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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 10:40:08 GMT
Nope, there are a LOT of illegal immigrants that sneak into our country over the border. They ARE illegal immigrants. But not all immigrants are illegal. Those detained at the border under the current policy are requesting asylum. They have not been declared illegal immigrants. You understand they have to be vetted. Some people are claiming asylum when they don't actually require asylum.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 10:42:33 GMT
C'mon, Merge, that is just an excuse and you know it. It all depends upon who is involved and which way they lean. Given a similar situation with the characters reversed, the left wouldn't be near as vocal. I've seen that here over and over again. No, I don't know that. I know that protections for certain things are enshrined in law, and there's a reason why they are. It's not an excuse at all. This isn't about the left being vocal or not vocal. What the left thinks has nothing to do with it. Immutable characteristics are protected by law. Political and career choices are not. Neither is being fat protected by law. That doesn't make it alright to refuse service to someone for being fat just because the law doesn't tell you it's wrong.
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Post by inkedup on Jun 24, 2018 10:42:51 GMT
The difference in less than 10 words: Sexual orientation is not a choice; political affiliation is. Oh, and also? Since the letter of the law is so important to you as evidenced by your 96,532 posts on the immigrant issue, gay people are a legally protected class. Not sure why it matters if it's a choice or not a choice that makes it okay or not okay to deny service based on those issues. People's politics and beliefs aren't changed like a shirt. And you need a government to tell you who to be tolerant of? If they don't make it the law then you don't have to be tolerant of differences? It matters because one is protected under the law and the other is not. You're being wilfully obtuse and/or disingenuous when you pretend not to understand the difference. My personal opinion is that the restaurant owner should not have refused service, but she did not discriminate because Sander's choice of employer is not an immutable characteristic. She can choose not to work for Trump. A gay person cannot choose not to be gay. And you trying to school me on tolerance is hilarious. You seem to need the law to tell you who is entitled to humane treatment, all while wasting tons of energy explaining why it's okay for the immigrants in question to be abused. Guess what? I'm an atheist. My moral compass is pretty decent without the help of an imaginary dude in the sky or the government. It's one of the reasons I find your boy trump so abhorrent. Just so we're clear, things that outrage you: -The mean, fake media; -liberals; -children in detention centers; -anything negative said about trump; -nfl players kneeling; -hillary Things you will fall on the sword to defend: -inhumane treatment of people at the border; -president pussy grabber; -destruction of relations with our allies; -fostering relationships with legitimate dictators; And on and on and on.
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Post by inkedup on Jun 24, 2018 10:46:49 GMT
No, I don't know that. I know that protections for certain things are enshrined in law, and there's a reason why they are. It's not an excuse at all. This isn't about the left being vocal or not vocal. What the left thinks has nothing to do with it. Immutable characteristics are protected by law. Political and career choices are not. Neither is being fat protected by law. That doesn't make it alright to refuse service to someone for being fat just because the law doesn't tell you it's wrong. I'm curious - how does someone as moral as you claim to be defend someone as morally bankrupt as Donald Trump? I do appreciate hearing you preach tolerance, though. Because all you do is shit on liberals who do the same. What's the difference? Oh, yeah. You beg for tolerance for a wealthy, powerful despot and his cronies. The left begs for tolerance for the other 99.99% of the world. Which includes you, by the way. You're defending policies and a president who is working hard to dismantle your way of life.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 11:06:39 GMT
Not sure why it matters if it's a choice or not a choice that makes it okay or not okay to deny service based on those issues. People's politics and beliefs aren't changed like a shirt. And you need a government to tell you who to be tolerant of? If they don't make it the law then you don't have to be tolerant of differences? It matters because one is protected under the law and the other is not. You're being wilfully obtuse and/or disingenuous when you pretend not to understand the difference. My personal opinion is that the restaurant owner should not have refused service, but she did not discriminate because Sander's choice of employer is not an immutable characteristic. She can choose not to work for Trump. A gay person cannot choose not to be gay. And you trying to school me on tolerance is hilarious. You seem to need the law to tell you who is entitled to humane treatment, all while wasting tons of energy explaining why it's okay for the immigrants in question to be abused. Guess what? I'm an atheist. My moral compass is pretty decent without the help of an imaginary dude in the sky or the government. It's one of the reasons I find your boy trump so abhorrent. Just so we're clear, things that outrage you: -The mean, fake media; -liberals; -children in detention centers; -anything negative said about trump; -nfl players kneeling; -hillary Things you will fall on the sword to defend: -inhumane treatment of people at the border; -president pussy grabber; -destruction of relations with our allies; -fostering relationships with legitimate dictators; And on and on and on. Fat people aren't protected under the law so by your standard it's okay to refuse them service because they're fat. Uh, ya' got that a little backwards. The rest of your post is nothing but incorrect babble based on your hatred. Not worth responding to.