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Post by dewryce on Jul 31, 2016 0:37:12 GMT
Thanks, dewryce My sister (the one who is donating eggs) was actually a gestational surrogate twice (their eggs & sperm/her uterus) for twins and a singleton. She had an amazing experience the first time and an overall pretty good one the second time, and keeps in good contact with the parents (the twins live out of the country--they actually flew her over for a few weeks a couple years ago, and she regularly skypes with them). The youngest surrobaby now lives a city away from her and she is a trusted friend and occasional babysitter. It is a pretty incredible experience all around. Best of luck to you moving forward with your baby making! I love hearing positive stories like this! Yes, it will be our buns in her oven  that's the easiest way to describe it. Our gestational carrier is lovely and we can't wait to work with her! Hopefully there will be good news for both of us soon! |
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Post by scrapnatya on Jul 31, 2016 0:40:56 GMT
Sending you lots of light and strength. Hugs.
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Post by Merge on Jul 31, 2016 1:06:35 GMT
I'm so sorry for what you've gone through, and admire your strength and grace in dealing both with your personal setbacks and one of our resident trolls.
Best wishes for the future.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jul 31, 2016 1:11:37 GMT
I have nothing to add other than a  and a  and I wish you and your DH the best. Not a happy day. Just know the love is there. |
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Post by bearmom on Jul 31, 2016 1:19:06 GMT
Sorry for your loss.
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Post by trollie on Jul 31, 2016 1:38:23 GMT
I'm sure you'll be thrilled to hear that my IVF was unsuccessful and I will never have a biological child. I have been on 2Peas/refugees for 15 years now and your post was the single most hateful thing I have ever come across. Thanks for that Oh man. I am so sorry for your loss.  |
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Post by J u l e e on Jul 31, 2016 1:46:07 GMT
I am very happy you exist as well! I am so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))
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Post by Judy26 on Jul 31, 2016 1:56:26 GMT
OP, any child in this world would be so lucky to have you as a mother. May your arms be soon filled with a bundle of joy. Your story of family support and learning to live with grace and joy while facing such tribulations is a testament to all of us. Do NOT let the anger and ugliness that seems to control Yubon's life affect your positive outlook. She is not worth one second of your time. I will think lots of baby thoughts for you in the coming weeks.  |
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 31, 2016 2:00:46 GMT
I am so, so sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. Thinking of you and your husband at this sad time.  |
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Post by alexa11 on Jul 31, 2016 2:35:00 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by chaosisapony on Jul 31, 2016 2:39:07 GMT
PNWMom you are a real class act. I hope everything works out well for you in the future.
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Post by scrapbookwriter on Jul 31, 2016 2:49:29 GMT
PNWMom, I am so sorry. You are an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Jul 31, 2016 3:04:53 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story with us. We are all pulling for you!
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Post by jenjie on Jul 31, 2016 3:07:33 GMT
I am so sorry. Gentle hugs.
I am so proud of the way you have chosen to advocate and teach the girls in your family and others as well, if your clear voice here is any indication.
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Post by maryland on Jul 31, 2016 3:08:01 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Ignore that hateful post. I have never read such a hateful post. The rest of us here are supporting you. Thank you for sharing your story and giving us valuable information. I wish good health to you and the men and women in your family. You are in our prayers!
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Post by Really Red on Jul 31, 2016 3:16:27 GMT
I cannot imagine the depth of your sadness. In sharing that with us, you had to hear someone who is so unhappy with her own life that she feels the need to take it out on you. I cannot imagine the horror and hatred in her sad life. You have joy. You have a supportive husband and a bright future and at least one wonderful sister (if not more). Lucky you and lucky child who you will have one day.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jul 31, 2016 3:19:00 GMT
I'm so sorry to read your update. I hope that you and your DH will be able to add to your family with your sister's help in the future. ((hugs)) |
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Jul 31, 2016 3:33:20 GMT
I am so sorry to hear your update. I hope and pray that the next IV round will be successful and that before long you'll be holding a beautiful baby in your arms
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Post by anonrefugee on Jul 31, 2016 3:38:51 GMT
PNWMom you are a light in the world! Thank you for being the kind of person who takes time in a dark moment to educate her peers. You've shown true grace.
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Post by christinec68 on Jul 31, 2016 3:45:04 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. 😞
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Post by River on Jul 31, 2016 3:54:23 GMT
You are a true inspiration! I applaud your strength, courage and grace.
I'm truly sorry! I know the pain of getting that news. I'm very happy to hear your sister is going to be a donor for you and you're not giving up. All three of my boys are due to IVF.
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Post by patin on Jul 31, 2016 4:13:26 GMT
I am truly sorry to hear this sad news. You are a very gracious lady. Thank you for educating us as to all the advances medical science has been able to attain. With that said ... Just imagine what breakthroughs in treatment will be available in the future for your nieces or your future daughter.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 31, 2016 4:40:25 GMT
I'm so sorry that you had such devastating news about your IVF. One way or another you have way too much love to give and I wish you the child that will be so loved in your care.
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Post by bothmykidsrbrats on Jul 31, 2016 5:08:28 GMT
I'm am so sorry. {Hugs} to you and your DH. Glad you found the ignore feature to hide cat piss breath. Unfortunately, people quote it, so we still have to see it's vile shit once in a while. Good thoughts and prayers you have success with you sweet sister's eggs. |
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Post by oaksong on Jul 31, 2016 5:11:07 GMT
I'm sorry for the difficulties you have gone through. Your strength and grace ate inspiring. It's hard to believe that you were attacked so hatefully during such a vulnerable time. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'll be rooting for success.
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Post by chlerbie on Jul 31, 2016 5:58:42 GMT
I'm so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and your husband.
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Post by joelise on Jul 31, 2016 8:53:06 GMT
I'm sorry for you loss, I know how heartbreaking it is. You sound like an amazing strong woman and I wish you all the best for whatever comes your way in the future.
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Post by anniebygaslight on Jul 31, 2016 9:01:08 GMT
So sorry to hear your update. x
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Post by gar on Jul 31, 2016 9:04:05 GMT
Aww, that's tough. Wishing you strength going forward and a lovely outcome down the road  |
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Post by 3jaysanc on Jul 31, 2016 9:19:19 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss.
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that's the easiest way to describe it. Our gestational carrier is lovely and we can't wait to work with her! Hopefully there will be good news for both of us soon!
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