janeliz
Drama Llama
I'm the Wiz and nobody beats me.
Posts: 5,641
Jun 26, 2014 14:35:07 GMT
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Post by janeliz on Feb 2, 2019 14:09:38 GMT
Wishing you so much strength and love. I hope your son receives everything he needs and deserves. ((Hugs))
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J u l e e
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,531
Location: Cincinnati
Jun 28, 2014 2:50:47 GMT
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Post by J u l e e on Feb 2, 2019 14:44:13 GMT
Elaine, I have tears in my eyes reading that you feel like you've somehow failed. If I knew your address I might just show up on your doorstep with a hug and something for your Instant Pot. I am pulling for you and Eli! Much love coming from Ohio!
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jayfab
Drama Llama
procastinating
Posts: 5,589
Jun 26, 2014 21:55:15 GMT
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Post by jayfab on Feb 2, 2019 14:46:29 GMT
Love and hugs!!!
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AmandaA
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,502
Aug 28, 2015 22:31:17 GMT
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Post by AmandaA on Feb 2, 2019 14:54:10 GMT
Elaine, I continue to be in awe of your grace and determination in the face of all the challenges life has thrown your way. Your boys are blessed to have you, as are your family members, friends, and all of us random strangers whose paths your cross. Hoping for the best for all of you as you head into this next chapter.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Feb 2, 2019 15:15:04 GMT
Thinking of you and your family elaine. Take care of yourself, this has to be incredibly traumatic for you, even knowing you're doing everything possible to get your son the help he desperately needs.
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Post by alexa11 on Feb 2, 2019 15:50:27 GMT
Sending prayers and hugs. I know this was a very difficult decision for you. Stay strong, mama.
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Post by Basket1lady on Feb 2, 2019 15:53:40 GMT
What a mixed bag of emotions. Glad that you found somewhere to help him, but sad that you need the help. I pray that both your son and your family can find the help needed.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Feb 2, 2019 15:54:03 GMT
Hugs elaine. I hope this will be a new start for your family and Eli will get the help he needs.
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Deleted
Posts: 0
Sept 30, 2024 9:28:46 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Feb 2, 2019 16:07:27 GMT
The best decision isn’t always the easiest one. Hopefully, this facility will give him the resources he needs to help control his outbursts and he will come home in a much better state.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Feb 2, 2019 16:08:40 GMT
Wishing you and your family well and sending good thoughts and big hugs as you go through this difficult transition.
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scrapngranny
Pearl Clutcher
Only slightly senile
Posts: 4,821
Jun 25, 2014 23:21:30 GMT
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Post by scrapngranny on Feb 2, 2019 16:12:37 GMT
Hugs. Wishing a smooth transition for both of you and your family.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 2, 2019 16:14:01 GMT
Sending you warm thoughts, elaine and refugeepea and any other Peas who are dealing with challenges like this. I can’t even fathom how difficult it must be to live that reality, and to have to worry about what life will be like for your kids after you’re gone. I hope Eli’s medical team is able to get his meds sorted so he can come back home.
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Post by coffeetalk on Feb 2, 2019 16:23:29 GMT
Holding you and your family in my heart as you make this transition.
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flute4peace
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,757
Jul 3, 2014 14:38:35 GMT
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Post by flute4peace on Feb 2, 2019 16:35:23 GMT
Thinking of you,Elaine! You are an amazing Mama!
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Post by GamGam on Feb 2, 2019 16:42:36 GMT
Adding my prayers and love to you and your family.❤️
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Post by mom on Feb 2, 2019 16:44:47 GMT
I admire you so much, elaine . You are such a good mom and advocate for your boys. I will be praying for you and Eli.
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Post by jenjie on Feb 2, 2019 17:28:18 GMT
elaine no no no no no! You are NOT a failure and you know it. Don’t listen to the lies screaming at your in your mind. You are a mother who loves both of her sons well. Fully. Eli needs support that is beyond your ability. You’ve searched until you found a place where you trust he will be safe, cared for, and learn some techniques to help himself when he comes home. I am so proud of you.
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Mystie
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,300
Jun 25, 2014 19:53:37 GMT
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Post by Mystie on Feb 2, 2019 17:31:29 GMT
I'll keep you all in my thoughts, and I pray that this will be a good thing for your son and your family.
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peasquared
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,674
Jul 6, 2014 23:59:59 GMT
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Post by peasquared on Feb 2, 2019 17:38:44 GMT
I can't imagine the anguish you have been through making this decision. I pray that Tuesday goes as smoothly as possible and that three months goes by quickly and productively. Take care, our dear pea friend! (((HUGS)))
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Post by kkrenn on Feb 2, 2019 17:45:08 GMT
Love, hugs, and prayers
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peabay
Prolific Pea
Posts: 9,885
Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Feb 2, 2019 17:49:00 GMT
Sending you, and everyone who is struggling with these issues, my very, very best.
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TheOtherMeg
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 2,541
Jun 25, 2014 20:58:14 GMT
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Post by TheOtherMeg on Feb 2, 2019 17:53:18 GMT
Sending you and your family strength and love and peace, Elaine.
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Post by gizzy on Feb 2, 2019 18:09:38 GMT
Sending you many hugs, much love and a prayer for strength as you go thru this. I know your mama heart has to be breaking.
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Post by NanaKate on Feb 2, 2019 18:13:02 GMT
Elaine, I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
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Post by KelleeM on Feb 2, 2019 20:01:50 GMT
It’s so difficult being a mom...huge hugs.
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valincal
Drama Llama
Southern Alberta
Posts: 5,765
Jun 27, 2014 2:21:22 GMT
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Post by valincal on Feb 2, 2019 20:10:04 GMT
Big hugs elaine. My heart hurts for you. Take care.
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Post by auntkelly on Feb 2, 2019 20:13:46 GMT
Thinking of you elaine I hope they figure out your son’s meds. I will say prayers.
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~Susan~
Pearl Clutcher
You need to check your boobs, mine tried to kill me!!!
Posts: 3,259
Jul 6, 2014 17:25:32 GMT
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Post by ~Susan~ on Feb 2, 2019 20:33:27 GMT
Oh elaine...I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else. I cannot imagine what you and your family are having to deal with. ((((hugs)))
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Post by jamieson on Feb 2, 2019 20:36:28 GMT
I'm not around much, but saw your post on the thread about the VA governor. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you and your family. I'm sending my love and hugs, and will keep you in my prayers.
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muggins
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 2,861
Jul 30, 2017 3:38:57 GMT
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Post by muggins on Feb 2, 2019 20:38:21 GMT
Hugs to you elaine. It must have been a very hard decision and we are all here to support you:)
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