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 11:13:38 GMT
Neither is being fat protected by law. That doesn't make it alright to refuse service to someone for being fat just because the law doesn't tell you it's wrong. I'm curious - how does someone as moral as you claim to be defend someone as morally bankrupt as Donald Trump? I do appreciate hearing you preach tolerance, though. Because all you do is shit on liberals who do the same. What's the difference? Oh, yeah. You beg for tolerance for a wealthy, powerful despot and his cronies. The left begs for tolerance for the other 99.99% of the world. Which includes you, by the way. You're defending policies and a president who is working hard to dismantle your way of life. I've disagreed and called him out many times, I add facts that happen to contradict the hysterical claims being made and often times offer another viewpoint. That is heresy judging by the reactions to it by the Left. I haven't defended any of his policies. You don't even know WHAT it is I'm about, because you're too busy shutting me down because I don't jump in with the hysterical group speak. Sometimes you (general) have good points, but way too often its hysterical absurdity.
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Post by Merge on Jun 24, 2018 11:53:04 GMT
No, I don't know that. I know that protections for certain things are enshrined in law, and there's a reason why they are. It's not an excuse at all. This isn't about the left being vocal or not vocal. What the left thinks has nothing to do with it. Immutable characteristics are protected by law. Political and career choices are not. Neither is being fat protected by law. That doesn't make it alright to refuse service to someone for being fat just because the law doesn't tell you it's wrong. It may not be very kind to discriminate against fat people, but it's actually not illegal. Fat is not an immutable characteristic.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 13:47:57 GMT
Every.single.thing. Thank you. Exactly how I feel also. The bolded part especially. Liberals are ripping babies out of women’s wombs? Where is this happening? The government is doing this? Yeah,no. Liberals believe in the right to chose not necessarily in abortion. Big difference. Nobody is forcing anyone to have an abortion. Maybe if birth control was taught we would have less unwanted pregnancies. Murder is murder no matter how you look at it.
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Post by redhead32 on Jun 24, 2018 14:06:59 GMT
Liberals are ripping babies out of women’s wombs? Where is this happening? The government is doing this? Yeah,no. Liberals believe in the right to chose not necessarily in abortion. Big difference. Nobody is forcing anyone to have an abortion. Maybe if birth control was taught we would have less unwanted pregnancies. Murder is murder no matter how you look at it. Pro-birthers only care about life until the birth of a child. After that, many are willing to ignore atrocities (like putting children in cages in detention centers) because ... well, I don’t know why. It makes no sense. It seems to me that that pro-birth segment of society should be the most morally outraged by the US treatment of minors. No “but immigrants are here illegally.” No “but we need stronger borders.” Seems like it is a lot easier to protect and care about some abstract potential for life and a heck of a lot more difficult to care about living, breathing children undergoing serious psychological trauma.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 14:17:50 GMT
Murder is murder no matter how you look at it. Pro-birthers only care about life until the birth of a child. After that, many are willing to ignore atrocities (like putting children in cages in detention centers) because ... well, I don’t know why. It makes no sense. It seems to me that that pro-birth segment of society should be the most morally outraged by the US treatment of minors. No “but immigrants are here illegally.” No “but we need stronger borders.” Seems like it is a lot easier to protect and care about some abstract potential for life and a heck of a lot more difficult to care about living, breathing children undergoing serious psychological trauma. Feigned outrage again. If you (general you) don't have outrage about killing an unborn child, you (general you) are using the breathing children as a political tool.
eta: Two of my children have adopted children that might have been aborted instead. So we have 5 adopted grandchildren. They are the light of our life, and we love them as much as our biological grandchildren. So yes, we care about life after the birth of a child.
