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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 16:25:14 GMT
Oh man I wonder what stupid thing she said to trigger her own attack. The foreclosure is in 2 days. I'd be feeling pretty shitty too if I walked away from my financial commitments for the sake of a new IG account on my new house. Okay, I missed that. Forclosure on what?
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Post by quietgirl on Mar 10, 2020 16:29:57 GMT
"Anxiety came knocking on my door (again) today. I invited her in and allowed her to sit with me for as long as she needed. I allowed myself to feel the feelings. I’ve been told that anxiety is one way that our body communicates with us. I believe that. But I wasn’t sure what needed to be communicated this time. The feeling was overwhelming. I woke up feeling the weight of the world sitting on my chest. Nothing was wrong. Nothing had happened. Truly, everything is just as it should be. But I felt sad and discouraged and spent the better part of my day crying, actually. If you know me even a little bit, you know this is pretty uncharacteristic for me." ---------------------------------------------------------- ^^^ really?!? crying is uncharacteristic for her?? you wouldn't know it by watching her stories on Instagram! (I know I shouldn't think that, let alone write it, because I've had those days too- but dang, Becky! Why do you have to sound so gosh-darn FAKE and PRETENTIOUS about it all?!?!?) ---------------------------------------------------------- "So why was anxiety showing up? I’m still pondering on that, to be honest. And the bigger question — Why am I even sharing this?Something tells me someone needs to feel a little less alone ... and perhaps they DO, as they see that anxiety is a part of my story, too. I feel like part of cultivating a good life is acknowledging anxiety for the role it has in my life. And understanding that when I focus on GRATITUDE, I always know it’s all okay. There is sooooo much to be grateful for! 💛 . Plus, I infused a few KEY things in my day to help me process + recover: talking to David, talking to a close friend, prayer, hydration, scripture study, setting work aside for a bit, and ... hiking, of course. . [ Photo snapped by @beckyproudfit in Palm Springs last week when I was NOT feeling particularly anxious. 😜 ]" ------------------------------------------------------------------------ ^^^ yeah, a weekend in Palm Springs would help lessen my anxiety, too- too bad most of us can't get away from our lives like that whenever we want to. ETA: I think what really grates on my nerves the MOST about her trials and tribulations is her over-the-top FAKE, FAKE, FAKE writing style. "I invited her (anxiety) in and allowed her to sit with me..." "Something tell me someone needs to feel a little less alone..." "Plus, I infused a few key things in my day to help me process + recover..." WHO TALKS LIKE THIS?!? NO ONE!! I'm surprised she didn't tag the "few key things in my day to..." , and offer a code! Oh, maybe that's coming later...
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Post by quietgirl on Mar 10, 2020 16:30:46 GMT
The foreclosure is in 2 days. I'd be feeling pretty shitty too if I walked away from my financial commitments for the sake of a new IG account on my new house. Okay, I missed that. Forclosure on what? Her other house, I think, but I'm not fully up on that story.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 16:37:26 GMT
"Anxiety came knocking on my door (again) today. I invited her in and allowed her to sit with me for as long as she needed. I allowed myself to feel the feelings. I’ve been told that anxiety is one way that our body communicates with us. I believe that. But I wasn’t sure what needed to be communicated this time. The feeling was overwhelming. I woke up feeling the weight of the world sitting on my chest. Nothing was wrong. Nothing had happened. Truly, everything is just as it should be. But I felt sad and discouraged and spent the better part of my day crying, actually. If you know me even a little bit, you know this is pretty uncharacteristic for me." ---------------------------------------------------------- ^^^ really?!? crying is uncharacteristic for her?? you wouldn't know it by watching her stories on Instagram! (I know I shouldn't think that, let alone write it, because I've had those days too- but dang, Becky! Why do you have to sound so gosh-darn FAKE and PRETENTIOUS about it all?!?!?) ---------------------------------------------------------- "So why was anxiety showing up? I’m still pondering on that, to be honest. And the bigger question — Why am I even sharing this?Something tells me someone needs to feel a little less alone ... and perhaps they DO, as they see that anxiety is a part of my story, too. I feel like part of cultivating a good life is acknowledging anxiety for the role it has in my life. And understanding that when I focus on GRATITUDE, I always know it’s all okay. There is sooooo much to be grateful for! 