing beyond that except for the grandbabies. I wonder if you could take the $ you would spend on each person and buy tickets to some kind of event? Or subscription to a snack club? In the past I have bought science kits, throws, movie bucket, but like you gift cards. Sorry I am not much help.
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Post by quiltz on Oct 14, 2015 18:45:55 GMT
Cash, creatively folded using the directions for dollar bill origami in the Southwest Airlines magazine.
The gift that is perfect for everyone.
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Post by myboysnme on Oct 14, 2015 18:48:54 GMT
Every year I claim that I am going to set limits on spending but then one of my sons comes up with something that will make their lives complete and I cave. I still exchange with a few relatives and friends but for the most part i just have to worry about my mom who will give me a list and then my sons and husband. I will get them what they want and a few things i pick up to make a big pile of presents
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Post by oliquig on Oct 14, 2015 18:52:52 GMT
Niece is getting ticket to Matilda on Broadway, that's the only big one. Plus some knitted mukluks.
S. Dad and cousin are getting cashmere scarves, Mom a pretty knitted poncho, bff an alpaca scarf in purple, and that's it so far.
I'm heading to the big Yankee Candle store up in MA next month, so I will be getting a bunch of the rest there.
Dad and S. Mom will get some sort of food thing sent to them. Last year it was breakfast selections from Wolferman's, which they loved.
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Post by milocat on Oct 14, 2015 22:30:11 GMT
When it turned into a gift card exchange (some of which were never used) with my inlaws I said I was done exchanging. My mom and sister and I had already stopped exchanging on that side. So now I only buy for my 2 girls, 2 nieces and 2 nephews. Good luck with your shopping.
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Post by 950nancy on Oct 14, 2015 22:37:21 GMT
I guess I don't like my husband well enough because I don't buy his family the gifts. He also didn't have to buy my family gifts either. I like the idea of getting someone an experience. I know we have zip lining around here that people love. There is also theater or special buys on Groupon or Living Social. I know my husband also used to get his mom lawn services and got her gutters cleaned. (yeah, I give him a list for my gifts). So far my favorite gift I have purchased is a "Wooden Spoon Survivor" t-shirt off Amazon. It is for my son (a most unfortunate incident in 2008).
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Post by M~ on Oct 14, 2015 22:43:00 GMT
My sister is getting an Erickson Beamon rocks cuff bracelet My friend Pauline is getting two columbia fleece jackets My hearing clerk is getting a columbia fleece jacket My friend Jane is getting two Kipling purses I need to buy for my granny, two sisters and my best friend. I also need to buy for my brother in law
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Post by PEArfect on Oct 14, 2015 23:43:29 GMT
I bought my in-laws a sofa. Couples gifts on LH's side, pamper baskets (luxurious towels, pumice stones, party lite candles, homemade bath bombs in a storage basket.) ×4 Zombie/Walking Dead theme for my 13yo (4 t-shirts and seasons 1-4 of the Walking Dead. ) Basketball gear for my 8yo. (Hoop, shoes, shorts, tanks, pants, ball) Taco night basket for my brother and his girlfriend (homemade taco seasoning,queso,salsa and enchilada sauce. tortillas,chips, and a gift card to a local Mexican restaurant. Star Wars theme for my 4yo nephew. I went with TMNT for his birthday.
Still not sure about my dad, two nephews, and niece. I have some ideas. I have other ideas for my daughters too. I'll have to get creative with my 16yo.
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Post by CarolT on Oct 14, 2015 23:44:12 GMT
Dd (26) is going to London next month. I'm giving her tickets to a West End Show and paying "City Pass".
We're giving Ds (26) and his gf Disney annual passes.
Don't know yet about dh and extended family. The kids are all getting their gifts early, so I'll wrap a few minor items for everyone.
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Post by Scrapper100 on Oct 15, 2015 2:15:15 GMT
My MIL loves pepper jelly so I bought her three jars from the local farmers market. I also plan going to a little local tea and spice shop to get her some tea. She is also getting a scrapbook. I know she will love all of these gifts. I may make her a calendar to.
My FIL is getting a bottle of good whiskey that he likes and a bottle of wine from a local winery. He is also getting a cute box with photos of DS from this year.
Hubby and son are starting a model train so I plan to buy a few things for that.
No idea what anyone else is getting. I know two will get gift cards and one may get crafting supplies if she creates a list. I prefer giving gifts vs gift cards.