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Post by redhead32 on Jun 24, 2018 14:28:48 GMT
Pro-birthers only care about life until the birth of a child. After that, many are willing to ignore atrocities (like putting children in cages in detention centers) because ... well, I don’t know why. It makes no sense. It seems to me that that pro-birth segment of society should be the most morally outraged by the US treatment of minors. No “but immigrants are here illegally.” No “but we need stronger borders.” Seems like it is a lot easier to protect and care about some abstract potential for life and a heck of a lot more difficult to care about living, breathing children undergoing serious psychological trauma. Feigned outrage again. If you (general you) don't have outrage about killing an unborn child, you (general you) are using the breathing children as a political tool.
eta: Two of my children have adopted children that might have been aborted instead. So we have 5 adopted grandchildren. They are the light of our life, and we love them as much as our biological grandchildren. So yes, we care about life after the birth of a child.
Feigned outrage. How very Jesusy of you. Plenty of us care about unborn children. We are also capable of caring about already born children AT THE SAME TIME. I see a lot of moral outrage about baby killers by the same people who look away when regugees come to our border begging for asylum.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 14:35:27 GMT
Feigned outrage again. If you (general you) don't have outrage about killing an unborn child, you (general you) are using the breathing children as a political tool.
eta: Two of my children have adopted children that might have been aborted instead. So we have 5 adopted grandchildren. They are the light of our life, and we love them as much as our biological grandchildren. So yes, we care about life after the birth of a child.
Feigned outrage. How very Jesusy of you. Plenty of us care about unborn children. We are also capable of caring about already born children AT THE SAME TIME. I see a lot of moral outrage about baby killers by the same people who look away when regugees come to our border begging for asylum. If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion.
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Post by Merge on Jun 24, 2018 15:07:32 GMT
Feigned outrage. How very Jesusy of you. Plenty of us care about unborn children. We are also capable of caring about already born children AT THE SAME TIME. I see a lot of moral outrage about baby killers by the same people who look away when regugees come to our border begging for asylum. If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion. You know what? Some of us are trying to get rid of abortion. But we recognize that simply outlawing abortion won't end it. Instead, we're focused on making sure that every woman has what she needs to either (a) prevent an unwanted pregnancy or (b) get access to medical care, child care, good public education, etc. necessary to raise her baby if that's what she wants. It's not the left who stands in the way of all those things, which would actually reduce abortions. It's y'all. Colorado started providing free birth control to all women and their abortion rate dropped by 30%. Imagine! But because the religious right thinks birth control is immoral and providing it for free is one step from full-on socialism, the likelihood of this policy being implemented in all states is nil. Also, the religious right looooves abstinence-only sex ed programs, which are actually linked with a higher rate of teen pregnancy (some of which certainly end in abortion). You all want an end to abortion, but you're not willing to put policies in place that would actually reduce abortions. You do understand that making it illegal just drives poor women underground to shady practitioners, right? And that wealthier women will find office doctors who are willing to perform a D&C for a price. Unless and until you're wiling to talk about policies that will actually put an end to abortion, and that recognize that life continues and must be supported past birth, please stop calling yourself pro-life. You're anything but.
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Post by tara on Jun 24, 2018 15:10:22 GMT
Also married to a conservative here. He hasn’t come around yet, but at least he isn’t a fan of Trump. [ How can you live? <joke> Married to a libral. my daughter and I went to see a comedian call the Libral Redneck. He was saying how he and and wife could be in a fight but if one mentions Trump they will start talking about their dislike for Trump and forget about the fight. I have been trying to tie my family down for a month to make a final decision for our summer vacation. My husband would just blow me off. Finally got him to decide and now the prices have gone up. We are now paying more. The next morning I was still butt hurt over it...until he mentioned Trump. We talked about our feelings for Trump and I forgot how much money we would’ve saved if he didn’t procrastinate. Mutual dislike does go a long way.
