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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Apr 17, 2020 10:26:08 GMT
At some point, whether it's May 1st or September 1st, states will begin to reopen.
At what point will you feel safe going to museums, aquariums, sports stadiums, music concerts, etc?
As soon as they open, but wear a mask?
When there's a vaccine?
I'm feeling very sad because I feel my kids are losing years (until a vaccine is discovered & widely distributed) of visiting these types of places.
I won't feel safe going until our whole family is immunized, but that realistically could be a year+.
It's so easy to feel trapped when all your escapes, all the places you go to learn & discover, the places that give you a reason to look forward to next week & next month, they are all closed.
We've looked at the online tours of museums, and while they're interesting, they're not even close to the same experience.
And all the outdoor, nature places that we'd normally go to are also closed due to high volume when the stay at home order was first put in place.
Your thoughts?
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Post by christine58 on Apr 17, 2020 10:34:15 GMT
As soon as they open, but wear a mask? I honestly think there will be better measures in place when large venues open...drop the capacity, better sanitation, masks...etc. We cannot live like we have been for much longer. Child abuse is on the rise, domestic violence, suicides etc.
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Post by sueg on Apr 17, 2020 10:37:23 GMT
I think I will be more likely to go back to museums and galleries earlier than sporting events and concerts, just because I feel they can control admission better. We've been told here that we won't have sporting events or concerts until at least the start of September, so it's a way off anyway. Not sure what the timeline is for museum re-openings.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2020 10:47:15 GMT
At some point, whether it's May 1st or September 1st, states will begin to reopen. At what point will you feel safe going to museums, aquariums, sports stadiums, music concerts, etc? As soon as they open, but wear a mask?When there's a vaccine? Sadly wearing a mask is not going to protect any of us. People are still touching things like handrails, door knobs etc. Logically the risk is still there for everyone until a vaccine is found. No one can guarantee that they will have a mild dose of this, some will but it's not a guarantee that it might be you ( general you). I haven't really thought about how things will be when this particular wave is over to be honest. At the moment I'm just concentrating about keeping myself and my family safe and hoping that non of us will catch it. I'll cross the decision of whether it is safe to go to the places you've mentioned when the time comes for them to be open.I don't envisage that to be any time soon though. Even if they open some parts of lock downs, like small shops etc there will have to be some sort of social distancing in place I think, otherwise it will take off again and we'll be back to square one.
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Post by Dallie on Apr 17, 2020 10:48:59 GMT
As soon as they open, but wear a mask? I honestly think there will be better measures in place when large venues open...drop the capacity, better sanitation, masks...etc. We cannot live like we have been for much longer. Child abuse is on the rise, domestic violence, suicides etc. I will be shocked if better measures happen. They cost money and companies will very quickly drop anything that costs a penney of profit. And truthfully, since most people will stop worrying about hygiene very fast, companies have little incentive to continue measures to improve public health. I mean, they are reopening our beaches today "for exercise purposes". Today. Museums which rely on earned income are chomping at the bit to open. I expect things will open sooner rather than later with few public health safeguards. I expect DIsney world will be packed the day it opens.
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Post by johnnysmom on Apr 17, 2020 11:30:06 GMT
You’re assuming they can find a vaccine that works and then that they can produce enough of it for every person in the world.
If they find something that works (which they’re off to a good start but it’s still early) there’s no way they can get enough of it produced in a year, or even 2. IMO it’ll be at least 3-5 years before the average, healthy person could get immunized. Hopefully they’ll have something sooner for the elderly, immunocompromised people and their families.
So yes, I will go back to going places once it’s allowed. I’ll be more careful about what I touch, use more hand sanitizer than I used to, break the “touching my face” habit, etc but I’ll go out once the restrictions are lifted.
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Post by QueenoftheSloths on Apr 17, 2020 12:33:11 GMT
As someone who already had what seemed to be mild agoraphobia, I think I could "safer at home" forever.
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Post by stampnscrap1128 on Apr 17, 2020 13:01:59 GMT
I don't know if I will ever feel totally safe again. For sure not until there is a proven vaccine.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 17, 2020 13:02:24 GMT
For me it will be a balance between when the states say they are ready and when I feel ready. I definitely am not going to a concert or sports event without a vaccine. But I feel I can find a reasonable place for me personally when things begin to open up. Doesn't mean I won't be anxious as hell though.
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Post by nlwilkins on Apr 17, 2020 13:03:27 GMT
Growing up, we never went to big events or crowded places. Mother could not afford it. Raising our kids, it was the same. The biggest events my daughters went to were high school games. I am saying this to remind myself and others that it is possible to stay sane and have a good life without being around big crowds. Saying we are depriving our children of experiences and a good life because they cannot go to Disney or huge concerts is being silly. Many of us grew up without those experiences and it did not hurt us.
