naby64
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Post by naby64 on May 7, 2019 16:52:59 GMT
OH my goodness and did you all see BP call out the customers who were "rude". BH's lighthouse shook up some customers demons!! Good grief, really?!?! Demons!
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on May 7, 2019 16:54:08 GMT
She’s used her son to make a point that she was the injured party.
Next will be a faux humble post at the temple, reminding herself that she really is good because god said so.
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Post by scrapaddict702 on May 7, 2019 17:05:10 GMT
I'm at the point where it would really be nice if Becky would sit down, shut up and go away.
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Post by miss2peas on May 7, 2019 17:10:41 GMT
I do not subscribe to the emails - can someone please post the entire email Becky sent recently? A Note From Becky: (Inter)National Scrapbooking Day. Have you heard of it? It’s a thing! And it’s TODAY — the first Saturday in May every year. And I love that it’s a thing! Yesterday I posted this picture (above) of some of my earlier scrapbook pages (from like 15 years ago) on instagram and someone commented, “So nice to see a scrapbooking post from you finally!” I think it’s tempting for some people to be stuck in what “scrapbooking” should “look like”. I think it’s tempting for some people to expect that “inspiration” looks like page sample after page sample after page sample. Is that really what can deeply encourage resolve and inspired action? Perhaps for a few. Sure, scrapbook pages are fun to look at. But how many pages do we need to look at to really move us into ACTION ... know what I mean? This work that I have been doing spans 23 years now. I’ve seen evolution. I’ve led evolution. I encourage evolution. I EMBRACE EVOLUTION. If we stay stuck in how we’ve always done things, or how we always expect things to look or to be shared … I’m afraid we’ll be missing out on the most beautiful pieces of what all of this can look like for us personally, and how it can have a deep impact on our lives. So on this International Scrapbooking Day, I say … Here’s to the way I used to do it. Here’s to how I do it now. Here’s to how I will do it differently in 5 years and in 20 years. Here’s to EVERY way and ALL the ways and ANY way that we document, preserve memories, protect our photos, and record our stories. Here’s to YOU ... for any effort you’re making, in even the smallest ways. IT ALL MATTERS. Here’s how I am currently trying to lift and inspire others in their quest to cultivate a good life and record it. Say hello to Charlayne and her daughter Kerry. This week I met with these beautiful women. Charlayne has stage 4 cancer. She has felt anxiety and concern and worry about not having her stories documented. My purpose in being there was to LISTEN and offer counsel and guidance. When I arrived, tears were in all of our eyes as we hugged it up. We felt instantly connected. By the time we hugged goodbye and I left their home, there were tears AGAIN. Except this time the tears were full of HOPE and possibility and RESOLVE! It was the best feeling ever! Charlayne and Kerry had a solid game plan. A SOLUTION. One that was completely customized to their situation, including Charlayne’s very limited energy and physical abilities, as she is in the thick of chemo treatment again. With their permission, I shared glimpses of our time together on my Instagram page ... in my featured story called “Charlayne”. If you’re less familiar with watching stories, just go to @beckyhigginsllc on instagram and you’ll see a row of “highlights” (circles). These are saved series of stories that I want to last way longer than 24 hours because of the value I hope they’ll bring to your life. My purpose in sharing has always been — and continues to be — because I KNOW that it will help and inspire someone else. And based on the DMs I got from the Charlayne stories, this continues to ring true. I didn’t share sample pages. Showing Charlayne scrapbook pages was NOT what would have inspired her or served her in any way. In fact, it would have probably overwhelmed her. Our dialogue about real solutions is what helped Charlayne. And the fire that is now lit inside of some people from watching Charlayne and Kerry?? THAT’S TRUE INSPIRATION. By the way … we didn’t even talk about Kerry’s documenting struggles or goals. That morning was about Charlayne. But you better believe that Kerry is going to be at RISE + SHINE — our live event in Peoria, AZ on Thursday. (We wish Charlayne could be there too, but she has chemo therapy that day.) I believe that any feelings of overwhelm or frustration or defeat that Kerry is feeling with her own memory keeping will melt away completely after she spends Thursday with us. I believe this with all of my heart, because of the way that we have designed this RISE + SHINE experience. If you can logistically get to Peoria on Thursday … YOU NEED TO BE THERE! What I did with Charlayne this week is what we’ll do with everyone who comes to the live event. It will change your life and fill your heart and mind in the most beautiful way. If you have done pretty much nothing with documenting or preserving memories in your life, this event it for you. If you want to live a more intentional life, this event is for you. If you are buried by bins and hard drives of photos and memories collecting dust, this event is for you. Even if you’ve done quite a bit of scrapbooking / journaling / documenting but desire a fresh perspective on what all of it means and how to move forward with more intention than ever, this event is for you. No matter where you are in your documenting journey ... this event is for YOU! Join us. Let’s do this. It’s time! Buy your ticket HERE. There is a complete disconnect between this email and what people who made the comments are talking about at least to me. Is what she’s doing by showing love and telling us how to live our best life going to bring income in for her? That is my question. Are the people that are loving on her actually making her enough money to continue her company and if that’s the case give up project life and stop leading everyone with some mysterious connection between what we want and what she is doing. basically saying we are too dumb to understand why she is doing what she is doing and just go with it.
