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Post by Deleted on Aug 29, 2017 15:53:23 GMT
the only question I saw in review was what it costs and why not denounce? (If I missed another question please lmk as I'm working on my phone with no internet connection and now at work). What it cost me to call out Trump here on this board? Nothing but time and effort. But what does it mean Or accomplish...to me that's the bigger aspect because whether I do or don't isn't going to change Trump or this administration. It doesn't mean anything. I guess it means about the same thing as extending empathy or support when someone announces they are going through a divorce here in this community. It costs the person responding nothing but time and effort. It isn't going to change what the person is going through. But I would never say it doesn't mean anything. I've seen people support and stand with others here through countless things - even if it is just to make them feel better. I've seen people do it for you. busy at work but I suppose the best way to explain the difference would be offering support for divorce, job loss, death of family member is personal. (And yes I have also received support here on this forum). While the klan or nazi's marching down the street is horrible and repulsive, unless they're camped in a pea's front yard , I don't see that as personal as divorce, illness, death etc. It doesn't mean I'm in support of the klan or nazi's or that I cannot support others here, I just don't lump the two together in terms of support and how I can support or what I can say to encourage or make someone feel better here.
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Post by Olan on Aug 29, 2017 15:57:35 GMT
But there is more to it then just screaming from the rafters that you aren't xyz...you have to embody that and fight for it. In several of my threads people have ragged against me and then said they had a relative that marched with Dr. King *bangs head*. I think they were just throwing out that white lie to shut me up but fighting for freedom is an action thing.
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Post by snowsilver on Aug 29, 2017 15:58:32 GMT
Thanks for the info, Lucy. Might not agree, but it was nice of you to give me the other side. About the horse--you could be right. Seems I've picked more than one wrong horse lately:). I hope your day is marvelous. I'm off the get groceries from Wegmans and then to do some photo editing on a recent senior session.
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Post by Olan on Aug 29, 2017 16:00:11 GMT
I guess it means about the same thing as extending empathy or support when someone announces they are going through a divorce here in this community. It costs the person responding nothing but time and effort. It isn't going to change what the person is going through. But I would never say it doesn't mean anything. I've seen people support and stand with others here through countless things - even if it is just to make them feel better. I've seen people do it for you. busy at work but I suppose the best way to explain the difference would be offering support for divorce, job loss, death of family member is personal. (And yes I have also received support here on this forum). While the klan or nazi's marching down the street is horrible and repulsive, unless they're camped in a pea's front yard , I don't see that as personal as divorce, illness, death etc. It doesn't mean I'm in support of the klan or nazi's or that I cannot support others here, I just don't lump the two together in terms of support and how I can support or what I can say to encourage or make someone feel better here. It's life or death for people who look like me and has been for some time. So when I get no sympathy from the peas I absolutely assume it's because they share the sentiments of the police and or society.
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Post by #notLauren on Aug 29, 2017 16:04:25 GMT
No offense, but from what I've read here, the lack of sympathy you perceive is due to the way you express yourself and not because people necessarily share the sentiments of the police or society. I've seen many of the most extreme liberals of this board take issue with you even though they wholeheartedly support BLM and other groups fighting for social justice.
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Post by Olan on Aug 29, 2017 16:10:32 GMT
None taken *shrugs* I think the way I am perceived/received has everything to do with the fact that I am a black woman and nothing to do with how I present the uncomfortable information I attempt to share. I learned a lot from having an outside perspective of 2peas. The consensus was while racism is certainly present here it really is just a matter of people having an unwillinglyness to be both kind to other people. The need to always fight.