💛 . Plus, I infused a few KEY things in my day to help me process + recover: talking to David, talking to a close friend, prayer, hydration, scripture study, setting work aside for a bit, and ... hiking, of course. . [ Photo snapped by @beckyproudfit in Palm Springs last week when I was NOT feeling particularly anxious. 😜 ]" ------------------------------------------------------------------------ ^^^ yeah, a weekend in Palm Springs would help lessen my anxiety, too- too bad most of us can't get away from our lives like that whenever we want to. ETA: I think what really grates on my nerves the MOST about her trials and tribulations is her over-the-top FAKE, FAKE, FAKE writing style. "I invited her (anxiety) in and allowed her to sit with me..." "Something tell me someone needs to feel a little less alone..." "Plus, I infused a few key things in my day to help me process + recover..." WHO TALKS LIKE THIS?!? NO ONE!! I'm surprised she didn't tag the "few key things in my day to..." , and offer a code! Oh, maybe that's coming later... With the mention of hiking I am surprised that anxiety curing place wasnt mentioned
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Post by quinmm14 on Mar 10, 2020 16:56:19 GMT
She's never going to get it.
I'm not discounting that she HAS anxiety, I don't think that's fair for me to judge.
But, it pisses people off when she uses anxiety to sell shit.
She's not going to stop doing that no matter what we say/think because, well I don't even think I know why.
I just know it pisses me off for all the Peas that have real anxiety and deal with it daily.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 16:57:04 GMT
Okay, I missed that. Forclosure on what? Her other house, I think, but I'm not fully up on that story. Yes. It's on this thread somewhere. And still showing as happening Thursday on auction.com.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 17:11:45 GMT
Her other house, I think, but I'm not fully up on that story. Yes. It's one this thread somewhere. And still showing as happening Thursday on auction.com. Hu. So she is just walking away from a house instead of being a responsible adult who obviously was able to afford a McMansion...oh.k.
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Post by Night Owl on Mar 10, 2020 17:21:19 GMT
I follow Heidi and Shimelle on Instagram, I like that they still get excited about creating. I know they are promoting their products but when they tell about their lives it doesn't come off as smug or fake.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 17:44:29 GMT
Must be fake anxiety day. BH and Kimmy Hughes (shes in her apron) have both posted about anxiety.
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Post by kiera on Mar 10, 2020 17:53:49 GMT
Man, how I wish I could abandon my work and go for a hike or read a book when my (diagnosed) anxiety flares up. A weekend in Palm Springs would be even better! But see, if I did that every time I was having an episode, I'd be collecting unemployment. I don't think she realizes how fortunate she is to be able to just get up and change her surroundings at the drop of a hat.
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Post by julie5 on Mar 10, 2020 19:33:05 GMT
Man, how I wish I could abandon my work and go for a hike or read a book when my (diagnosed) anxiety flares up. A weekend in Palm Springs would be even better! But see, if I did that every time I was having an episode, I'd be collecting unemployment. I don't think she realizes how fortunate she is to be able to just get up and change her surroundings at the drop of a hat. i think that’s why I hate her so much. She has NO IDEA how to ACTUALLY deal with anxiety.
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Post by refugeepea on Mar 10, 2020 19:42:50 GMT
I follow Heidi and Shimelle on Instagram, I like that they still get excited about creating. I know they are promoting their products but when they tell about their lives it doesn't come off as smug or fake. I like both of them, but can't follow Shimelle. Too much Disney for my taste. @sunnycalimom I still believe the Mormon/LDS Mommy blogger influencers are a group within a group. They are trying really hard to shill their businesses via Pyramid style most of the time. Instead of come to my party and learn about books!, this is the new thing. I think what they forget is that the audience they are targeting are too busy with their jobs, their church callings, and their families, to stay up on the latest and greatest they are offering.