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Post by ladytrisha on May 7, 2019 17:20:11 GMT
This is a page right out of the TC handbook. "
We" don't understand the message. Trust me, yes we do. And when the light is bright, we see more. Much more.
I'm gonna guess that American Crafts swooped in and bought the brand; so like TC, she now needs to reinvent her game. So she'll attempt to sell the inspiration, cultivation, the "aren't we just amaaaaazing moms, women of faith, blah blah blah" to those devout followers who believe in her vision of sunshine and unicorns every day. And help her build her new house that she NEEDS to cultivate in!
Ugh.
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2019 17:25:53 GMT
"My purpose in being there was to LISTEN and offer counsel and guidance."
No your purpose was to have a reason to cry and sell someones soul for 1. profit and 2. likes.
You were supposed to go to help 2 ladies get memories down. Not be some mormon wanna be preacher.
Holy shit. She has lost her ever loving mind.
If that was a preview of Thurs, people will be paying $200 to be preached to.
No thank you!
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on May 7, 2019 17:28:11 GMT
This is a page right out of the TC handbook. " We" don't understand the message. Trust me, yes we do. And when the light is bright, we see more. Much more. I'm gonna guess that American Crafts swooped in and bought the brand; so like TC, she now needs to reinvent her game. So she'll attempt to sell the inspiration, cultivation, the "aren't we just amaaaaazing moms, women of faith, blah blah blah" to those devout followers who believe in her vision of sunshine and unicorns every day. And help her build her new house that she NEEDS to cultivate in! Ugh. This makes a lot of sense. She has said like zero words about project life in weeks. If she’s not directly profiting anymore, why would she?
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on May 7, 2019 17:33:20 GMT
Ok there’s no project life or Becky Higgins at American crafts. Did they dump her?
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nicolep
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Post by nicolep on May 7, 2019 17:34:27 GMT
If I have to read someone tell her that she's a "lighthouse" one more time, I'm going to scream! They're blinded by the light!!
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jennamama
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Post by jennamama on May 7, 2019 17:41:01 GMT
Something changed with the corporate structure of Project Life. It really should be public record, but I'm too lazy to confirm this. She is no longer making either a) any or b) not as much off this brand so she is hurting to "evolve" and take the customers with her. I wonder if this was in her original contract - she got a big payout after 5 years with American Crafts and they have taken over development and name and she gets to build her dream house and thought she would float on to the next project - retaining her identity as Becky Higgins of Project Life for future endeavors. Only she's under extreme stress because things aren't working out the way she imagined and she's lost her purpose and is regretting this sellout to American Crafts after all. People are calling her out in ways she never imagined for the first time in her life.
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Post by lostwithout2peas on May 7, 2019 17:42:14 GMT
And in the middle of me trying to read thru all the comments she TURNED THEM OFF!! Oh FFS!! 🙄
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Post by scrapaddict702 on May 7, 2019 17:42:20 GMT
Narcissistic personality disorder involves a distorted self-image. Emotions can be unstable and intense, and there is excessive concern with vanity, prestige, power, and personal adequacy. There also tends to be a lack of empathy and an exaggerated sense of superiority. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is closely associated with egocentrism, a personality characteristic in which people see themselves and their interests and opinions as the only ones that really matter. People with NPD have limited interest in the feelings of others. They lack empathy and are unable to feel or appreciate feelings that are not their own. According to the United States' National Library of Medicine, a person with NPD has an excessive sense of self-importance, an intense preoccupation with themselves, and a lack of empathy for others.
