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Post by freecharlie on Nov 10, 2021 11:57:28 GMT
Seems the stress and all took its toll on dh.
He's decided he no longer loves me and wants to fake until until our youngest graduates to divorce.
I'm in shock
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Post by elaine on Nov 10, 2021 12:00:37 GMT
Oh my G-d! I’m in shock too. Speechless even.
I’m so sorry. Truly.
Please let me know (and the rest of us) how I can help. Truly.
I can’t send you enough (((hugs))) right now.
😢
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Post by craftykitten on Nov 10, 2021 12:00:47 GMT
Oh gosh! I’m so sorry.
I’m sure there will be good advice on here. But right now just sending you hugs.
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Post by jenjie on Nov 10, 2021 12:01:52 GMT
Ahhh I’m so sorry. 😔 {{{gentle hugs}}} would he be willing to go go counseling?
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Post by snickle on Nov 10, 2021 12:03:26 GMT
So sorry that are you going thru that! I am a little confused about the title with covid being the issue? But, it's definitely been a huge stressor for all of us.
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Post by dewryce on Nov 10, 2021 12:07:33 GMT
Oh honey, I am so sorry! Do you think once things calm down for him and the stress is greatly reduced that things might look a little different?
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Post by elaine on Nov 10, 2021 12:09:12 GMT
So sorry that are you going thru that! I am a little confused about the title with covid being the issue? I will guess that the stress of working in a hospital with COVID patients since the pandemic began and throughout it is a large part of what pushed her Dh to make his decision. Including working at the hospital where freecharlie’s uncle recently died of COVID, which was hard on her Dh. |
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Post by lisae on Nov 10, 2021 12:10:44 GMT
I'm very sorry. Sending you {{hugs}}
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Post by melanell on Nov 10, 2021 12:14:56 GMT
Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry to hear this.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2021 12:16:15 GMT
What the absolute f$*^  I can't even begin to know how you are feeling. Know that we are all here for you. Big BIG hugs! |
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Post by cakediva on Nov 10, 2021 12:17:11 GMT
Oh my goodness - I’m so sorry. Sending hugs….
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Post by kenziekeeper on Nov 10, 2021 12:17:45 GMT
Oh my gosh. I’m so, so sorry. My thoughts are with you as you navigate this rocky terrain.
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Post by hop2 on Nov 10, 2021 12:18:13 GMT
Hugs.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 10, 2021 12:18:31 GMT
Wow! I'm so sorry. I'm sending you big hugs. You are not the only marriage I know that hasn't survived covid. I'm worried especially about our health care workers. Maybe if you stayed married for a bit, it will change his perspective. I would try some counseling for yourself because it cannot be easy to fake being married. I cannot even imagine how tough and painful that would be for me so I can imagine it's going to be tough for you too.
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Nov 10, 2021 12:21:26 GMT
I’m sorry. These are difficult times and sometimes we can’t deal with everything at once. Big hugs.
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Post by snickle on Nov 10, 2021 12:22:49 GMT
So sorry that are you going thru that! I am a little confused about the title with covid being the issue? I will guess that the stress of working in a hospital with COVID patients since the pandemic began and throughout it is a large part of what pushed her Dh to make his decision. Including working at the hospital where freecharlie ’s uncle recently died of COVID, which was hard on her Dh. Oh my, yes that is a lot. I am pretty new here so did not know that. My condolences to the OP. |
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Post by christine58 on Nov 10, 2021 12:25:42 GMT
Not sure how old your youngest is but I would hope that he would attempt counseling. You just recently lost a family member to Covid, he’s probably seen a lot of things where he works, you’ve been under a lot of stress as a teacher so maybe when the dust settles in a couple of days he will at least attempt some counseling.
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 10, 2021 12:29:49 GMT
I am so sorry. I hope you will take care of YOU right now.
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Post by Layce on Nov 10, 2021 12:31:36 GMT
I am sorry to hear this. You are such a sweet lady.
What is the timeframe? It’s possible you could work things out and come out stronger.
In any case, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Layce
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Post by Restless Spirit on Nov 10, 2021 12:33:43 GMT
I’m so sorry. What a terrible reminder of the long term mental toll this pandemic has caused. I’m so sad for you that your marriage is yet another casualty of Covid. Sending hugs to you.
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Post by Merge on Nov 10, 2021 12:36:27 GMT
What? I am so very sorry. Please let us know how we can support you.
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Post by busy on Nov 10, 2021 12:36:54 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Nov 10, 2021 12:38:10 GMT
I’m so very sorry…
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Post by freecharlie on Nov 10, 2021 12:39:28 GMT
Not sure how old your youngest is but I would hope that he would attempt counseling. You just recently lost a family member to Covid, he’s probably seen a lot of things where he works, you’ve been under a lot of stress as a teacher so maybe when the dust settles in a couple of days he will at least attempt some counseling. youngest graduates in may |
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Nov 10, 2021 12:43:42 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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Post by Monica* on Nov 10, 2021 12:44:09 GMT
I'm so sorry. Maybe with time, things might evolve. I think you're incredibly brave to tough this out until your youngest graduates. I can't even imagine. But I know it's a sacrifice. No matter what happens, you will come out of it into a new chapter of your life story.
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Post by gillyp on Nov 10, 2021 12:46:39 GMT
I am so sorry to read that.  You have all had so much to contend with recently. I do hope it’s just exhaustion and being drained that is making him say that and that he might be willing to go to counselling. |
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Post by kelly8875 on Nov 10, 2021 12:50:20 GMT
I’m so sorry
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 10, 2021 12:57:34 GMT
Not sure how old your youngest is but I would hope that he would attempt counseling. You just recently lost a family member to Covid, he’s probably seen a lot of things where he works, you’ve been under a lot of stress as a teacher so maybe when the dust settles in a couple of days he will at least attempt some counseling. youngest graduates in may Then now is the time to talk to a lawyer. You don't have to act, but you do need to protect yourself. |
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Post by SockMonkey on Nov 10, 2021 13:00:43 GMT
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're dealing with. No advice...just hugs.
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You have all had so much to contend with recently. I do hope it’s just exhaustion and being drained that is making him say that and that he might be willing to go to counselling. 
