It is time for me to give up

This was the hardest part of it for me.

I hit “like” out of support, not because I like this. I am sorry.

I’ve always said it takes two to make a marriage but only one to destroy it. He’s made that choice for the both of you. Do yourself a favor and keep a journal about these days. When you look back at it in a few years it will be eye opening.

My heart breaks for you. Take care of yourself. Big hugs.

Hugs friend. I’m sorry this is how things ended up but at least now you know and can work on where you need to go next. When all is said and done, you will be okay.

I'm so sorry you've had this choice taken away from you - it's not fair and I'm sure it hurts. (((hugs))) We're here for you. One step at a time.

{Hugs} Now you can just focus on yourself and your kids, and let karma take care of him.

Sending you hugs and a giant glass of wine.

Also don’t for a second think it was you giving up. He gave up. You fought for it.

Big giant hugs.

Having just gone through it, I can tell you it WILL get better.

I wish I had have had the means and the guts to leave years ago. I could have been so much happier - but I can move forward knowing I did the right thing.

You will be amazed at how much peace comes with it after you have allowed yourself time to grieve. 🥰

I'm very sorry that you're in this situation and that you're hurting so deeply, dear pea friend.
YOU did not give up, you tried to salvage your marriage.
As many of others have written, HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH.
I agree that badmouthing their dad to your kids would be a mistake, but I also think that letting them know the truth of the reason for your divorce is his infidelity and unwillingness to work to save your marriage. They need to know the truth vs. the lies he has prob. told them.

Sending you lots of love as you navigate the hard weeks and months ahead.
PLEASE take care of yourself!
xoxo

I am so, so sorry. May God wrap you in His arms as you go through your next steps. Big hugs!

I’m so sorry about all of this. I know it’s not your choice and it’s awful.

Keep to your counseling, focus on your boys, and get the best attorney you can.

Take the F--er to the cleaners. DO NOT settle for anything less that what you are owed by this asshole. His ass needs to be out of the house too.

Hugs.

I’m sorry, I was there 4 years ago, I wanted to try to fix it and he just did not. And no matter how much you try you just can’t save it all by yourself ( no matter how much he tells you yes all your fault to begin with )

I am thinking of you and praying for you and I hope you find your way which ever way that is.

I was a person who simply did not ‘believe’ in divorce but I can tell you after I got thru it I am happier than I have been for years. I have been happier than my Ex and it drives him crazy.

Many hugs, I wish you strength and peace going forward