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Post by krazykatlady on Apr 4, 2018 15:20:11 GMT
We got married in 1987 and initially lived in my husband’s apartment. From there we went to another apartment, to a rental home and finally to our current home in 1991. Yes, we’ve been here 27 years.
My parents moved into a new home the year before I was born and my mother remained in that home until she moved into a retirement community several years after my dad died. So, staying in the same home all these years seems “normal” to me. On the other hand my husband’s family moved constantly over his childhood and for him it’s been weird that we’ve stayed in one place so long.
There’s nothing special about our house. In fact I sometimes refer to it as the The Dump. It was a fixer upper when we bought it and it’s still a fixer upper today. We’ve just never pursued or even thought about moving even though we don’t love where we live.
So, are we an anomaly of nature?
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 4, 2018 15:23:37 GMT
I don't think so. We built a custom home in 1987 and still live there, 31 years later.
We do love where we live. It's an awesome neighborhood.
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Post by kkooch on Apr 4, 2018 15:23:53 GMT
I moved out of my parents home just prior to turning 21, then lived in an apartment for just under two years and then then to my current home which I've lived in for about 33 years. I'm hoping to sell the house this summer/fall. Kinda exciting but also scary to move somewhere else.
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Post by Monica* on Apr 4, 2018 15:24:31 GMT
We tend to move every 7 to 10 years. In the past for job relocations. This time, we are downsizing and are empty nesters. I really want this next house to be IT! I always liked to move and get a fresh start, but at this point in my life, I'm ready to settle in some roots. Carry me out feet first.
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Post by Linda on Apr 4, 2018 15:25:05 GMT
Thanksgiving will be 10 years in this house, we spent 9 in the previous. Definitely strange to me after a childhood and young-adulthood spent moving. I lived in 10 houses in 5 countries before I turned 18 and my oldest lived in 10 flats/houses in 4 states before he turned 18. My girls have always lived in the safe state and this is only house 2 for them.
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Post by cmpeter on Apr 4, 2018 15:25:52 GMT
Our current house...we've been here for 12 years.
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Post by padresfan619 on Apr 4, 2018 15:27:05 GMT
My parents have lived in the same home since 1984. I spent 18 years straight there and then off and on until I got married at 22. My husband and I have been in our home for 7 years and have no plans to move.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 4, 2018 15:28:36 GMT
We moved over one street in 1988. This July will mark our 30th year in this house. When we bought it, it was 4 bedroom and 3 bathroom. It was huge for 2 people and one dog. We've added a few kids, a few dogs, and another bedroom. We've also added a huge deck in the back that almost spans the entire back of the house. I do love my neighborhood and driving down my street it looks like a gorgeous picture. We face the mountains and I never get sick of that view.
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Post by workingclassdog on Apr 4, 2018 15:32:16 GMT
I've been in my home for almost 20 years which is by FAR the longest I have ever been in one home.. I think previous to that in my entire life I have never lived in a house more than 3 years. EVER.
We just have had no real reason to move from our current home even though we thought it would be our 'starter' home. We just never left. Now we really can't afford to move because houses are just so expensive. We thought about it last year to move to another state, but it didn't really work out. We are pretty much happy where we are at although we need to start updating carpet, windows and stuff like that. But that will have to wait until summer.
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Post by mom on Apr 4, 2018 15:33:31 GMT
Growing up, we moved a bunch. 6 homes between the ages of 11-18 (not including the 6 months I was an exchange student to Russia). It was important to me that my kids have roots - we've lived in three houses in the last 18 years and have been in this home for 11 years. No plans to move until its time to move to a retirement home.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2018 15:35:52 GMT
We were in our first home from 1986 to 2010. We then became empty nesters and the house across the street became available...so we moved there and have been there for the last 8 years with no plans to move any time soon.
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Post by Basket1lady on Apr 4, 2018 15:37:43 GMT
I grew up in the same house for 22 years, married a military man, and have moved 15 times in the past 28 years. We should retire in the next year and I’m looking forward to my own home that I can paint any color that I want!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 4, 2018 15:39:48 GMT
I lived in three places from birth to age 18. My family moved when I was four to the house I lived in until I graduated high school, then my mom moved us out to the ‘burbs right after that. I lived in that house for a year, moved into an apartment with DH for two years, then we bought the house we lived in for the next 23 years before we moved to a bigger house. I can’t believe it will be six years already that we’ve lived here. This will be our last house. We don’t plan on moving again.
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Post by littlemama on Apr 4, 2018 15:48:26 GMT
I lived in the house my family owned when I was born for just under 18 years, then an apartment for 5 years (parents divorce), a condo for 3 years, an apartment for 3 years (newly married) and the home we live in now for 19 years.
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Post by iluvpink on Apr 4, 2018 15:50:28 GMT
We moved in October. We were in that house for 19 years and a few months. That was the longest. We had a small one bedroom condo before that and were there about four years. We lived in a series of apartments before that. None longer than about three years.
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Post by jemali on Apr 4, 2018 15:51:31 GMT
My parents bought their house in 1969 (I was one year old). I moved out when I got married in 1991 and have lived in the same house ever since. My parents still live in the same house.
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Post by Saff on Apr 4, 2018 16:07:37 GMT
We lived in our previous home for 24 years. Our children were all brought up there and that is where the memories were made. Kiddies parties etc. My son even got married in the backyard.
Due to circumstances we had to give up our home. The house we are in at the moment is just a house and we have been here for 5 years.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Apr 4, 2018 16:15:16 GMT
I think it just depends on what you're used to. My parents still live in the same house they built a few years before I was born, and I'm turning 49 this year. But my boyfriend was used to moving every couple years, because that's what his mom (single mom) did when he was growing up.