BUT if feel Disney and other huge amusement parks may suffer enough in attendance to figure out measure to help people feel safe. Other venues might do the same. Some one will come up with great ways to do that and these procedures will then be copied by other venues. I believe there are enough families out there that will not risk their health and lives to attend these kind of places to make an economic impact on them. If these places want to continue to make money they will figure it out.
Though I think the time of some of these things is over - such as cruise ships. I will never feel safe on one of those ships again no matter what vaccines are available.
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Post by used2scrap on Apr 17, 2020 13:12:10 GMT
It’s not about my own feeling of safety, but wanting to be able to see my elderly parents/relatives without transmission of the virus to them. So when Dr Birx and Fauci etc and their families are out and about freely in crowded spaces.
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Apr 17, 2020 13:36:13 GMT
It’s not about my own feeling of safety, but wanting to be able to see my elderly parents/relatives without transmission of the virus to them. So when Dr Birx and Fauci etc and their families are out and about freely in crowded spaces.
That's a good way to think about it. That runs through my mind each time everyone talks about it.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 17, 2020 13:36:56 GMT
We won't be going anywhere with crowds until most of the population is vaccinated.
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Post by brandy327 on Apr 17, 2020 13:40:08 GMT
I'm immunocompromised so I personally won't feel comfortable until I'm immunized. And honestly until my whole family is immunized. I think that everyone in my house would be ok but if they bring it home to me, it wouldn't end well.
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Post by Really Red on Apr 17, 2020 13:41:06 GMT
Museums - whenever I can.
Other big crowdy places? I hated them before and I will definitely avoid them now.
So I guess it just means that when things get back to "normal," I'll be my same normal. I'll do the same things I liked before, but I HATED crowds and I didn't feel concerned in them, I just hated having people everywhere.
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Post by pyccku on Apr 17, 2020 13:45:31 GMT
Two things: 1. When there's a vaccine. 2. When there's a treatment that is proven to work.
Right now, doctors are trying whatever they can to treat this, but mostly it's just support until either the person's immune system is able to fight the virus off, or they die. If we were to actually come up with a working protocol - and enough equipment and drugs to treat anyone who needs it - that would be a gamechanger.
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Apr 17, 2020 13:46:56 GMT
I haven't given much thought to large venues since those are optional for me. Towards the end of June will be when I decide about two trips for summer.
Yesterday when the phases rolled out I did worry about going back to school. I'm ready to go back, BUT I'm not sure how they'd safely do it. Any type of social distancing would be nearly impossible. Do they have enough masks because I'd want several for one day. Some won't come back, so do I teach 24/7 to accommodate home and school learning? There are just a lot of chances to spread germs and I think it's too early.
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Post by pyccku on Apr 17, 2020 13:59:08 GMT
Yesterday when the phases rolled out I did worry about going back to school. I'm ready to go back, BUT I'm not sure how they'd safely do it. Any type of social distancing would be nearly impossible. Do they have enough masks because I'd want several for one day. Some won't come back, so do I teach 24/7 to accommodate home and school learning? There are just a lot of chances to spread germs and I think it's too early. I was thinking about how my school would do this. We have 3000+ kids. My classes are right around 34 each, and my room won't hold 34 with enough distance between everyone. Adding new clasrooms isn't really an option, we don't have the space or resources to hire enough teachers. So how could it work? I was thinking - they could cut the classes in half - so 17 per class. But then timewise, you would need to cut the time as well - maybe 30 minute classes instead of 55? You'd see fewer kids each class, so maybe you wouldn't need as much time. But you would need lots of sanitizer! The other option I see is doing a hybrid in person/online thing - half the kids are in person each day, the other half do online.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 17, 2020 14:02:00 GMT
I’m going as soon as they’re open.
We have Disney reservations June 1. I realize chances are incredibly slim at this point, but if they’re open, we’re going. Zero hesitation.
ETA: We are not at home people. We have big events every day. It’s not unusual for us to be at the theatre two or three times a week, concerts once a month, trips once a month, NASCAR season tickets, Indy races, Disney, Disney on Ice, memberships to every museum, lectures. Life is pointless without those things. All the time we are spending in quarantine is wasted time that we can never get back. Life isn’t worth living like this. I am 100% on board with reopening.
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Post by Sarah*H on Apr 17, 2020 14:03:39 GMT
When there is a vaccine or an effective anti-viral treatment. I know we're going to have to go back out before that though. My son is hired to work at an outdoor Shakespeare theater this summer and so far they are proceeding as though it's going to happen. I haven't begun to process my thoughts about this.
