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Post by gar on May 14, 2018 20:06:31 GMT
Not something that’s ever been done within the royal family, never mind the C of E.
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Post by papersilly on May 14, 2018 20:09:19 GMT
I think he was quietly encouraged not to attend so this doesn't cause a further distraction.
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2018 20:11:14 GMT
Not something that’s ever been done within the royal family, never mind the C of E. If her father was deceased, who would walk her down the aisle? Just curious.
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Post by used2scrap on May 14, 2018 20:13:55 GMT
Not something that’s ever been done within the royal family, never mind the C of E. If her father was deceased, who would walk her down the aisle? Just curious. Probably an uncle or god parent? I thought they did say it was going to be a break in protocol for her mother to accompany her to the ceremony (before all this), but her father was still supposed to walk her down the aisle.
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Post by birdgate on May 14, 2018 20:15:07 GMT
The trashy step sister admitted to encouraging the fake photo shoot. I bet she's the instigator behind all of this. Her dad looks like a depressed alcoholic hiding out in Mexico. I've heard rumors of her mom walking her down the aisle months ago...
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Post by used2scrap on May 14, 2018 20:16:31 GMT
I was surprised when I read that he was going to be in attendance and walking her down the aisle, given that I had seen many articles stating that she didn't have a relationship with him. Why would you want that?? It’s not that unusual for people in even the most toxic family situations to still want and hope for the social norm of the picture perfect day. Or she probably thought him not being there would be a bigger deal then him just showing up to walk her down and keep his mouth shut.
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Post by littlemama on May 14, 2018 20:20:07 GMT
I was surprised when I read that he was going to be in attendance and walking her down the aisle, given that I had seen many articles stating that she didn't have a relationship with him. Why would you want that?? It’s not that unusual for people in even the most toxic family situations to still want and hope for the social norm of the picture perfect day. Or she probably thought him not being there would be a bigger deal then him just showing up to walk her down and keep his mouth shut. And I still don't understand why people do that to themselves. Of course, DH was pressured by his mother into having his brother serve as best man and he subsequently gave a toast that was a total embarrassment to both DH and me. Based on later events, dh wishes he had stuck to his guns,
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Post by Rhondito on May 14, 2018 20:20:26 GMT
I've read comments on some of the articles where people are saying perhaps Charles or William will walk her down the aisle. I really don't think that will happen. I think he was quietly encouraged not to attend so this doesn't cause a further distraction. That's what I'm beginning to think.
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Post by marimoose on May 14, 2018 20:25:39 GMT
It may not be any fault of her nor should it reflect poorly on her as she has done nothing wrong but the reality is it will because of social media loving to tear someone down. She is an American marrying British royalty which brings an even bigger spotlight to her wedding. At the end of the day she is simply a young woman, a human with feelings lots of extra pressure due to the wedding in general and now has to shoulder crap being thrown about her name. Who can't feel a bit of empathy for her? I think of my daughters and I find this heartbreaking. She is strong and will survive, I am sure with a smile on her face, but the memory of what happened days before will always cast a dark shadow on some of her memories. How could it not.
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Post by txdancermom on May 14, 2018 20:36:06 GMT
It does seem as if the Middletons got a lot more guidance and hand-holding through the royal maze. I am going to guess that the Middletons being British, had a much better idea of what might be expected than an American, but it does seem like as "proper" all things are related to the royals, that they would have had someone talk to her family members about the protocol.
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Post by mallie on May 14, 2018 20:48:48 GMT
It does seem as if the Middletons got a lot more guidance and hand-holding through the royal maze. I am going to guess that the Middletons being British, had a much better idea of what might be expected than an American, but it does seem like as "proper" all things are related to the royals, that they would have had someone talk to her family members about the protocol. My guess is that they have been given the manual, but chose to ignore it for any number of reasons.
