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Post by Deleted on Apr 2, 2021 21:35:16 GMT
You can be a jerk of any color or creed. You're behaving like a jerk and I see why you have so many issues on here. The two being hateful jerks right now are you and mama of dudes. Racism and society’s role in it is uncomfortable. It should make people uncomfortable. I appreciate the posting of peas of color including Olan - it makes me continuously reasses myself and my own actions and where I fall short and where maybe I get some things right. As an aside, I’m never sure which terms I should use whether it be people of color or some other term so feel free to correct me if I’m using inappropriate terms. Ugh. Just leave me out of it. I'm so done with this thread. I'm not racist at all, and so when Olan drug me into it and claimed that my previous comment wouldn't have been said to a white woman, it set me off. I don't agree with that at all; and it pissed me off. I swore, yes, I get it. I didnt mean to be hateful, and I'm sorry for my comments. But enough. I've made one "hateful" comment in my time here at 2 peas. If that constitutes me being labeled as a racist or hateful, I will gladly leave. I don't need any crap on my life. I have enough on my plate, and if a bunch of unknown women on the internet don't like me, I'll delete my profile and move on. |
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:10:37 GMT
“Ugh. Just leave me out of it. I'm so done with this thread. I'm not racist at all, and so when Olan drug me into it and claimed that my previous comment wouldn't have been said to a white woman, it set me off. I don't agree with that at all; and it pissed me off. I swore, yes, I get it. I didnt mean to be hateful, and I'm sorry for my comments. But enough. I've made one "hateful" comment in my time here at 2 peas. If that constitutes me being labeled as a racist or hateful, I will gladly leave. I don't need any crap on my life. I have enough on my plate, and if a bunch of unknown women on the internet don't like me, I'll delete my profile and move on.“
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:12:59 GMT
Jesus Olan, your rambling makes you seem like you're on drugs or drunk. I don't even know what the hell you just said. Just a bunch of random gibberish trying to convince everyone that you're not trying to cause drama. Ugh. This was a really rough time for me as far as mental health goes. I had a really bad work environment in addition to everything Black people were experiencing as far as racial violence goes. I was likely high at the time of this “rambling”. I’ll remind everyone how trendy it is for white women to talk openly about their cannabis usage so it would be in pretty poor taste to damn me for it. I wouldn’t care if you did. Cannabis helps with not giving a fuck about what anyone thinks of you. Especially people YOU don’t think highly of. 😏 no pun Where do I call you a racist? Where do I say what you’ve claimed? Please find a corner and sit in it. |
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:20:48 GMT
Someone is mad about how they will be seen.👀Guilt and shame are interesting feelings to work through but don’t put words in my mouth. Zella did too. It’s like you are piggybacking through what I did say was super clear.
Listen make a comment and stand on it or 🤐
If you can not stand behind the words that you say here that sounds like a very personal problem no? I couldn’t give a damn who stayed or who left so don’t feel ran off on my behalf love. I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted.
And while I don’t care who stays or who goes. I do care about people standing by the shit that they felt comfortable saying. Such a shit quality in a woman to be more concerned with how she will be seen than her actual character. But eh what do I know about being a solid woman 🤪
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Post by sabrinae on Apr 2, 2021 22:38:33 GMT
The two being hateful jerks right now are you and mama of dudes. Racism and society’s role in it is uncomfortable. It should make people uncomfortable. I appreciate the posting of peas of color including Olan - it makes me continuously reasses myself and my own actions and where I fall short and where maybe I get some things right. As an aside, I’m never sure which terms I should use whether it be people of color or some other term so feel free to correct me if I’m using inappropriate terms. Ugh. Just leave me out of it. I'm so done with this thread. I'm not racist at all, and so when Olan drug me into it and claimed that my previous comment wouldn't have been said to a white woman, it set me off. I don't agree with that at all; and it pissed me off. I swore, yes, I get it. I didnt mean to be hateful, and I'm sorry for my comments. But enough. I've made one "hateful" comment in my time here at 2 peas. If that constitutes me being labeled as a racist or hateful, I will gladly leave. I don't need any crap on my life. I have enough on my plate, and if a bunch of unknown women on the internet don't like me, I'll delete my profile and move on. I didn’t call you racist. You seem to be ascribing things I didn’t say. I spoke about why I’m glad peas of color post. I didn’t say you had to believe the same things. I did say you were rude and hateful — I stand by that your comments were rude and hateful. I can’t make you feel any way as that’s up to you and your actions |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2021 0:01:41 GMT
Someone is mad about how they will be seen.