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Post by dewryce on Apr 17, 2020 14:06:00 GMT
Two things: 1. When there's a vaccine. 2. When there's a treatment that is proven to work. Right now, doctors are trying whatever they can to treat this, but mostly it's just support until either the person's immune system is able to fight the virus off, or they die. If we were to actually come up with a working protocol - and enough equipment and drugs to treat anyone who needs it - that would be a gamechanger. This is what I think. And it’s so hard because we live for sporting events (his triathlons as well as live events), the theater and concerts. But DH works in a nursing home and we are both high risk with several different factors. It doesn’t help that I have anxiety and health phobias.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2020 14:06:33 GMT
I usually do not go to concerts - I had tickets to the Stones and Billy Joel for this summer but are assuming they are cancelled. I probably won't go back. I do not frequent museums. No reason to go to the mall. I can watch sports on TV. I do not need to go to any big venues nor will I. I actually enjoy this stay at home order.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Apr 17, 2020 14:07:45 GMT
DH and I had some overlanding trips planned, just us in the woods camping in dispersed camping sites with no one else around. At this time that is not allowed.
I have never been one for big crowds so sporting events and concerts or not as big an issue for me. I do wonder about schools and high school and college sports. Just gathering those crowds together is a risk and could easily still be a risk in the fall.
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Post by auntkelly on Apr 17, 2020 14:32:41 GMT
I honestly don't know. Right now, I'm trying to process all the information I'm hearing and reading.
I really hope there is a college football season this Fall with fans in the stadium (including me), but I'm not convinced that is going to happen.
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Post by hmp on Apr 17, 2020 14:42:22 GMT
Since the Indy 500 was rescheduled to August 23rd, I’m hoping by then. Otherwise I’m happy to be at home where I feel safe.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Apr 17, 2020 14:42:22 GMT
We occasionally go to a Twins game but not going this year isn't a big deal. I mostly want to get to where going to my kids' games are safe. Or seeing my parents. The other day when people were talking about not doing things until there was a vaccine had me wondering about seeing family again. My mom has had lung cancer and is taking this very seriously. I understand that, and would not even consider seeing them right now. But what would make things different in two months? If anything, if things are open and we are engaging in more activity with people, wouldn't it be even less safe to see them? But then does that mean we won't see them for another year until/if there is a vaccine? Then I worry about all of the other health ailments that could happen in that time. What if her cancer comes back? Either of them have a heart attack? Or something random happens to any of us? Would we regret not seeing each other? It is so hard.
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Post by bethany102399 on Apr 17, 2020 14:43:32 GMT
We have plans to go to Orlando toward the end of August. We were supposed to go at the end of May, beginning of June but changed it well before Universal announced they would be shut down for what would have been our first day.
I'm torn, mentally I like having those dates in place. Gives me something to look forward to and feeling like there is a light at the end of this shelter in place tunnel. Even if it's a false hope, mentally I need it.
On the other hand, I'm nervous about what if the parks are open, but WE don't feel safe going? Up to a point I can get our money back, but if the parks are open then that makes cancelling things that much more difficult. so, I have no answer other than we have plans, but no idea if they'll be activated or not.
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Post by 3SugarBugs on Apr 17, 2020 14:44:58 GMT
Personally I would go as soon as they open, BUT I'm not sure how we keep at risk people safe. And chances are that even people considered 'more at risk' will decide to go...how do you care for that?
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Post by hop2 on Apr 17, 2020 14:48:47 GMT
First of all, after we are ‘allowed’. After that, when the risk vs reward seems worth it to me. I don’t like crowds anyway so I won’t be running out to the 4th fireworks, the Macy’s parade or the ball drop any time soon. Even concerts are not my jam because of crowds. I guess seeing extended family and giving hugs will be my first ‘risk’ highest on my list of things ‘worth’ the risk. I haven’t seen my DD for a year I’m going to have a super hard time not hugging her right off the plane end of June.
I am going to have to go back to work at some point and that in itself will put me at risk. So I might as well take fun risks too.
A reasonably reliable treatment would be a balance to the risks for me. After that a vaccine. It’s possible my job will get us vaccines as soon as they can, maybe.
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Post by breetheflea on Apr 17, 2020 14:55:43 GMT
We’re not crowd people... The only crowded place we go is the science museum and my older kids have declared it’s boring (the displays don’t change very often) so I didn’t renew our membership this year... I would like to go camping but with shared bathrooms that’s probably risky too. 🥺
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