For the most part I think this may be the easiest year and have most things purchased which is a first. Best part most of the handmade gifts are complete or nearly complete.
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Post by freecharlie on Oct 15, 2015 2:23:44 GMT
Mil, cheese subscription, but not too expensive Fil beer flight glasses My dad intelligent sayings shirts My mother pictures of her 4 grandkids
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Post by hop2 on Oct 15, 2015 2:37:22 GMT
I decided that life is too short and unpredictable. (it has been for me lately ) and if I came upon a gift I thought someone would like I bought and gave it.
Rocking chair peanut butter of the month club lighthouse If I saw it and had a loved one who would like it I just got it and sent it or gave it.
They will get something small and a card at christmas.
It may not last forever but this was my year to live in the moment.
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Post by Scrapper100 on Oct 15, 2015 2:42:39 GMT
I decided that life is too short and unpredictable. (it has been for me lately ) and if I came upon a gift I thought someone would like I bought and gave it. Rocking chair peanut butter of the month club lighthouse If I saw it and had a loved one who would like it I just got it and sent it or gave it. They will get something small and a card at christmas. It may not last forever but this was my year to live in the moment. I love it and may give my mil the jelly early as she has mentioned she can't find any. I know it sounds like a funny gift but both of us like it so I think it is fun.
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Post by AussieMeg on Oct 15, 2015 2:51:28 GMT
It seems to be turning into an exchange of gift cards and that doesn't appeal to me. I agree with you, it really does seem to be just a gift card exchange these days. BUT..... One of my favorite gifts to receive is a gift card to my favorite restaurant that DSO and I can both enjoy. So I don't actually mind receiving them, I just don't really like giving them. Every year when we ask for suggestions of what to give my dad, he tells us fertiliser for his garden. My brother and I used to say "I'm not getting you POO for Christmas!" But now we just go get him a big ole bag of poo or blood and bone. Keeps him happy.
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Oct 15, 2015 2:56:16 GMT
I personally like the Bliss hand creams ($10). My sister, though, likes one from H2O: there is a travel size for $5 but I got her this nifty looking set for $20. (That brand might be okay to use coupons on.) One year recently, I gave my aunt a Thirty-One Gifts thermal tote ($18) after she admired mine.
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Post by Nanner on Oct 15, 2015 2:59:14 GMT
I know that a lot of people think it's too impersonal, but really - giftcards (cash for DD). That's what they would all prefer, so that's what they're getting. I have also picked up DD and DS a couple of other smaller gifts (clothes)
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Post by shelby on Oct 15, 2015 4:50:46 GMT
My daughters and granddaughters are always calling me and asking me for a recipe or how to substitute something in a recipe or how to clean something, so I am making them all cookbooks . The main section is filled with all the recipes that our family has loved throughout the years. The second section has a page about each of them and their favorite recipe. The last section is full of helps and hints. I have to make one for two daughters a daughter in law and 7 grandkida plus one for my sister.. I have really enjoyed working on them.. So many of the recipes bring back fond memories of special times and so I have been putting footnotes, pictures and stories on a lot of the pages. Working on them in the evenings hasn't been a problem and it is moving along quite well. I just hope they will enjoy them.
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Post by beaglemom on Oct 15, 2015 4:55:27 GMT
I pulled the trigger since dh's sisters wouldn't and suggested that we not do gifts this year for the adults or the kids. I am so tired of putting in tons of effort and money into gifts and there being very little appreciation and gifts with very little thought from others. So I'm sure we will have to come up with something for dh's parents even though they are going to go spend christmas with dh's sisters. My parents, my sister and her dh, dh, and my kids (dd and ds). Dd is 4.5 and I got her the 3/4 size Janome sewing machine. She loves that I sew her stuff and has been showing a lot of interest and my machines are too big for her. Dh is in charge of getting her and her brother (2.5) bikes, they have been asking for over a year and he is being picky about what he wants to get them so I said he has to deal with it. Ds is getting some Lightening McQueen stuff and we are thinking about starting him with a nice model train set. He loves trains and it would be fun to have something that we can add to every year. My parents I am thinking about tickets or an event. For my sister and her dh I haven't decided, but probably something involving our kids - since they adore them. Now dh, not a clue. I got him a PS4 for his birthday and now I have no ideas for Christmas!
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Post by mymindseyedpea on Oct 15, 2015 6:28:43 GMT
I'm making everyone a present moment pocket calendar, and will personalize each card in the pockets.
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Post by claire on Oct 15, 2015 11:45:07 GMT
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