Below are the most common traits found in people with NPD:
An insatiable appetite for the attention of others Extreme feelings of jealousy An expectation of special treatment Exaggerating achievements, talents, and importance Extreme sensitivity and a tendency to be easily hurt and to feel rejected with little provocation Difficulty maintaining healthful relationships Fantasizing about their own intelligence, success, power, and appearance An ability to take advantage of others to achieve a goal, without regret or conscience A lack empathy, or ability to understand and share the feelings of others, and a tendency to disregard others' feelings A belief that only certain people can understand their uniqueness A tendency to consider themselves as skilled in romance Responding to criticism with anger, humiliation, and shame Seeking out praise and positive reinforcement from others An expectation that others will agree with them and go along with what they want Whatever they crave or yearn for must be "the best"
Others may see narcissists' goals as selfish ones. They may describe the person as self-obsessed, arrogant, tough-minded, and lacking emotion.
ETA: Becky in bold.
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msliz
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Post by msliz on May 7, 2019 17:44:23 GMT
Evolution. Okay. Into what? Instagram?
Seriously, that's the only suggestion she seems to have now for documenting our perfectly curated/cultivated lives.
ETA: just to clarify my pov, I think social media posting is a completely valid way to record moments. I just hope she isn't charging people real money to give them that as her answer to everything.
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nicolep
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Post by nicolep on May 7, 2019 17:49:04 GMT
And in the middle of me trying to read thru all the comments she TURNED THEM OFF!! Oh FFS!! 🙄 What a jerk. Seriously.
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Post by scrapsnneedles on May 7, 2019 18:04:54 GMT
I really want to know what Wendy and Kari think of this whole thing. Without actually knowing either way, they seem to care more about the business side of things than Becky P. does.
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Post by lostwithout2peas on May 7, 2019 18:09:32 GMT
And in the middle of me trying to read thru all the comments she TURNED THEM OFF!! Oh FFS!! 🙄 What a jerk. Seriously. I've been quietly following the trainwreck that is BH, as I had unfollowed her last year sometime cause she was just going off in too much of a different direction then I was interested in. But I couldn't stay quite any more today after following along for long and finally seeing the actual train wreck and seeing the flames for myself and knowing she has no one to blame but herself. This could have played out an entirely different way if she would have handled it better. She should take pointer from her fellow Mormon HS. I never feel like she is talking down to me or trying to sell her religion(or any other crap I'm not interested like jewlery or weird dresses!!) She just creates and loves doing it! I used to love BH back in her CK convention days! RIP old BH! 😂
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Post by julie5 on May 7, 2019 18:46:48 GMT
I really want to know what Wendy and Kari think of this whole thing. Without actually knowing either way, they seem to care more about the business side of things than Becky P. does. Someone emailed Wendy during the iNsd kerfuffle and basically Wendy stood behind Becky. To work with Becky, you’d have to be drinking the koolaid. No way would those two think she’s done anything wrong.
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2019 18:48:30 GMT
And in the middle of me trying to read thru all the comments she TURNED THEM OFF!! Oh FFS!! 🙄 She is SO ridiculous. She could have just moved on and not posted today's whine. But she couldn't resist the urge to tell everyone AGAIN how great she is, how light-filled, how worthy of being emulated and how mean her former customers are. You know, those mean people who wanted a SCRAPBOOK and/or PL post on iNSD - of all days!!!! She had to make it about her - AGAIN.
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Post by scrapsnneedles on May 7, 2019 18:51:11 GMT
I really want to know what Wendy and Kari think of this whole thing. Without actually knowing either way, they seem to care more about the business side of things than Becky P. does. Someone emailed Wendy during the iNsd kerfuffle and basically Wendy stood behind Becky. To work with Becky, you’d have to be drinking the koolaid. No way would those two think she’s done anything wrong. Ugh, that’s upsetting, but shouldn’t be unexpected.
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Post by ladytrisha on May 7, 2019 19:53:39 GMT
Ok there’s no project life or Becky Higgins at American crafts. Did they dump her? From what I understand, when American Crafts buys you, they buy everything - product and business name. It's pretty much what they did with TC (ever notice she's reincarnated her name several times?). I'm not sure I understand their business model as a whole since they seem to kill off more businesses that they buy - the only thing that makes sense to me is that they take the idea of one person and then rebrand it under their business name. Let's face it, these insecurities of theirs don't hold up under anyone questioning their business mode, their creative mojo or even talking back. We're just supposed to follow, smile and hand over money.