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Post by libby on Jun 24, 2018 15:17:27 GMT
Murder is murder no matter how you look at it. Pro-birthers only care about life until the birth of a child. After that, many are willing to ignore atrocities (like putting children in cages in detention centers) because ... well, I don’t know why. It makes no sense. It seems to me that that pro-birth segment of society should be the most morally outraged by the US treatment of minors. No “but immigrants are here illegally.” No “but we need stronger borders.” Seems like it is a lot easier to protect and care about some abstract potential for life and a heck of a lot more difficult to care about living, breathing children undergoing serious psychological trauma. Conservatives believe if you are “responsible” enough to be fucking be responsible enough to take care of your family, don’t expect the rest of society to take care of them. If liberals are so concerned about the life of the illegals why don’t you go to their country and change things?
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Post by mollycoddle on Jun 24, 2018 15:40:07 GMT
Pro-birthers only care about life until the birth of a child. After that, many are willing to ignore atrocities (like putting children in cages in detention centers) because ... well, I don’t know why. It makes no sense. It seems to me that that pro-birth segment of society should be the most morally outraged by the US treatment of minors. No “but immigrants are here illegally.” No “but we need stronger borders.” Seems like it is a lot easier to protect and care about some abstract potential for life and a heck of a lot more difficult to care about living, breathing children undergoing serious psychological trauma. Conservatives believe if you are “responsible” enough to be fucking be responsible enough to take care of your family, don’t expect the rest of society to take care of them. If liberals are so concerned about the life of the illegals why don’t you go to their country and change things? Maybe because we’re citizens just like you. Maybe because we don’t have to move because you don’t like what we say or do. Chew on that.
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Post by dewryce on Jun 24, 2018 16:09:21 GMT
If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion. You know what? Some of us are trying to get rid of abortion. But we recognize that simply outlawing abortion won't end it. Instead, we're focused on making sure that every woman has what she needs to either (a) prevent an unwanted pregnancy or (b) get access to medical care, child care, good public education, etc. necessary to raise her baby if that's what she wants. It's not the left who stands in the way of all those things, which would actually reduce abortions. It's y'all. Colorado started providing free birth control to all women and their abortion rate dropped by 30%. Imagine! But because the religious right thinks birth control is immoral and providing it for free is one step from full-on socialism, the likelihood of this policy being implemented in all states is nil. Also, the religious right looooves abstinence-only sex ed programs, which are actually linked with a higher rate of teen pregnancy (some of which certainly end in abortion). You all want an end to abortion, but you're not willing to put policies in place that would actually reduce abortions. You do understand that making it illegal just drives poor women underground to shady practitioners, right? And that wealthier women will find office doctors who are willing to perform a D&C for a price. Unless and until you're wiling to talk about policies that will actually put an end to abortion, and that recognize that life continues and must be supported past birth, please stop calling yourself pro-life. You're anything but. This is where my (recovering republican, democrat in denial) husband stands as well. He is anti-abortion, with exceptions. But he is beginning to recognize that his party's stances and policies on sexual education, and affordable and accessible healthcare and birth control are actually helping to create more unwanted pregnancies. And he acknowledges that even if abortion were made illegal it wouldn't stop them from happening, especially with the widespread availability of the internet. People make bombs with instructions from the internet, to ignore that methods for abortion will be readily available and used is reckless. He also recognizes how these issues disproportionately affect women and minorities, and how once these children are born, his party is often unwilling to provide support when needed. So while his strong preference is to make most abortions illegal, he understands that the realistic goal is to reduce them as much as possible by helping lower the rate of unwanted pregnancies. And the Republican Party will not acknowledge this, and therefore are not working towards it. It's been a hard conclusion for him to come to, understandably. Thank you for the information about Colorado, I'll go read up on that. In one of the Scandanavian countries there was a strong push for education and easily accessible birth control with positive results as well. I'll see if I can find it again and link here.
