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Post by snugglebutter on May 25, 2020 16:34:00 GMT
I am so sorry. Your family will be in my prayers. Please feel free to talk here anytime.
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Post by 1girlygirl on May 25, 2020 16:34:03 GMT
I am so sorry for the passing of your husband. You’ve received some good advice, but I’ll add that your insurance agent can also help with some of the things you need to take care of. Hugs to you and your family during this time.
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Gennifer
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Post by Gennifer on May 25, 2020 16:35:36 GMT
I’m so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by Chips on May 25, 2020 16:35:48 GMT
I am so sorry for your devastating loss. You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by craftedbys on May 25, 2020 16:35:51 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a loved one is difficult at any time, I can only imagine how stressful it is now.
Everyone has given you excellent advice. I just want to add to please make sure that you are taking care of yourself. I know you want to be there for your kids and help them, but you also need to make sure you are eating and resting and getting time to focus on you and your feelings.
Take care and know that you and your family will be in my prayers and that all of the Peas are here for you.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2020 16:37:34 GMT
First let me say that I am very sorry for your loss. What an absolutely awful thing to have happened.
I am sure there are many peas here that can offer advice.
I have not read previous replies, so I am not sure if this has been suggested. When my father passed away, I remember with his credit cards, we just had to send a copy (certified maybe) of the death certificate to the company. If the card was in his name only, I don't "think" that you have to pay them off. I am sure that other Peas can speak to this.
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 25, 2020 16:38:44 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your family. What a horrible shock this must be.
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Post by karenlou on May 25, 2020 16:38:47 GMT
I have no answers for you, I just want you to know how very sorry I am for your loss. Love ad Prayers for you and your family
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sweetpeasmom
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Post by sweetpeasmom on May 25, 2020 16:39:41 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't have any advise but wanted to send some virtual hugs!
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Post by Darcy Collins on May 25, 2020 16:44:21 GMT
First let me say that I am very sorry for your loss. What an absolutely awful thing to have happened. I am sure there are many peas here that can offer advice. I have not read previous replies, so I am not sure if this has been suggested. When my father passed away, I remember with his credit cards, we just had to send a copy (certified maybe) of the death certificate to the company. If the card was in his name only, I don't "think" that you have to pay them off. I am sure that other Peas can speak to this.
If the estate has assets, you absolutely have to pay off the debts before distributing the assets. If someone dies and has unsecured debt such as credit cards,you do NOT have to personally pay the debt because you are next of kin.
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Post by cmpeter on May 25, 2020 16:47:28 GMT
I am so sorry. Hugs to you and your children.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2020 16:48:11 GMT
Oh my I am so very sorry for your loss of your husband. Hugs. Just lots and lots of hugs. And prayers of comfort
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Post by glory77 on May 25, 2020 16:50:21 GMT
I’m so very sorry.
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iluvpink
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Post by iluvpink on May 25, 2020 16:50:33 GMT
No advice, but I'm so sorry for your loss. Lots of hugs to you and your children.
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scrappinwithoutpeas
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Post by scrappinwithoutpeas on May 25, 2020 16:52:51 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. It would be hard enough in normal times, but adding a pandemic into the mix just makes it all the more so. Take the time you need, gather friends and family around you if that helps for comfort and grieving. Be kind to yourself and take the time you need to deal with things - the grieving process doesn't have a timetable.
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Post by Zee on May 25, 2020 16:55:38 GMT
I don't have any advice but just wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss and for your children too.
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Post by cmhs on May 25, 2020 16:59:14 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss.
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TankTop
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Post by TankTop on May 25, 2020 17:01:45 GMT
I have no advice... just huge hugs and love being sent your way.
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Post by FrozenPea on May 25, 2020 17:02:50 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by chaosisapony on May 25, 2020 17:04:20 GMT
I'm so sorry
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2020 17:04:29 GMT
I am so, so sorry for you loss.
We're here if you need us.
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valincal
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Post by valincal on May 25, 2020 17:05:18 GMT
I’m so very sorry for your loss. 😔
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Post by friendly on May 25, 2020 17:07:50 GMT
I'm so very, very sorry.
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Post by refugeepea on May 25, 2020 17:08:05 GMT
big ((hugs)) to you. I'm so sorry I don't have any advice.
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Post by pierkiss on May 25, 2020 17:16:05 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I’m not much help, but I am sending you lots of hugs.
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Peamac
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Post by Peamac on May 25, 2020 17:16:10 GMT
I'm so sorry! (((Hugs))) and prayers for you all! <3
ETA- I would suggest contacting the life insurance company tomorrow. Yes, you'll need a death certificate, but they'll also need to get the ball rolling on their end. Some companies need to mail forms to be filled out, but some can email or fax the forms. Some will work with the funeral home, as well. They can get you the forms to be filled out while you're waiting on the death certificates.
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on May 25, 2020 17:16:35 GMT
Oh goodness, I'm so, so sorry. What a shock. I'm in the UK so I don't know what the requirements are where you are but I'm sending you big hugs.
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Post by maryland on May 25, 2020 17:17:27 GMT
No advice, just wanted to say how sorry we are. Thinking of you and your family.
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Post by MichyM on May 25, 2020 17:18:27 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry. I cannot imagine what you're going through.
Unfortunately I have no advice other than that someone mentioned several dozen death certificates. When each of my parents died I got 10 certificates. I ended up having to order a few more for my father (he owned multiple businesses) but only used 6-7 for my mom.
Sending much love, strength, and warm squishy hugs.
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Post by monicad on May 25, 2020 17:20:24 GMT
I am so, so sorry for your enormous loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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