Most LDS women do work outside of the home. If they don't, they have plenty to keep them busy.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2020 22:43:22 GMT
I follow Heidi and Shimelle on Instagram, I like that they still get excited about creating. I know they are promoting their products but when they tell about their lives it doesn't come off as smug or fake. I like both of them, but can't follow Shimelle. Too much Disney for my taste. @sunnycalimom I still believe the Mormon/LDS Mommy blogger influencers are a group within a group. They are trying really hard to shill their businesses via Pyramid style most of the time. Instead of come to my party and learn about books!, this is the new thing. I think what they forget is that the audience they are targeting are too busy with their jobs, their church callings, and their families, to stay up on the latest and greatest they are offering.
Most LDS women do work outside of the home. If they don't, they have plenty to keep them busy.
Oh I know. It seems to be the thing in Utah. My Ca LDS Mormon friends are nothing like BH, Courtney (cents of style), Kimmy (she's in her apron), Griffiths or whatever family (like 8 passengers) and so many others. They all work (one at a Fortune 500 company), have BA/BS or Master degrees, are very street smart as well as book educated, and get their shit done (even with ptsd and real anxiety). They aren't lazy or look at me or feel sorry for me ladies. They are tough cookies.
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Post by mom on Mar 10, 2020 23:18:36 GMT
Man, how I wish I could abandon my work and go for a hike or read a book when my (diagnosed) anxiety flares up. A weekend in Palm Springs would be even better! But see, if I did that every time I was having an episode, I'd be collecting unemployment. I don't think she realizes how fortunate she is to be able to just get up and change her surroundings at the drop of a hat. i think that’s why I hate her so much. She has NO IDEA how to ACTUALLY deal with anxiety. This is why I dislike her so much. She has no freaking clue yet she takes up air + space sharing how she just flips a switch to get over her anxiety.
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Post by Just T on Mar 10, 2020 23:43:05 GMT
Man, how I wish I could abandon my work and go for a hike or read a book when my (diagnosed) anxiety flares up. A weekend in Palm Springs would be even better! But see, if I did that every time I was having an episode, I'd be collecting unemployment. I don't think she realizes how fortunate she is to be able to just get up and change her surroundings at the drop of a hat. i think that’s why I hate her so much. She has NO IDEA how to ACTUALLY deal with anxiety. I have read this thread from time to time, but I have never commented before.
I follow Becky on IG. She was actually one of the first people I looked up when I first joined IG and was looking for people to follow. I used to love her work back in the scrapbooking hey days, and I still own all of her books.
I don't hate her, but as someone who deals with anxiety disorder, yes, her posts about her anxiety make me crazy. "I invited her in and allowed her to sit with me for as long as she needed." OH, UGH. She really has no clue. She once wrote how her anxiety doesn't look like anyone else's, and that's okay, and I agree with her on that. Even my anxiety, as bad as it can be at times--I know there are others who deal with much worse.
But man, she gets under my skin in a big way. She has zero clue how "normal" people deal with anxiety. I don't "invite her in and allow her to sit with me." Nope. I dig into my bag of coping skills and try to deal with "her" so that I can carry on with my life in a productive way and go to work each day. I can't run off to fancy spas, Palm Springs, hike in the mountains, work when it "feels right to let work in", etc. That is not reality. When I wake up with a bad day of anxiety, I have to pull my shit together and go to work. As do most other people with anxiety. I am always so shocked when she posts about her anxiety and people fall all over themselves thanking her for being so real. OMG. That is NOT real, and I always wonder who these people are.
She is just out of touch with reality, and I am ready to unfollow her.