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Post by peasapie on May 14, 2018 20:50:21 GMT
It does seem as if the Middletons got a lot more guidance and hand-holding through the royal maze. I am going to guess that the Middletons being British, had a much better idea of what might be expected than an American, but it does seem like as "proper" all things are related to the royals, that they would have had someone talk to her family members about the protocol. I agree with you. I don't know if her family was open to that or not, but it would have been nice for them to have had someone available to guide them once the engagement was announced. This must be a terribly stressful time for all of them. Maybe the queen will step in and guide Megan's dad on how to smooth things over and get on with it. Or maybe I'm watching too many episodes of The Crown and just writing my own script.
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2018 21:03:15 GMT
But I don't see what's so terribly embarrassing for her about any of this. People will use this as more evidence against her "Look, she's a trashy American. Look at what her family is doing! This is what she comes from. We all knew!" What people? That's not a sentiment I've heard from anyone.
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Post by Heathen on May 14, 2018 21:04:34 GMT
People will use this as more evidence against her "Look, she's a trashy American. Look at what her family is doing! This is what she comes from. We all knew!" What people? That's not a sentiment I've heard from anyone. American bigots.
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Post by used2scrap on May 14, 2018 21:05:36 GMT
It’s not that unusual for people in even the most toxic family situations to still want and hope for the social norm of the picture perfect day. Or she probably thought him not being there would be a bigger deal then him just showing up to walk her down and keep his mouth shut. And I still don't understand why people do that to themselves. Of course, DH was pressured by his mother into having his brother serve as best man and he subsequently gave a toast that was a total embarrassment to both DH and me. Based on later events, dh wishes he had stuck to his guns, I think it’s a pretty subconscious level honestly.
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Post by hannahruth on May 14, 2018 21:10:37 GMT
British peas. Would it be acceptable in the Church of England for her mother to walk her down the aisle? Aussie pea here - yes it is acceptable - well it was when I was married 46 years ago and my mother walked me down the aisle back then.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on May 14, 2018 21:13:38 GMT
From what I read, her half sister was behind the photo op. It seems, the half sister been trying to capitalize on her 10 minutes of fame, based on her association with Miss Markle, since the relationship with Prince Harry became public.
Miss Markle and her half-siblings are not close, nor have they been a part of her life. Neither are invited to wedding.
A distant relative, has no reflection on ones personal character.
I learned long ago, to not judge someone by their association (or lack thereof) with someone, especially family.
One can't choose birth family, you get what you get via lineage. Just because one is related to someone, doesn't not mean you have a relationship with the said relative/individual.
I for one, keep my distance from several relatives related by birth or marriage. Their actions, character, way they conduct themselves, etc...in no way represent who I am. The same should hold true for Miss Markle.
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Post by scrapngranny on May 14, 2018 21:17:38 GMT
She has no control over what members of her family do. Somewhere I read her mother may walk her down the isle. I would rather see her walk alone as an independent woman.
I hope their wedding day is a very happy day for both of them. I’m happy for them and plan on watching.
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Post by 950nancy on May 14, 2018 21:19:22 GMT
I read that her mom had talked about walking her down the aisle. Hmmm. Read it last week somewhere. I didn't give it much thought though as the source didn't look too reliable.
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Post by AnotherPea on May 14, 2018 21:24:44 GMT
I am going to guess that the Middletons being British, had a much better idea of what might be expected than an American, but it does seem like as "proper" all things are related to the royals, that they would have had someone talk to her family members about the protocol. My guess is that they have been given the manual, but chose to ignore it for any number of reasons. I would too.
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Post by Zee on May 14, 2018 21:31:49 GMT
But I don't see what's so terribly embarrassing for her about any of this. People will use this as more evidence against her "Look, she's a trashy American. Look at what her family is doing! This is what she comes from. We all knew!" Isn't she Canadian? ETA sorry, I guess she is American. Google is my friend!
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Post by scrappinmama on May 14, 2018 21:35:50 GMT
As someone who comes from a very toxic family, she has my sympathies. I hope she has a lovely wedding and happy married life.
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Post by used2scrap on May 14, 2018 21:54:08 GMT
On the other other hand, maybe she really wanted him there, and he is ruining it for her. Sad.