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bluemaige
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Post by bluemaige on May 7, 2019 19:55:16 GMT
Ok there’s no project life or Becky Higgins at American crafts. Did they dump her? From what I understand, when American Crafts buys you, they buy everything - product and business name. It's pretty much what they did with TC (ever notice she's reincarnated her name several times?). I'm not sure I understand their business model as a whole since they seem to kill off more businesses that they buy - the only thing that makes sense to me is that they take the idea of one person and then rebrand it under their business name. Let's face it, these insecurities of theirs don't hold up under anyone questioning their business mode, their creative mojo or even talking back. We're just supposed to follow, smile and hand over money. Of course I MIGHT be willing to continue to purchase the kits in the app IF they would update it on time.
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Post by wendifful on May 7, 2019 20:54:51 GMT
Ok there’s no project life or Becky Higgins at American crafts. Did they dump her? From what I understand, when American Crafts buys you, they buy everything - product and business name. It's pretty much what they did with TC (ever notice she's reincarnated her name several times?). I'm not sure I understand their business model as a whole since they seem to kill off more businesses that they buy - the only thing that makes sense to me is that they take the idea of one person and then rebrand it under their business name. Let's face it, these insecurities of theirs don't hold up under anyone questioning their business mode, their creative mojo or even talking back. We're just supposed to follow, smile and hand over money. I didn't think that American Crafts bought Teresa Collins' brand? I never heard about it, at any rate. I think for a while, My Mind's Eye was helping her manufacture her products, but that's all I ever heard about it.
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Post by thracian on May 7, 2019 21:06:45 GMT
I am confused by Becky's insistence that she can post what she wants on her Instagram. Of course she can. But if Becky Higgins LLC is selling Project Life, Becky Higgins LLC should damn well be posting about it on her Instagram. This isn't complicated. "Everyone knows how to do the app so there's no reason to post about it" is an absurd take for a company that wants repeat customers. FFS, is she running a business or not? This isn't complicated.
She needs to either support and feature the actual products she sells or be honest about WTF her business is.
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Post by ladytrisha on May 7, 2019 21:36:56 GMT
I didn't think that American Crafts bought Teresa Collins' brand? I never heard about it, at any rate. I think for a while, My Mind's Eye was helping her manufacture her products, but that's all I ever heard about it. I think you may be right - I know her company was bought and then they dropped it. Funny I went back to read her blogs - I swear she and BH and on the same road selling the same thing.
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Post by teacherlisa on May 7, 2019 21:45:17 GMT
I am confused by Becky's insistence that she can post what she wants on her Instagram. Of course she can. But if Becky Higgins LLC is selling Project Life, Becky Higgins LLC should damn well be posting about it on her Instagram. This isn't complicated. "Everyone knows how to do the app so there's no reason to post about it" is an absurd take for a company that wants repeat customers. FFS, is she running a business or not? This isn't complicated. She needs to either support and feature the actual products she sells or be honest about WTF her business is. especially since she should be trying to sell kits, the free form text feature and whatever the cloud/sync thing for the app is. I use the app and don't know "everything about it"
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Post by scrapsnneedles on May 7, 2019 22:29:37 GMT
I wonder how this situation is going to affect Thursday’s live event. There are probably going to be a lot more tears.
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bluemaige
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Post by bluemaige on May 7, 2019 22:31:20 GMT
I am confused by Becky's insistence that she can post what she wants on her Instagram. Of course she can. But if Becky Higgins LLC is selling Project Life, Becky Higgins LLC should damn well be posting about it on her Instagram. This isn't complicated. "Everyone knows how to do the app so there's no reason to post about it" is an absurd take for a company that wants repeat customers. FFS, is she running a business or not? This isn't complicated. She needs to either support and feature the actual products she sells or be honest about WTF her business is. especially since she should be trying to sell kits, the free form text feature and whatever the cloud/sync thing for the app is. I use the app and don't know "everything about it" I haven’t gotten the sync thing because there really wasn’t much about it by the team but more info was provided by the Facebook groups of USERS
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2019 22:32:47 GMT
especially since she should be trying to sell kits, the free form text feature and whatever the cloud/sync thing for the app is. I use the app and don't know "everything about it" I haven’t gotten the sync thing because there really wasn’t much about it by the team but more info was provided by the Facebook groups of USERS I LOVE that group. The gals are awesome and super friendly
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2019 22:33:33 GMT
PLEASE someone, post info if she posts anything Thursday. I am really curious how many spots are filled since she seemed desperate to sell it!
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Post by lostwithout2peas on May 8, 2019 0:32:18 GMT
I wonder how this situation is going to affect Thursday’s live event. There are probably going to be a lot more tears. I wish I could be a fly on the wall at that event!! 😂😂
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