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Post by kiera on Mar 11, 2020 14:45:13 GMT
I just found a Reddit post I made in the scrapbooking sub a year ago about Becky's nonsense.... I wonder if I spoke to any of you Peas there, haha! Just T, it's downright insulting, honestly. I believe that she's feeling a sense of anxiety. I don't fully believe that it's to the extent where it's a full fledged mental illness. Only her doctors could tell us that, but her posts don't have me buying into it. Never in my life have I willingly "invited her in." My anxiety doesn't have a gender nor is it treated as if it were a person. It is an unwanted burden that I carry with me every day and if I'm lucky, my depression will run in tandem with it. Isn't that fun, you guys?? It's all just part of the journey... excuse me as I go barf.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Mar 11, 2020 15:38:23 GMT
I just found a Reddit post I made in the scrapbooking sub a year ago about Becky's nonsense.... I wonder if I spoke to any of you Peas there, haha! I don't know why I never looked for this before!! I mean, there are sub-Reddits for everything under the sun, why not scrapbooking? off to go down a rabbit hole, now... thanks!
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Post by kiera on Mar 11, 2020 15:45:54 GMT
crimsoncat05 you're welcome! It's just r/scrapbooking. It isn't super active, but decently so.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 11, 2020 16:12:58 GMT
Man, how I wish I could abandon my work and go for a hike or read a book when my (diagnosed) anxiety flares up. A weekend in Palm Springs would be even better! But see, if I did that every time I was having an episode, I'd be collecting unemployment. I don't think she realizes how fortunate she is to be able to just get up and change her surroundings at the drop of a hat. i think that’s why I hate her so much. She has NO IDEA how to ACTUALLY deal with anxiety. Please consider not "hating her". Hate her ideas, her nonsense, etc. But have compassion for her.
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Post by pancakes on Mar 11, 2020 16:32:00 GMT
Yes. It's one this thread somewhere. And still showing as happening Thursday on auction.com. Hu. So she is just walking away from a house instead of being a responsible adult who obviously was able to afford a McMansion...oh.k. To be fair, foreclosure is not walking away. Clearly they should’ve made more responsible financial decisions, but this is not an easy out.
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Post by cbet on Mar 11, 2020 18:10:55 GMT
Well, normally I would agree, but if you look back a few pages where this was talked about, they walked away from McMansion #1 and built a bigger, more impressive McMansion #2. Perhaps it wasn't an easy out, but she wasn't plagued with anxiety attacks when she was deciding on her very special house numbers, since the ones she could buy at a big-box store just wouldn't do.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 11, 2020 20:58:46 GMT
^^^ exactly.
I do not feel bad for her. I am pissed at her. She didn't need to walk away due to a job loss. Or health issues. Or death. Or military.
No, she wanted bigger and better.
Bitch.
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Post by refugeepea on Mar 11, 2020 21:04:00 GMT
Never in my life have I willingly "invited her in." My anxiety doesn't have a gender nor is it treated as if it were a person. It is an unwanted burden that I carry with me every day and if I'm lucky, my depression will run in tandem with it.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Mar 11, 2020 21:23:24 GMT
You've got to wonder the amount of stress one decides to put their brain (and the brains of the rest of their family) through to sit in a bigger, more modern, more expensive and more expensively furnished home while the previous one goes in foreclosure. She was still getting it professionally "decorated" (frankly, it was a terrible job) for Christmas just three months ago when the pre-foreclosure process was well underway. I don't know how one can. But clearly, it is possible. It's not healthy, it's not responsible and I sure hope it's not normal. But I'm still left wondering why. I couldn't fathom living in such a massive bubble of upgraded denial. Maybe it was just my luck not being born in a community that's so heavily invested on appearances and keeping up with the Joneses? Whatever the case, it's incompatible with my decision-making and priorities and the imminent (likely voluntary) foreclosure sale is a good reminder that my small living is part of the life choices I've made that I'm not only comfortable but also happy with. I've decided to prioritise my mental health and my brain's everyday functioning by not putting it under extra stress over such a toxic thing like financially investing in publicising my social status. All this BH talk about taking trips left and right to deal with feeling anxious is a good reminder that I've got my priorities straight. Oh, Becky, hun, you sure let that anxiety in. Through the massive, expensive, custom front door of your new McMansion. This is your own doing. Palm Springs can't cure bad financial decision-making (it's only going to add to your expenses, ironically). I mean, you are literally distancing yourself from the everyday reminder of the reason you are living in stress. Lucy van Pelt could've told you so. 5 cents, please.