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Post by snowsilver on Jun 24, 2018 16:13:47 GMT
If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion. You know what? Some of us are trying to get rid of abortion. But we recognize that simply outlawing abortion won't end it. Instead, we're focused on making sure that every woman has what she needs to either (a) prevent an unwanted pregnancy or (b) get access to medical care, child care, good public education, etc. necessary to raise her baby if that's what she wants. It's not the left who stands in the way of all those things, which would actually reduce abortions. It's y'all. Colorado started providing free birth control to all women and their abortion rate dropped by 30%. Imagine! But because the religious right thinks birth control is immoral and providing it for free is one step from full-on socialism, the likelihood of this policy being implemented in all states is nil. Also, the religious right looooves abstinence-only sex ed programs, which are actually linked with a higher rate of teen pregnancy (some of which certainly end in abortion). You all want an end to abortion, but you're not willing to put policies in place that would actually reduce abortions. You do understand that making it illegal just drives poor women underground to shady practitioners, right? And that wealthier women will find office doctors who are willing to perform a D&C for a price. Unless and until you're wiling to talk about policies that will actually put an end to abortion, and that recognize that life continues and must be supported past birth, please stop calling yourself pro-life. You're anything but. Thank you for this post, Merge. You'll probably be surprised to know that I agree with most of it. I am about as "religious right" (that, BTW is a HUGE umbrella and we don't walk in lockstep no matter how we are portrayed) as they come, but I (and none of my own "religious right" friends) are opposed to birth control at all! I'm not even opposed to it being given out free. I wish kids would hold off on sex until they are emotionally old enough to understand what they are getting into, but I'm sanguine enough to know that won't happen anymore. At least under present conditions. So, if birth control stops unwanted babies, let's endorse it. I like what you said about "some of use are trying to get rid of abortion." That's good to hear. And I respect the heck out of you for being one of those. But please, let's be honest here--it IS the left that fights even the tiniest change to abortion laws under the "slippery slope" argument. I don't have all the answers on abortion and I DO have compassion on women who find themselves in dire circumstances due to an unwanted pregnancy. But at the bottom of it all, abortion IS killing a human life. And I will never be able to endorse that. But I'll march right beside you on providing birth control.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 16:47:14 GMT
Or ok with the billboard telling liberals to just keep driving and leave the great state of Texas. Andrew Cuomo told conservatives they were not welcome in NYS: link
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Post by Merge on Jun 24, 2018 17:03:39 GMT
You know what? Some of us are trying to get rid of abortion. But we recognize that simply outlawing abortion won't end it. Instead, we're focused on making sure that every woman has what she needs to either (a) prevent an unwanted pregnancy or (b) get access to medical care, child care, good public education, etc. necessary to raise her baby if that's what she wants. It's not the left who stands in the way of all those things, which would actually reduce abortions. It's y'all. Colorado started providing free birth control to all women and their abortion rate dropped by 30%. Imagine! But because the religious right thinks birth control is immoral and providing it for free is one step from full-on socialism, the likelihood of this policy being implemented in all states is nil. Also, the religious right looooves abstinence-only sex ed programs, which are actually linked with a higher rate of teen pregnancy (some of which certainly end in abortion). You all want an end to abortion, but you're not willing to put policies in place that would actually reduce abortions. You do understand that making it illegal just drives poor women underground to shady practitioners, right? And that wealthier women will find office doctors who are willing to perform a D&C for a price. Unless and until you're wiling to talk about policies that will actually put an end to abortion, and that recognize that life continues and must be supported past birth, please stop calling yourself pro-life. You're anything but. Thank you for this post, Merge. You'll probably be surprised to know that I agree with most of it. I am about as "religious right" (that, BTW is a HUGE umbrella and we don't walk in lockstep no matter how we are portrayed) as they come, but I (and none of my own "religious right" friends) are opposed to birth control at all! I'm not even opposed to it being given out free. I wish kids would hold off on sex until they are emotionally old enough to understand what they are getting into, but I'm sanguine enough to know that won't happen anymore. At least under present conditions. So, if birth control stops unwanted babies, let's endorse it. I like what you said about "some of use are trying to get rid of abortion." That's good to hear. And I respect the heck out of you for being one of those. But please, let's be honest here--it IS the left that fights even the tiniest change to abortion laws under the "slippery slope" argument. I don't have all the answers on abortion and I DO have compassion on women who find themselves in dire circumstances due to an unwanted pregnancy. But at the bottom of it all, abortion IS killing a human life. And I will never be able to endorse that. But I'll march right beside you on providing birth control. Yay that we have some common ground here! I think the left fights some abortion laws because, as pointed out above, they don't actually reduce abortions, and they do disproportionately affect women in dire circumstances. That is my experience in Texas, at least. My feeling is that we have to make sure women have access to what they need to make the best decision for themselves and their families - whether that's better birth control, more support during a pregnancy, access to reliable child care, or whatever. Certainly there will be some women who continue to use abortion as birth control, and frankly, I find that as distasteful as you do. But as I don't honestly believe we can stop that, I'd rather focus on being woman-positive and child-positive in our legislative efforts.