👀Guilt and shame are interesting feelings to work through but don’t put words in my mouth. Zella did too. It’s like you are piggybacking through what I did say was super clear. Listen make a comment and stand on it or 🤐 If you can not stand behind the words that you say here that sounds like a very personal problem no? I couldn’t give a damn who stayed or who left so don’t feel ran off on my behalf love. I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted. And while I don’t care who stays or who goes. I do care about people standing by the shit that they felt comfortable saying. Such a shit quality in a woman to be more concerned with how she will be seen than her actual character. But eh what do I know about being a solid woman 🤪 Olan, I'm not exactly sure what is aimed at me in this post. I never said anything about not trusting you or anyone else. I honestly don't understand half of what you post. I also don't know how my last post made you think that I care more about how I'm seen than my actual character. You have a way of undermining someone while simultaneously building yourself up, and then making it seem like the other person is racist because of it. Believe me, nothing I say is because of the color of your skin. Things like your comment "I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted." are what makes me not like you. That comment comes off like I someone am saying you aren't to be trusted, and that's nowhere near anything I said. You want me to go sit in a corner and shut up. But holy shit, if I said that to you, you'd be labeling me a racist and tagging me in every single one of your posts for the next 5 years. I have never once on this board said anything that you can take as a racist comment. My problem with you isn't that you're trying to teach us about racism and what we can do. My problem is that rather than accept any of us white women as allies, you try to twist and turn everything everything make it seem like its against you or other poc. I'm sorry I called you names and swore at you. I did it out of frustration and anger, but in no means was it because of the color of your skin. Im not apologizing because I care about how you or anyone else on this board thinks of me, but because I lashed out in anger and I shouldn't have. I wish I had never engaged you. I can't imagine you'll ever let it go. So I will. |
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Post by Olan on Apr 3, 2021 0:57:42 GMT
Someone is mad about how they will be seen.👀Guilt and shame are interesting feelings to work through but don’t put words in my mouth. Zella did too. It’s like you are piggybacking through what I did say was super clear. Listen make a comment and stand on it or 🤐 If you can not stand behind the words that you say here that sounds like a very personal problem no? I couldn’t give a damn who stayed or who left so don’t feel ran off on my behalf love. I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted. And while I don’t care who stays or who goes. I do care about people standing by the shit that they felt comfortable saying. Such a shit quality in a woman to be more concerned with how she will be seen than her actual character. But eh what do I know about being a solid woman 🤪 Olan, I'm not exactly sure what is aimed at me in this post. I never said anything about not trusting you or anyone else. I honestly don't understand half of what you post. I also don't know how my last post made you think that I care more about how I'm seen than my actual character. You have a way of undermining someone while simultaneously building yourself up, and then making it seem like the other person is racist because of it. Believe me, nothing I say is because of the color of your skin. Things like your comment "I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted." are what makes me not like you. That comment comes off like I someone am saying you aren't to be trusted, and that's nowhere near anything I said. You want me to go sit in a corner and shut up. But holy shit, if I said that to you, you'd be labeling me a racist and tagging me in every single one of your posts for the next 5 years. I have never once on this board said anything that you can take as a racist comment. My problem with you isn't that you're trying to teach us about racism and what we can do. My problem is that rather than accept any of us white women as allies, you try to twist and turn everything everything make it seem like its against you or other poc. I'm sorry I called you names and swore at you. I did it out of frustration and anger, but in no means was it because of the color of your skin. Im not apologizing because I care about how you or anyone else on this board thinks of me, but because I lashed out in anger and I shouldn't have. I wish I had never engaged you. I can't imagine you'll ever let it go. So I will. If you told me to sit in a corner and shut up you wouldn’t be labeled a racist you’ve said much worse to me (as quoted) and no one said anything to you. I didn’t even label you a racist. You still haven’t pointed out THE TEXT that supports what you claim so I’m going to leave you to this. Anyone working on being anti-racist see again the misdirected anger. How the hell are you angry and frustrated at me when I am the one experiencing racism? Like ask yourself that? It’s so self centered. And I can’t undermine you all while building myself up. Your words represent you and my words represent me. Only you have a problem being quoted. You are right about one thing though. You lashed out in anger and it had everything to do with the fact that I am a Black woman talking about race because that’s all I was/am doing. I don’t participate in any other way. Point to another reason. Use the quote feature. What else was present in these threads? I don’t have to twist and turn anything this is literally a thread calling me a royal bitch and there are plenty of other threads that went down a similar path. Most in direct disagreement with me so much so they made it personal. What is there to twist it’s a message board and I love bumping old threads right? What exactly did I twist? Point out even one single instance! You are just big mad because what I was screaming about turned out to be this thing no one can ignore anymore. I was right. Period. Nothing about what you’ve said then or now speaks allyship. So why would I accept it as that? You don’t get to decide what I’ve declined but to be clear it wasn’t community, concern, empathy, allyship, anyone rallying around me etc. and I didn’t start out swinging. |
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Post by Olan on Apr 3, 2021 1:30:21 GMT
“I can't imagine you'll ever let it go. So I will.”
I’m a coward and couldn’t start out with sorry I called you a babbling fool when you were really a hurting Black woman so I’ll just forgive myself.
Man if my ancestors didn’t experience it already I wouldn’t believe the audacity you come to the table with.
A clue allyship isn’t wrapped in insults. Apologies don’t have to be accepted. Even genuine ones.
“Did you really just quote something I said 4 years ago to try to prove me racist? Whatever. Fuck off Olan. You're a drama filled bitch and your continued bumping of old threads does nothing except show how you love to stir the pot. So kiss my ass and leave me out of your future drama.
Oh, also; one last fuck you for good measure.”
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