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Post by #notLauren on Aug 29, 2017 16:14:25 GMT
None taken *shrugs* I think the way I am perceived/received has everything to do with the fact that I am a black woman and nothing to do with how I present the uncomfortable information I attempt to share. I learned a lot from having an outside perspective of 2peas. The consensus was while racism is certainly present here it really is just a matter of people having an unwillinglyness to be both kind to other people. The need to always fight. I think you may be right from your perspective
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Post by ginacivey on Aug 29, 2017 18:04:42 GMT
Man, this place is tiresome sometimes. truer words have never been spoken about this board gina
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Post by Olan on Aug 29, 2017 18:21:04 GMT
None taken *shrugs* I think the way I am perceived/received has everything to do with the fact that I am a black woman and nothing to do with how I present the uncomfortable information I attempt to share. I learned a lot from having an outside perspective of 2peas. The consensus was while racism is certainly present here it really is just a matter of people having an unwillinglyness to be both kind to other people. The need to always fight. I think you may be right from your perspective I would be okay if I wasn't right and that's the problem with a lot of peas. No one truly wants to be introspective and see the other side. The peas who pretend their conservative Republican mind could somehow change if liberals behaved differently just aren't fooling me. Also could someone concisely say exactly what Republican policy they support so strongly and need to see through so badly that causes you to vote Republican at all costs? What specific issue is important to you? I've heard the "We wanted a shake things up" but I honestly don't understand how we find ourselves in this space. Also the smug you'll need me 2020 attitude proves there are no patriots left. This isn't just some I want pink flowers instead of purple kind of vote. A lot of Americans don't feel safe because of this administration.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Aug 29, 2017 18:49:55 GMT
I can't believe I was nice to you when you first showed up here. I won't make that mistake again. Newbies, beware! You are all suspect! So saith the self-proclaimed "Queen of the Message Board". Get over yourself. You act as if people should consider themselves privileged that you deign to be nice to them. What a hoot. Oh you are so wrong and off the mark on this one...
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Post by #notLauren on Aug 29, 2017 18:51:40 GMT
That may be the case from your point of view; it's not the case for mine.
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Post by elaine on Aug 29, 2017 19:04:08 GMT
So saith the self-proclaimed "Queen of the Message Board". Get over yourself. You act as if people should consider themselves privileged that you deign to be nice to them. What a hoot. Oh you are so wrong and off the mark on this one... lucyg is one of the most fair and level-minded peas on the board. There are many days that I would love to have her calm composure, and I look to her as an example of compassionate political discussion.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Aug 29, 2017 19:11:44 GMT
I think you may be right from your perspective I would be okay if I wasn't right and that's the problem with a lot of peas. No one truly wants to be introspective and see the other side. The peas who pretend their conservative Republican mind could somehow change if liberals behaved differently just aren't fooling me. Also could someone concisely say exactly what Republican policy they support so strongly and need to see through so badly that causes you to vote Republican at all costs? What specific issue is important to you? I've heard the "We wanted a shake things up" but I honestly don't understand how we find ourselves in this space. Also the smug you'll need me 2020 attitude proves there are no patriots left. This isn't just some I want pink flowers instead of purple kind of vote. A lot of Americans don't feel safe because of this administration. Olan, I hope I didn't come across as smug. My political beliefs are something that I've held for a very long time. They feel very personal to me. I do believe they are evolving. I become more liberal the older I get. Faced with the 2016 election again, I can't say I would have made the same choice again. I don't know. I am concerned about this administration. In 2020 there's no telling how I might vote. I won't be supporting Trump then either. I do want to see good policy discussions because I want to feel confident I am making the right choice.
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Post by ginacivey on Aug 29, 2017 19:43:05 GMT
lucyg is one of the most fair and level-minded peas on the board. There are many days that I would love to have her calm composure, and I look to her as an example of compassionate political discussion. you bet she is
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Post by hop2 on Aug 29, 2017 19:54:25 GMT
I think you may be right from your perspective I would be okay if I wasn't right and that's the problem with a lot of peas. No one truly wants to be introspective and see the other side. The peas who pretend their conservative Republican mind could somehow change if liberals behaved differently just aren't fooling me. Also could someone concisely say exactly what Republican policy they support so strongly and need to see through so badly that causes you to vote Republican at all costs? What specific issue is important to you? I've heard the "We wanted a shake things up" but I honestly don't understand how we find ourselves in this space. Also the smug you'll need me 2020 attitude proves there are no patriots left. This isn't just some I want pink flowers instead of purple kind of vote. A lot of Americans don't feel safe because of this administration. exactly
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Post by valleyview on Aug 29, 2017 19:55:29 GMT
I guess it means about the same thing as extending empathy or support when someone announces they are going through a divorce here in this community. It costs the person responding nothing but time and effort. It isn't going to change what the person is going through. But I would never say it doesn't mean anything. I've seen people support and stand with others here through countless things - even if it is just to make them feel better. I've seen people do it for you. busy at work but I suppose the best way to explain the difference would be offering support for divorce, job loss, death of family member is personal. (And yes I have also received support here on this forum). While the klan or nazi's marching down the street is horrible and repulsive, unless they're camped in a pea's front yard , I don't see that as personal as divorce, illness, death etc. It doesn't mean I'm in support of the klan or nazi's or that I cannot support others here, I just don't lump the two together in terms of support and how I can support or what I can say to encourage or make someone feel better here. I think that iamkristinl16 and Olan described very well how your choices are affecting them personally. jeremysgirl has also written some thoughtful responses. Several Jewish and Hispanic members have added how the Nazi disconnect is very personal. I do not get why some peas are adamant that an unwillingness to denounce what is very anti-American behavior is PERSONAL! If one is sorry that a child is sick, a divorce is impending, or any other support is needed, then there should be a willingness to sympathize with a black woman who is afraid of the police, a child who must be taught that his skin color could cause him danger, or anyone whose religious beliefs lead them to persecution. Again, some of the discourse (civil or not) on this board and in our country makes plenty of people reflect on their worth and safety in our society. That is reprehensible. How can our country be great when there seem to be active campaigns to disenfranchise so many?