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Post by nightnurse on Jun 24, 2018 18:36:06 GMT
.[/quote]If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion. [/quote]
I would love a world where we don’t need abortion, where no woman ever finds herself with an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy. I’m trying to “get rid” of abortion by fighting for access to safe and affordable birth control, by advocating for comprehensive sex education rather than abstinence only programs that have been proven not to work, and fighting for affordable child care. I work towards health care that sees women through pregnancies, maximizing their health and the health of their babies, and carries those babies through a healthy life without having to declare bankruptcy if they become ill. I work to empower women to have control over their bodies so they don’t have to be worried about being forced or coerced into unprotected sex and unwanted pregnancies. But since we still have teenagers being told to wait for marriage with no further education on how not to get pregnant, and women who are raped, and women who can’t afford birth control, or who realize they cannot afford to bring a child into the world since they can’t afford health or child care, I will continue to fight to keep abortion safe, legal and accessible. And as to the “murder” argument, abortion is an incredibly unique circumstance. A fetus can not survive on its own, it is entirely dependent on the mother. We do not force people to donate kidneys, even dead bodies do not have to share their organs, but we feel justified in telling pregnant women what they must do with their organs.
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Post by pierkiss on Jun 24, 2018 18:38:53 GMT
If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion. You know what? Some of us are trying to get rid of abortion. But we recognize that simply outlawing abortion won't end it. Instead, we're focused on making sure that every woman has what she needs to either (a) prevent an unwanted pregnancy or (b) get access to medical care, child care, good public education, etc. necessary to raise her baby if that's what she wants. It's not the left who stands in the way of all those things, which would actually reduce abortions. It's y'all. Colorado started providing free birth control to all women and their abortion rate dropped by 30%. Imagine! But because the religious right thinks birth control is immoral and providing it for free is one step from full-on socialism, the likelihood of this policy being implemented in all states is nil. Also, the religious right looooves abstinence-only sex ed programs, which are actually linked with a higher rate of teen pregnancy (some of which certainly end in abortion). You all want an end to abortion, but you're not willing to put policies in place that would actually reduce abortions. You do understand that making it illegal just drives poor women underground to shady practitioners, right? And that wealthier women will find office doctors who are willing to perform a D&C for a price. Unless and until you're wiling to talk about policies that will actually put an end to abortion, and that recognize that life continues and must be supported past birth, please stop calling yourself pro-life. You're anything but. TRUTH!!!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 19:44:12 GMT
You know what? Some of us are trying to get rid of abortion. But we recognize that simply outlawing abortion won't end it. Instead, we're focused on making sure that every woman has what she needs to either (a) prevent an unwanted pregnancy or (b) get access to medical care, child care, good public education, etc. necessary to raise her baby if that's what she wants. It's not the left who stands in the way of all those things, which would actually reduce abortions. It's y'all. Colorado started providing free birth control to all women and their abortion rate dropped by 30%. Imagine! But because the religious right thinks birth control is immoral and providing it for free is one step from full-on socialism, the likelihood of this policy being implemented in all states is nil. Also, the religious right looooves abstinence-only sex ed programs, which are actually linked with a higher rate of teen pregnancy (some of which certainly end in abortion). You all want an end to abortion, but you're not willing to put policies in place that would actually reduce abortions. You do understand that making it illegal just drives poor women underground to shady practitioners, right? And that wealthier women will find office doctors who are willing to perform a D&C for a price. Unless and until you're wiling to talk about policies that will actually put an end to abortion, and that recognize that life continues and must be supported past birth, please stop calling yourself pro-life. You're anything