azredhead
Drama Llama
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Jun 25, 2014 22:49:18 GMT
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Post by azredhead on Oct 17, 2018 23:11:48 GMT
Oh I'm so sorry!! it's so hard no matter how they go! Mommas in particular! I hope that the process is ok as can be! I understand the difficult family dynamics. If you need to vent the peas are the best! They helped me a lot when my mom passed unexpectldy, it will be 2yrs in feb and is feels like it's just been a few months If you need to chat later on feel free to pm or post here Anway be kind to your self and you can't fix you're siblings and death does funny things to people. LOTS and LOTS of hugs!!
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peabay
Prolific Pea
Posts: 9,589
Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Oct 17, 2018 23:26:23 GMT
Sending you my best. Why don't you plan your own memorial service with your husband and kids? Tell some stories, eat foods she loved and revel in your memories.
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peasquared
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,433
Jul 6, 2014 23:59:59 GMT
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Post by peasquared on Oct 17, 2018 23:26:52 GMT
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. It doesn't matter how prepared we think we are, it's always a shock. Please take care of yourself. Love and prayers sent your way. ((HUGS))
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PLurker
Prolific Pea
Posts: 9,738
Location: Behind the Cheddar Curtain
Jun 28, 2014 3:48:49 GMT
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Post by PLurker on Oct 17, 2018 23:27:44 GMT
I'm so sorry. Losing anyone you love is tough. Losing your Mom is a special kind of pain. ((hugs))
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Mystie
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,299
Jun 25, 2014 19:53:37 GMT
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Post by Mystie on Oct 17, 2018 23:29:12 GMT
I'm so, so sorry. Maybe in a few days you can think about something you and your husband and kids could do to celebrate her life and give you some closure. Please be kind to yourself as you grieve.
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joelise
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,649
Jul 1, 2014 6:33:14 GMT
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Post by joelise on Oct 17, 2018 23:30:15 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m thinking of you.
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Post by birdgate on Oct 17, 2018 23:30:58 GMT
Sorry for your loss.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Oct 17, 2018 23:36:01 GMT
I'm so sorry. I hope you can find a way to grieve and to hold her memory dear. I lost my Mom to lung cancer also it happened so quickly it was quite a shock
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Post by eversograceful1 on Oct 17, 2018 23:36:18 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by KelleeM on Oct 17, 2018 23:40:10 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sorry your family isn’t there for you. Hugs.
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mimima
Drama Llama
Stay Gold, Ponyboy
Posts: 5,014
Jun 25, 2014 19:25:50 GMT
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Post by mimima on Oct 17, 2018 23:42:47 GMT
I'm so sorry. May her Memory be Eternal.
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Post by shelby on Oct 17, 2018 23:50:11 GMT
My heart goes out to you at the loss of your mom. I understand a little how you are feeling because my mom died very unexpected in her sleep. I was devastated that I couldn't speak to her one more time or couldn't say goodby to her. This might seem strange to some but what brought me comfort was I wrote her a letter. In the letter I told her how much I loved her, how much I was going to miss her but that I knew she was in a happy place and knowing that made me happy for her. I thanked her for all the love she had given me and for always being there when I needed her. I told her I longed for the day we could be together again but until then I would do everything I could to be the person she would want me to be. I tucked it in the casket. I know your mom isn't having one but you could still write the letter. sending you comforting hugs.
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inkedup
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,837
Jun 26, 2014 5:00:26 GMT
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Post by inkedup on Oct 17, 2018 23:55:39 GMT
I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your mom and all that you are going through. I can empathize with the regret you feel for not having called your mom; my mom died last October 7th, and I got busy the day before and didn't call her.
It would be hard enough to deal with the loss of your mom on its own; feeling unacknowledged and unimportant makes this all so much more difficult.
I know it's not the same, but your pea sisters are here to listen, support and encourage you. The love and support I received here were one of the bright spots in the dark days after my mom died.
Please, feel free to share anything here. Tell us about your mom. Share your favorite memories if you want.
Be gentle with yourself and know that you are in the hearts of many.
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Post by kkrenn on Oct 18, 2018 0:10:47 GMT
((((hugs))))
I'm so sorry and I hope you find a way to commemorate her and your love for her so you can have the closure you are seeking. I wish your siblings knew or understood how much you need them right now.
I know it's not the same but the Peas are always here for you.
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valincal
Drama Llama
Southern Alberta
Posts: 5,623
Jun 27, 2014 2:21:22 GMT
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Post by valincal on Oct 18, 2018 0:11:29 GMT
So sorry for your loss.
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Post by winniegirl on Oct 18, 2018 0:15:02 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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scrappyesq
Pearl Clutcher
You have always been a part of the heist. You're only mad now because you don't like your cut.
Posts: 4,029
Jun 26, 2014 19:29:07 GMT
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Post by scrappyesq on Oct 18, 2018 0:18:01 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by liya on Oct 18, 2018 0:19:46 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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61redhead
Full Member
Refupea #1938
Posts: 456
Location: South Carolina
Jun 28, 2014 11:27:52 GMT
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Post by 61redhead on Oct 18, 2018 0:30:22 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know she is at peace now and don’t blame yourself for not calling her.
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Post by MZF on Oct 18, 2018 0:30:40 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. No matter how old we are, it hurts to lose our parents.
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Post by femalebusiness on Oct 18, 2018 0:31:13 GMT
I am so sorry. It's hard to lose parents.
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Post by jennrs on Oct 18, 2018 0:32:34 GMT
I am so very sorry for the loss of your mom. It’s a tough thing to go through, I know. I hope in the coming days you can maybe find some comfort in the time you spent with her and try not to focus on the day you didn’t call.
My adult niece passed away two weeks ago and she called me less than 24 hours before and I missed her call and didn’t return it the next day. I get the regret, I get it. I’m trying to focus on the Last time I did see her and talk to her and it was a good visit.
Maybe you guys can do a celebration of life party? Make photo boards, make her favorite foods, play her favorite music, tell stories and share memories of her. Again, I’m really sorry.
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Oct 18, 2018 0:39:38 GMT
I'm very sorry for your loss.
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janeliz
Drama Llama
I'm the Wiz and nobody beats me.
Posts: 5,632
Jun 26, 2014 14:35:07 GMT
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Post by janeliz on Oct 18, 2018 0:39:52 GMT
My condolences. I’m sorry for your loss.
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eastcoastpea
Prolific Pea
Posts: 9,252
Jun 27, 2014 13:05:28 GMT
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Post by eastcoastpea on Oct 18, 2018 0:40:10 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. Sending big hugs your way.
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Post by Really Red on Oct 18, 2018 0:47:47 GMT
Oh Tammiem2pnc1 I am so so SO sorry. You clearly have enough on your plate right now and I am sorry you feel bad you couldn't be with your mama. Please go be with your brother and sister. I hope they told you not to come because they know you have a lot on your plate, but it is incredibly healing to be with people who loved your mom like only you can. I am so very sorry for your great loss.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Oct 18, 2018 1:01:27 GMT
I’m sorry for your loss. {hugs}
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Post by alexa11 on Oct 18, 2018 1:05:39 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by Lovebug2867 on Oct 18, 2018 1:08:04 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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used2scrap
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,034
Jan 29, 2016 3:02:55 GMT
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Post by used2scrap on Oct 18, 2018 1:21:18 GMT
I’m sorry.
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