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Post by gar on Aug 29, 2017 20:15:10 GMT
That may be the case from your point of view; it's not the case for mine. Then I would say you are in a very, very small minority.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 29, 2017 21:13:20 GMT
Many people have posted with very clear answers saying what it would mean to them, how it would make them feel, that it could empower them to take action. That in itself is change. Not all change has to come from within the administration to have value. Honestly, I'm struggling to see why the way your fellow citizens feel means nothing. I will start with the disclaimer that I rarely post on political threads, though I do read almost all of them. I don't post much because I am not as well-spoken on political topics as so many of you here are. I love reading them because I learn so much, and I have very often changed my opinions on issues based on what I read and learn here. That out of the way, I'm going to give my 2 cents on why I would like people here to denounce Trump and his Nazi-sympathizing behavior and speeches. While I realize that doing so on a message board does nothing to "fix" anything, I want to know what type of people I am interacting with. I do not want to interact in any way with anyone who thinks that Nazism in America is ok, especially on a message board that I come to for enjoyment. In my real life, I have to deal with my parents who are Trump supporters. They think that he should just be left alone so he can get to the job of fixing this country. Yeah, my dad says that on a regular basis. They think people are too sensitive. We haven't talked specifically about Charlottesville, but I have no doubt they see nothing wrong with what Trump said because they say all the time that people twist his words. Which is just laughable to me considering that we all hear his words and they need no twisting to make him look bad. I have no choice but to interact with my parents, and I go out of my way to avoid any political discussions with them if I can help it. But, I would have no problem curtailing my contact with a friend who shows me that he or she thinks there is nothing wrong with not only Nazis marching in the streets of America chanting Hitler slogans but also thinks there is nothing wrong with the POTUS, no matter who he is, thinking there is nothing wrong with it either. I have no problem having friends and others in my life with different political beliefs than mine. But like someone else said pages ago, this isn't a political issue. It's a moral, personal character issue, and I find anyone who thinks Nazism in America is ok to be reprehensible. Therefore, I do not want to have anything to do with anyone on this board who thinks it is ok. I do not want to knowingly interact on some innocuous thread about crafts with someone who is a Nazi sympathizer. That is MY reason for wanting people here to denounce Trump on this particular topic. I Gia LuPeaA, denounce white supremacists and Nazis. They are wrong in their thinking and that thinking has no place in our country or the world, for that matter. No race is better than any other race, we're all human and equal. This is a very enlightening thread and I think it would help if people would point out what he said that showed he sympathized with white supremacists and Nazis. I think there's a disconnect between what those on the Right heard and what those on the Left heard. If we could understand why some think he's sympathized with them and some don't think he has sympathized or supported them, the conversation might lead to further understanding between the two "sides".
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Post by elaine on Aug 29, 2017 21:20:20 GMT
And yet some of the people who don't get it on this thread will complain vocally here about the "War on Christmas" and "Christian persecution" because the cashier at Target says "Happy Holidays" or their kid's school calls it a "Winter Concert"...
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Post by elaine on Aug 29, 2017 21:21:07 GMT
That may be the case from your point of view; it's not the case for mine. Then I would say you are in a very, very small minority.
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Post by elaine on Aug 29, 2017 21:21:34 GMT
lucyg is one of the most fair and level-minded peas on the board. There are many days that I would love to have her calm composure, and I look to her as an example of compassionate political discussion. you bet she is Yes I do!
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Aug 29, 2017 21:22:25 GMT
Remove the "sides" and just go with what Trump says and does.
That should remove any doubt.