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Post by QueenoftheSloths on May 14, 2018 23:18:47 GMT
People will use this as more evidence against her "Look, she's a trashy American. Look at what her family is doing! This is what she comes from. We all knew!" What people? That's not a sentiment I've heard from anyone. I read about her receiving threatening letters and a lot of unflattering press. Harry actually released a statement to the press about it. www.royal.uk/statement-communications-secretary-prince-harry
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Post by likescarrots on May 15, 2018 0:56:05 GMT
It may not be any fault of her nor should it reflect poorly on her as she has done nothing wrong but the reality is it will because of social media loving to tear someone down. She is an American marrying British royalty which brings an even bigger spotlight to her wedding. At the end of the day she is simply a young woman, a human with feelings lots of extra pressure due to the wedding in general and now has to shoulder crap being thrown about her name. Who can't feel a bit of empathy for her? I think of my daughters and I find this heartbreaking. She is strong and will survive, I am sure with a smile on her face, but the memory of what happened days before will always cast a dark shadow on some of her memories. How could it not. She's 36 years old and has already been married once, hardly a 'young woman'.
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Post by marimoose on May 15, 2018 1:45:10 GMT
It may not be any fault of her nor should it reflect poorly on her as she has done nothing wrong but the reality is it will because of social media loving to tear someone down. She is an American marrying British royalty which brings an even bigger spotlight to her wedding. At the end of the day she is simply a young woman, a human with feelings lots of extra pressure due to the wedding in general and now has to shoulder crap being thrown about her name. Who can't feel a bit of empathy for her? I think of my daughters and I find this heartbreaking. She is strong and will survive, I am sure with a smile on her face, but the memory of what happened days before will always cast a dark shadow on some of her memories. How could it not. She's 36 years old and has already been married once, hardly a 'young woman'. Well in terms of average life expectancy, she is a young woman and she is younger than me so..... She is also a bride and I don't care personally if it a first or second or more. People do make regrettable choices and all you can do is move forward and hope you don't repeat them. It should be a happy day for her with wonderful memories. Your comment sounds very judgmental and what i expect she will receive more of even if it is just about her family.
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Post by Delta Dawn on May 15, 2018 3:08:20 GMT
I saw an article on Facebook that said "Meet Megan Markle's momma." Who the fuck writes that about a future princess. That is so racist I almost puked. This was a US site like Access Hollywood. That would be Megan Markle's mother ______ ________. I almost spat on the screen I was so livid.
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Post by Chips on May 15, 2018 3:08:31 GMT
I feel like Maghan has worked very hard to make it in Hollywood. From what I have read her home life sounds challenging and that she was not "privileged" with money and connections. I was surprised that she she went to Northwestern University since that is an elite school but she must of worked hard to get in.
Imho Maghan has done the work to get where she is and took her own path and it sound like her father went on his own path too. While I am not getting the impression one or the other about her relationship with her Dad it seems like they just lived different paths. He isolated himself in Mexico and she a famous actress.
I understand completely understand why she wanted her Dad to walk her down the aisle. The Dad though was so far removed from her life that he was not ready for all the parasites who were going to influence him negatively. He needed his own pr team to guide him through this process and if he wants any relationship with the couple he'll certainly need guidance.
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Post by likescarrots on May 15, 2018 3:45:43 GMT
She's 36 years old and has already been married once, hardly a 'young woman'. Well in terms of average life expectancy, she is a young woman and she is younger than me so..... She is also a bride and I don't care personally if it a first or second or more. People do make regrettable choices and all you can do is move forward and hope you don't repeat them. It should be a happy day for her with wonderful memories. Your comment sounds very judgmental and what i expect she will receive more of even if it is just about her family. it's the opposite of judgemental. As a 38 year old woman who looks a lot younger and is treated as such, I'm saying it's offensive to be called a young woman when you're in your mid-to-late 30s and have plenty of life experience.
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Post by mlynn on May 15, 2018 3:49:33 GMT
I am amazed at the number of people who are saying he should have hired a pr firm. I would think that a great many people do not have the means to do that.
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