I've moved more times in the 14 years that we've been together than I ever did in the 34 years before I met him, lol. Me after college-- 3 places: two apartments, then bought a house I lived in for about 7 years. Us-- 6 places so far: rental house, bought our first house, move to AZ- rented an apt, built a house, bought a different house, bought the current house.) He would get restless and 'itchy' to move after being in a place for a little while, just because he wasn't USED to staying in one place, ever.
But now, he's seeing the appeal of 'settling down' and staying in one home for a longer time. We were in our previous house for about 7 years, and we've been in this one for 1 1/2, now. We moved out of a master-planned HOA community into this house because we wanted a more established city and a smaller neighborhood, and we got that with this house. I can see us staying in this house for quite a while, until we start thinking about our retirement plans.
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Post by Zee on Apr 4, 2018 16:18:23 GMT
Seven years in our last house. I never wanted to leave, but we relocated for DH's job. I've been in this house 5 years and just found out we'll be relocating again.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 4, 2018 16:20:47 GMT
I’ve been in my current house for 13 years.
I’ve lived in 4 houses in my whole life, all within a 10 mile radius of each other.
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Post by gizzy on Apr 4, 2018 16:22:49 GMT
We've been here for about 30 years. This wasn't meant to be our forever home, but it is what it is. I keep trying to tell myself that I'm okay with that.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Apr 4, 2018 16:29:46 GMT
Prior to retiring from the military we moved often. After retirement we rented a home for 3 or 4 years to make sure we liked the town. We bought our home 11 yrs ago and we will be here until we pass it on to dd.
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Post by compeateropeator on Apr 4, 2018 16:30:03 GMT
I am not a mover and a groover. But I think it is a family trait. My parents still live in the house they built when I was a baby (1965 or 66) I have owned my Condo for 23 or 24 years. So long I can’t remember the year.
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Post by epeanymous on Apr 4, 2018 16:31:10 GMT
Since we have been married (I'm going to leave out all of the places we lived before that ): Rented apartment #1 for three years Rented apartment #2 for one year Rented apartment #3 for two years Rented apartment #'s 4 and 5 (we were living apart that year for work reasons) for one year Bought a house in location #2 -- lived there for five years Moved cities, bought a house in location #2 -- lived in that house for eight years Outgrew house with our last kid, bought a different house in location #2, have lived in it for two years So we're on our third purchased house now -- I don't intend to move out of it, ever, unless we move out of this city. I love the house, although it has some major issues that would probably be deal-breakers for a lot of people -- we're in a city with skyrocketing housing prices and six kids, so something had to give (we don't have a garage!).
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Post by lesley on Apr 4, 2018 16:34:50 GMT
I lived in the same house throughout my childhood. My mum and dad moved into it when it was first built in 1957, and I was born in 1963. As a university student I lived in umpteen flats, rented rooms and halls. I moved back home for a year when my dad died in 1985. And I moved back to my mum's house permanently 2 years ago after she died. Apart from this house, the longest I lived anywhere was my previous house. Ex-DH and I lived there for 17 years, and I loved that house so much. I used to walk by it when I was a child wondering who lived in such a beautiful house! I thought I would grow old there.
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Post by papersilly on Apr 4, 2018 16:38:18 GMT
17 years at our last house
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Post by janeinbama on Apr 4, 2018 16:41:04 GMT
I have lived in 4 houses my entire life. Two with my parents. DH & I lived 24 years in first house and 14 in our current house. When we were talking about moving 15 years ago, we wanted some acreage before we were too old to maintain and enjoy it, I told DH if we were unhappy we would just move. After that move, we both agreed to stay put as long as feasible for us.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Apr 4, 2018 16:47:44 GMT
We've owned this home for 27 years, but the longest we've lived in it at once is 8 years. We've moved out and back in 4 times I think. This time we've been here 6 years and plan to stay for the foreseeable future. Prior to this, we lived in 8 houses in a 14 year period. Growing up, I lived in 14 houses in a 20 year period.
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Post by River on Apr 4, 2018 16:49:10 GMT
My parents built their forever home in the late 70's. I was 5, my brothers were 13 and 14. We lived in campers until they completed the house. My dad was the main contractor and his brother's did what they specialized in (plumbing, electrical, you name it and a family member could do it.) My dad passed away in 2009, but my mom still lives there. Its way to big a house for her, but she won't let go of their blood, sweat, tears and living dollar for dollar while it was being built.
In 1993 I bought some land on the back of my parents property and we built our forever home in the same manner my parents did theirs. it's nice to have a large family that is willing to help build for you. of course we paid all they would take, but we still ended up building (and doing as much as possible ourselves) for less than half what other contractors quoted us. We are still living there with no plans to ever leave. Because of this huge help, land and family contractors we paid off our house in 10 years!
We hope to continue paying it forward and building a house for my oldest DS when he's ready to marry and settle down. While I'm sad that my dad won't be involved in this house raising, but I know he'll be watching out for us and helping guide us.
DH's family, while not military, moved around a lot, sometimes not even staying a year in the same state. He found his permanent roots in my town when they came to visit his grandparents. He asked to stay with them and start school here (he was 14 and within a few weeks the family decided to come off the road and settle in my town also. His grandparents were at a point of needed help and DH's dad was an only child.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 4, 2018 16:49:19 GMT
My great-uncle lived in the same house he was born in his entire life, except for his WWII service. He died in that house in his 80s.
I can't imagine that!
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