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Post by bc2ca on Aug 29, 2017 21:31:29 GMT
This is a very enlightening thread and I think it would help if people would point out what he said that showed he sympathized with white supremacists and Nazis. I think there's a disconnect between what those on the Right heard and what those on the Left heard. If we could understand why some think he's sympathized with them and some don't think he has sympathized or supported them, the conversation might lead to further understanding between the two "sides". When he said "some were very fine people". If you didn't see any of the video coverage from the Friday night torch march/parade, you could hear that statement and assume maybe there were a number of different groups there. But the fact is everyone in that parade was chanting "blood and soil", "they won't replace us", "Jews won't replace us", etc. There was no way "a very fine person" accidentally found themselves in that group. Many were very clean cut, khaki and golf shirt wearing boys-next-door, but that doesn't make them fine people. Their chants made them white supremacists and Nazis. I really don't think Trump saw any footage of Friday night. He may have seen photographs and based on that he was quick to accept at least some as "very fine people" because they looked like the fine people he sees on his golf courses. What he said, based on what happened, can't be anything but sympathy to white supremacists and Nazis. SaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSave
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Post by elaine on Aug 29, 2017 21:39:59 GMT
This is a very enlightening thread and I think it would help if people would point out what he said that showed he sympathized with white supremacists and Nazis. I think there's a disconnect between what those on the Right heard and what those on the Left heard. If we could understand why some think he's sympathized with them and some don't think he has sympathized or supported them, the conversation might lead to further understanding between the two "sides". When he said "some were very fine people". If you didn't see any of the video coverage from the Friday night torch march/parade, you could hear that statement and assume maybe there were a number of different groups there. But the fact is everyone in that parade was chanting "blood and soil", "they won't replace us", Jews won't replace us", etc. There was no way "a very fine person" accidentally found themselves in that group. Many were very clean cut, khaki and golf shirt wearing boys-next-door, but that doesn't make them fine people. Their chants made them white supremacists and Nazis. I really don't think Trump saw any footage of Friday night. He may have seen photographs and he was quick to accept at least some as "very fine people". What he said, based on what happened, can't be anything but sympathy to white supremacists and Nazis. SaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveI am sad to say that I do think that Trump saw footage, and I think that he says whatever comes to his mind to keep that adoring audience. They will love and cheer for him as long as he supports them - even if support means not actively condemning them, as any other decent non-deplorable person or politician would. He knows that Nazis, The KKK and White Supremacists are part of his most loyal base - loyalty to HIM being MUCH more important to him than having honor and integrity (look at all the people he has tried to pressure into making loyalty pledges) or being loyal to the Constitution. Trump cherishes their adoration much more than doing what is morally correct.
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Post by lucyg on Aug 29, 2017 21:41:49 GMT
Newbies, beware! You are all suspect! I just can't agree with this, I don't think it's a healthy attitude either individually or for our community. We need new people to keep us thriving, and it costs us nothing to be kind. The controversial peas who "leave" and join again under a new name are easy enough to spot, they just can't help themselves repeating old patterns - case in point, this thread. There's no need to be suspicious or accusatory towards all new peas: we only need to give them time, and the old ones will out themselves soon enough, then do as you will. I do agree with you completely ... I was really just kinda joking.
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Post by Peal on Aug 29, 2017 21:45:42 GMT
I'm not going to read every single post of 10 pages of predictability but I did want to comment on something elaine said on this last page.. This. I don't get it. Why would being against Fascism be a bad thing? I have to think that there are people of both political parties that can agree on hating the things Fascism stands for and was defeated in WW2? Of course, there are going to be extremists on that side also, but I'm willing to bet some money that the majority of people who are showing up to counter protest Neo-Nazis, the KKK and any other deplorable that wants to march along side of them are not the violent ones. Can the Neo-Nazis, KKK and others say that? Who's the group that are coming locked and loaded, which I'm sure is just cheeky to the LEO that have to work that hot mess (who's the active shooter?) and waving a confederate flag and shouting "Sieg Trump"? This was probably for another thread but it's something that's been bugging me since C-ville. I think it isn't really about antifa. I think the problem is that the anarchists have hitched their wagon to antifa and show up when they do. And the anarchists are scary as fuck. They just want to disrupt and destroy. Which makes it very difficult for people watching from home on their tvs to differentiate between the peaceful counter protestors and the destructive loons who happen to show up about the same time. So they get lumped together and then you get "but they did it too" or "it was a "peaceful protest" until the brawl happened." regardless of who threw the first punch. Save
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Post by lucyg on Aug 29, 2017 21:46:31 GMT
So yes, I want people, everyone to denounce Nazis and white supremacists just to make me feel better. Absolutely I denounce all white supremacists and Nazis - felt the same way about Senator Robert Byrd. Notably, he served for 51 years. I do not like the president excusing their behavior nor do I like the Klan serving as government officials. linkRobert Byrd renounced his association with the KKK, bitterly regretted it, publicly apologized for it, and spent the next 60-some years of his life in community service and otherwise working to undo his previous actions and beliefs. I do not find that comparable to some guy marching through my Jewish niece's college town, waving a torch and a Nazi flag, and chanting, "Jews will not replace us." Last week. ETA oops, I was late to this party.