but. Thank you for this post, Merge. You'll probably be surprised to know that I agree with most of it. I am about as "religious right" (that, BTW is a HUGE umbrella and we don't walk in lockstep no matter how we are portrayed) as they come, but I (and none of my own "religious right" friends) are opposed to birth control at all! I'm not even opposed to it being given out free. I wish kids would hold off on sex until they are emotionally old enough to understand what they are getting into, but I'm sanguine enough to know that won't happen anymore. At least under present conditions. So, if birth control stops unwanted babies, let's endorse it. I like what you said about "some of use are trying to get rid of abortion." That's good to hear. And I respect the heck out of you for being one of those. But please, let's be honest here--it IS the left that fights even the tiniest change to abortion laws under the "slippery slope" argument. I don't have all the answers on abortion and I DO have compassion on women who find themselves in dire circumstances due to an unwanted pregnancy. But at the bottom of it all, abortion IS killing a human life. And I will never be able to endorse that. But I'll march right beside you on providing birth control. I am also on the train to provide free birth control. So yes, MAYBE we've found common ground.
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Post by Merge on Jun 24, 2018 20:11:13 GMT
Thank you for this post, Merge. You'll probably be surprised to know that I agree with most of it. I am about as "religious right" (that, BTW is a HUGE umbrella and we don't walk in lockstep no matter how we are portrayed) as they come, but I (and none of my own "religious right" friends) are opposed to birth control at all! I'm not even opposed to it being given out free. I wish kids would hold off on sex until they are emotionally old enough to understand what they are getting into, but I'm sanguine enough to know that won't happen anymore. At least under present conditions. So, if birth control stops unwanted babies, let's endorse it. I like what you said about "some of use are trying to get rid of abortion." That's good to hear. And I respect the heck out of you for being one of those. But please, let's be honest here--it IS the left that fights even the tiniest change to abortion laws under the "slippery slope" argument. I don't have all the answers on abortion and I DO have compassion on women who find themselves in dire circumstances due to an unwanted pregnancy. But at the bottom of it all, abortion IS killing a human life. And I will never be able to endorse that. But I'll march right beside you on providing birth control. I am also on the train to provide free birth control. So yes, MAYBE we've found common ground. Well, hallelujah! I’ll open a bottle of champagne. 🍾🥂
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Post by lauradrumm on Jun 24, 2018 20:26:48 GMT
If the "plenty of you" really cared about unborn children, there would be "plenty" more people trying to get rid of abortion. [/quote] I would love a world where we don’t need abortion, where no woman ever finds herself with an unplanned or unwanted pregnancy. I’m trying to “get rid” of abortion by fighting for access to safe and affordable birth control, by advocating for comprehensive sex education rather than abstinence only programs that have been proven not to work, and fighting for affordable child care. I work towards health care that sees women through pregnancies, maximizing their health and the health of their babies, and carries those babies through a healthy life without having to declare bankruptcy if they become ill. I work to empower women to have control over their bodies so they don’t have to be worried about being forced or coerced into unprotected sex and unwanted pregnancies. But since we still have teenagers being told to wait for marriage with no further education on how not to get pregnant, and women who are raped, and women who can’t afford birth control, or who realize they cannot afford to bring a child into the world since they can’t afford health or child care, I will continue to fight to keep abortion safe, legal and accessible. And as to the “murder” argument, abortion is an incredibly unique circumstance. A fetus can not survive on its own, it is entirely dependent on the mother. We do not force people to donate kidneys, even dead bodies do not have to share their organs, but we feel justified in telling pregnant women what they must do with their organs. [/quote] But sometimes birth control fails and women should have the right to affordable, safe abortions. I do believe there should be more limits. For example in the case of there being no medical reason it shouldn’t even allowed after the first trimester. But then again I’m allowing the government to make moral decisions about a woman’s body so it’s a tough one.