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Post by kiera on Mar 11, 2020 21:42:41 GMT
I wonder what her husband and kids think about her constantly running off with Becky P and ignoring her work responsibilities
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Post by pancakes on Mar 11, 2020 22:34:32 GMT
^^^ exactly. I do not feel bad for her. I am pissed at her. She didn't need to walk away due to a job loss. Or health issues. Or death. Or military. No, she wanted bigger and better. Bitch. Oh, I have zero sympathy for them. But I wouldn’t be mad at them either. They made bad choices with loans that put them into this situation. If someone wants to do something risky and screw up, that is not my problem. Being angry only affects you, personally. 🤷🏻♀️
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Post by Deleted on Mar 12, 2020 7:39:52 GMT
Hi Everyone! I took a social media break so I could do some mourning & get my act together so I could make the new decade kiss ass. I was not in a good place at all. Last three years have been rough. I am doing a lot better now. Healing slowly but healing. Foreclosure Becky- THAT WOMAN! I swear I have no respect for people who foreclose because of entitlement. I really detest people who choose not to pay their property tax, especially the upper echelons. In my state you can lose your professional license over it. This anxiety thing needs to stop. It is belittling. This is an anxiety disorder- www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/anxiety-disorders/index.shtml I know many of you ladies over here have anxiety disorders because of past traumatic experiences or long term depression (HUGS). I have it because of a medical issue. My anxiety is due to lupus- www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/anxiety-disorders/index.shtmlI can't help it because when my lupus is flaring up so is my anxiety. I can't control it. Yes, I have mentioned many times I am a trauma survivor. My anxiety disorder manifested itself when I was diagnosed with lupus, way before any of the trauma I would go through. Pretty please don't think I believe because my anxiety is medical and others are not that it's not a real medical issue. I am not Becky. I know 100% it is a VERY SERIOUS medical issue. Her anxiety "influencing" is very dangerous. There are real medical issues that promoting spa vacations could end up hurting somebody who does have a serious health condition. I know some of her followers might think they might feel better if they go to a spa but could end up in the hospital instead. Her husband is in the medical field. He should have discussed this with her. I should not have caught up. Woman puts me in a rant, lol. The reason why I was posting. I was watching one of my You Tube videos last night. She was on a justified rant. She kept apologizing she didn't want to be a drama influencer. It made me laugh because I thought of Becky. Then I realized it's a thing. Becky is a drama influencer. She uses drama to generate her income. Apparently anxiety "attacks" are popular with these type of influencers. I guess this is the celebrities new "Lyme" disease.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 13, 2020 1:48:13 GMT
I guess no one wanted to bid for Becky's house at full outstanding loan + other payments. Auction.com says property reverted to beneficiary (bank).
"If there are no bids at the sale, title to the property reverts to the foreclosing beneficiary (the bank). The property then becomes what is known as an REO, which stands for Real Estate Owned (this term comes from the banks’ balance sheet). The above rules regarding lien seniority apply to the bank as well."
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Post by MerryMom on Mar 13, 2020 3:15:18 GMT
I reviewed a really bad child fatality case today...Becky H has no clue what a bad day really is.
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Post by quinmm14 on Mar 13, 2020 4:02:53 GMT
I reviewed a really bad child fatality case today...Becky H has no clue what a bad day really is. I'm so sorry. Big hugs. I think she's also giving away codes now because coronavirus. Hard eyeroll.
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