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Post by bc2ca on Aug 29, 2017 21:49:31 GMT
When he said "some were very fine people". If you didn't see any of the video coverage from the Friday night torch march/parade, you could hear that statement and assume maybe there were a number of different groups there. But the fact is everyone in that parade was chanting "blood and soil", "they won't replace us", Jews won't replace us", etc. There was no way "a very fine person" accidentally found themselves in that group. Many were very clean cut, khaki and golf shirt wearing boys-next-door, but that doesn't make them fine people. Their chants made them white supremacists and Nazis. I really don't think Trump saw any footage of Friday night. He may have seen photographs and he was quick to accept at least some as "very fine people". What he said, based on what happened, can't be anything but sympathy to white supremacists and Nazis. SaveSaveSaveSaveSaveSaveI am sad to say that I do think that Trump saw footage, and I think that he says whatever comes to his mind to keep that adoring audience. They will love and cheer for him as long as he supports them - even if support means not actively condemning them, as any other decent non-deplorable person or politician would. He knows that Nazis, The KKK and White Supremacists are part of his most loyal base - loyalty to HIM being MUCH more important to him than having honor and integrity (look at all the people he has tried to pressure into making loyalty pledges) or being loyal to the Constitution. Trump cherishes their adoration much more than doing what is morally correct. I was trying not to let my head explode reconciling his statements with the fact he has a Jewish DD, SIL and grandkids. When David Duke tweets a thank you for your support, there is no question the white supremacists heard his sympathy for them loud and clear. SaveSave
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Post by elaine on Aug 29, 2017 21:50:56 GMT
I'm not going to read every single post of 10 pages of predictability but I did want to comment on something elaine said on this last page.. This. I don't get it. Why would being against Fascism be a bad thing? I have to think that there are people of both political parties that can agree on hating the things Fascism stands for and was defeated in WW2? Of course, there are going to be extremists on that side also, but I'm willing to bet some money that the majority of people who are showing up to counter protest Neo-Nazis, the KKK and any other deplorable that wants to march along side of them are not the violent ones. Can the Neo-Nazis, KKK and others say that? Who's the group that are coming locked and loaded, which I'm sure is just cheeky to the LEO that have to work that hot mess (who's the active shooter?) and waving a confederate flag and shouting "Sieg Trump"? This was probably for another thread but it's something that's been bugging me since C-ville. I think it isn't really about antifa. I think the problem is that the anarchists have hitched their wagon to antifa and show up when they do. And the anarchists are scary as fuck. They just want to disrupt and destroy. Which makes it very difficult for people watching from home on their tvs to differentiate between the peaceful counter protestors and the destructive loons who happen to show up about the same time. So they get lumped together and then you get "but they did it too" or "it was a "peaceful protest" until the brawl happened." regardless of who threw the first punch. SaveShouldn't the President of the USA be capable of making the distinction, rather than fanning ignorant flames at political "rallies?" He is one of those marking "Antifa" as the enemy, with no discussion of Anarchists.
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Post by hop2 on Aug 29, 2017 21:51:00 GMT
I denounce all white supremacists and Nazis - felt the same way about Senator Robert Byrd. Notably, he served for 51 years. I do not like the president excusing their behavior nor do I like the Klan serving as government officials. linkRobert Byrd renounced his association with the KKK, bitterly regretted it, publicly apologized for it, and spent the next 60-some years of his life in community service and otherwise working to undo his previous actions and beliefs. I do not find that comparable to some guy marching through my Jewish niece's college town, waving a torch and a Nazi flag, and chanting, "Jews will not replace us." Last week. Unless one or two of those young men learn a similar lesson and change their lives
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