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Gennifer
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Post by Gennifer on Jun 24, 2018 20:30:09 GMT
Or ok with the billboard telling liberals to just keep driving and leave the great state of Texas. Andrew Cuomo told conservatives they were not welcome in NYS: linkA quick click on that link shows that he said “extreme conservatives,” which is decidedly different.
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Post by snowsilver on Jun 24, 2018 20:48:26 GMT
Andrew Cuomo told conservatives they were not welcome in NYS: linkA quick click on that link shows that he said “extreme conservatives,” which is decidedly different. Did you notice that his definition of "extreme conservatives" was defined as those who oppose abortion and gun control measures? I think he'd be pretty stunned if all those "extreme conservatives" actually decided to leave since we pay a HUGE portion of the state's taxes. He'd be begging..and I mean begging...us to reconsider. But that aside, I'm pretty sure that the GOVERNOR of any state has crossed a major line when he says that massive portions of his population are not welcome in the state where they peacefully pay taxes and own property. Simply for not agreeing with him on political issues. We're not talking about a specific group putting up road signs here--we're talking about a state's governor! Seems to me there's a lot to worry about there.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2018 20:55:22 GMT
A quick click on that link shows that he said “extreme conservatives,” which is decidedly different. Did you notice that his definition of "extreme conservatives" was defined as those who oppose abortion and gun control measures? I think he'd be pretty stunned if all those "extreme conservatives" actually decided to leave since we pay a HUGE portion of the state's taxes. He'd be begging..and I mean begging...us to reconsider.
But that aside, I'm pretty sure that the GOVERNOR of any state has crossed a major line when he says that massive portions of his population are not welcome in the state where they peacefully pay taxes and own property. Simply for not agreeing with him on political issues. We're not talking about a specific group putting up road signs here--we're talking about a state's governor! Seems to me there's a lot to worry about there. I bet you are right!
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libby
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Post by libby on Jun 24, 2018 21:34:18 GMT
Conservatives believe if you are “responsible” enough to be fucking be responsible enough to take care of your family, don’t expect the rest of society to take care of them. If liberals are so concerned about the life of the illegals why don’t you go to their country and change things? Maybe because we’re citizens just like you. Maybe because we don’t have to move because you don’t like what we say or do. Chew on that. I am a citizen just like you. I don’t care how many abortions a person has, I just don’t believe somebody else should pay for it. I am all for legal abortion. I am also anti welfare, food stamps etc. My family owns a business that is in several towns one has been there 52 years. The neighborhood use to be nice, now it’s the hood. You tell me why I should have to pay for grown ass men and women walking the streets all day. This particular building has to have lots of security (I could post a video from the cameras daily). One of my employees at this buildings wife is the fraud food stamp investigator, so we get to know who are abusing the system in this particular town. They walk in the shop daily asking for money. I can guarantee you that not a liberal here would spend one dime of their money to live in a neighborhood like this one.
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Post by mollycoddle on Jun 24, 2018 21:42:22 GMT
Maybe because we’re citizens just like you. Maybe because we don’t have to move because you don’t like what we say or do. Chew on that. I am a citizen just like you. I don’t care how many abortions a person has, I just don’t believe somebody else should pay for it. I am all for legal abortion. I am also anti welfare, food stamps etc. My family owns a business that is in several towns one has been there 52 years. The neighborhood use to be nice, now it’s the hood. You tell me why I should have to pay for grown ass men and women walking the streets all day. This particular building has to have lots of security (I could post a video from the cameras daily). One of my employees at this buildings wife is the fraud food stamp investigator, so we get to know who are abusing the system in this particular town. They walk in the shop daily asking for money. I can guarantee you that not a liberal here would spend one dime of their money to live in a neighborhood like this one. You are indeed. My point is that we are both citizens, and have equal rights. Neither gets to tell the other to leave. I am sorry about your circumstances. I am familiar with neighborhoods that have deteriorated, as we have many near my town.
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