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Post by Merge on Aug 20, 2024 0:27:25 GMT
These days I read almost exclusively Regency-era romance. I am picky. There are a lot of really bad writers in this genre and I flatter myself that I find the good ones, haha. I don't care if it's steamy or not as long as the prose is good, the characters are interesting, and the plot is enjoyable. Lately I've been reading mystery-romances from this era and have come across some really good ones.
Anyway. I should probably be ashamed. I had a minor in English Lit. in college. But I just can't bring myself to care.
I should also add - I do other activities that challenge me mentally and physically. Reading time is relaxation time.
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Post by Merge on Aug 19, 2024 18:42:29 GMT
Ugh, we will be dealing with this in the next few years. MIL lives independently in a small town in Montana, where she chose to move after living close to either us or BIL for years. We can't get up there frequently and certainly not quickly in case of emergency. IDK what will happen but at some point it's going to be a problem. She has frequent falls and has broken multiple bones because she refuses to use her cane or walker as needed.
Anyway. I do know that you can't force a mentally competent person to move no matter how much you know it's for the best.
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Post by Merge on Aug 19, 2024 18:08:11 GMT
My guess is that their pricing is "dynamic" based on how much they think you can afford.
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Post by Merge on Aug 19, 2024 18:03:25 GMT
I copycatted this from SweetGreen's miso salmon bowl. No real recipe except for the dressing. Also works fine with chicken or pork. Cooked rice Some grilled or baked salmon, seasoned with salt, pepper and a rub of the dressing below Thinly sliced cucumber Sliced ripe avocado Assemble in a bowl and add: Sprinkle of sesame seeds Sprinkle of french fried onions And drizzle with this miso dressing cookingwithayeh.com/miso-dressing/#recipe
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Post by Merge on Aug 19, 2024 17:14:02 GMT
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Post by Merge on Aug 18, 2024 21:00:34 GMT
I did see him. A runza is bread dough stuffed with seasoned ground beef, onion, and cabbage. It is a local fast food restaurant. It is the one place Nebraskans will tell anyone from out of state to eat. They sell Runzas at Husker football games and we try to get the visitors to try them. We are flying to Omaha to get to central/western Iowa in September for a family wedding. I found a Runza nearby for us to stop at before/after the airport. Any other recommendations? Haven’t lived there in years, but Little King subs was a family favorite.
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Post by Merge on Aug 18, 2024 15:50:04 GMT
Also: every state has its issues. Yes, red states like Texas are pretty f'd up right now. But you blue state snobs who look down on everyone else should take care of your own issues before you start criticizing where other people live. Most can't afford to move. As someone from a Blue State my problem with Red states are with the voters who have turned these states red and have kept them red by supporting that piece of shit below and the rest of the Republicans in office. I just don’t get it. In 2020 trump got over 74 million votes after 4 years of hell. The biggie being him mishandling of the pandemic. Every time he talks about it I wonder how many Americans would be alive today if had been true leader during the pandemic. And since then he was convicted of 30+ charges, has been found to have sexually assaulted a woman, has 3 additional pending indictments, keeps claiming the 2020 election was stolen but offers no verifiable proof etc etc etc. And in spite all of this he’s above 40% in the polls. So yeah, my problem in the red stares is with the voters who continue to vote red. One really has to question their judgement. “Donald Trump gave a speech in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania and did the following: 1. He said he is a “better looking person than Kamala.” 2. He said he “loves the playback controls that exist nowadays” and “TiVo is the best invention.” 3. He said VP Harris “laughs like a lunatic” and therefore “she is prohibited from laughing.” 4. He said Time Magazine didn’t take a good photo of VP Harris so they needed a sketch artist. This makes him upset. 5. He is upset now that VP Harris looked like Sophia Loren or Elizabeth Taylor on the Time Magazine cover. 6. He said “they say I ramble. But I don’t ramble. I’m a really smart guy.” 7. He said “Biden hates Kamala. He hates her.” 8. He said he should be paid $100 million for Biden being replaced by VP Harris. 9. He randomly said “Barack Hussein Obama.” 10. He said climate change is good because it will give us more beachfront property. 11. He said our country “ will die.” 12. He said he hopes we “enjoy” an economic depression. Here are the receipts youtu.be/LbIq0uzfdPM?si…” There are Republican voters in California. They gave us Ronald Reagan in 1980 and started this whole shitshow. My issue with blue state snobbery is that first, Texas went red in the mid 90s, when it wasn't such an overtly bad thing to be. What's happened since then is sort of a frog being put in cold water then slowly boiled to death thing. The shift to Republican tyranny through gerrymandering and voter suppression, and now Trump cultism, was slow and not noticeable to most. By the time we were in real trouble, it was too late. Where I get mad is when blue-staters act like their states are problem-free utopias (I've visited most of them - they're not) or that Democrats in Texas are to blame for their own oppression, either because we stay here or because we can't magically undo the decades of careful incremental power grabs by Republicans and take our state back. We hear "vote harder" but your Democratic reps federal level can't seem to pass voting rights legislation to protect our right to vote and have it count. We hear "just leave" but any rational person knows that most people can't just up and move. Most blue states are either not places with tons of jobs (New Mexico) or have an insanely high cost of living in the areas where there are jobs. And the blue state Democrats often help keep their cost of living high with NIMBY laws that protect generational real estate wealth and prevent the building of affordable housing! It seems they don't really want red-staters to be able to move there; they just want to flog us for staying where we are. Anyway. That's all I mean by blue state snobbery. For those to whom that doesn't apply, carry on.
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Post by Merge on Aug 18, 2024 15:27:23 GMT
crazy4scraps Didn't Tx Gov Abbott get rid of all the rapists, as promised? Too busy wasting our tax dollars on his political stunt at the border.
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Post by Merge on Aug 18, 2024 15:21:49 GMT
We have one over Memorial Drive in Houston. I had to search for photos of that. Cool bridge! It is. It's part of a huge improvement in Memorial Park (roughly in central Houston). We have a beautiful area called the Eastern Glades to enjoy, with shaded paths through the trees, in addition to miles of walking/running trails and a very nice arboretum.
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Post by Merge on Aug 17, 2024 22:04:33 GMT
We have one over Memorial Drive in Houston.
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Post by Merge on Aug 16, 2024 22:32:59 GMT
I'm not an economist... but I think the deferral of student loan payments for extra years after the pandemic wasn't helpful in reining in inflation. Trump started it as a response to the massive job losses during the pandemic, and Biden kept it going because it was politically popular. The alternative would have been for millions of people to default on their loans, I guess. Not sure that would have been good for the economy, either. Destroy your credit and reduce your ability to do things like buy a house or a car in the future.
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Post by Merge on Aug 16, 2024 21:50:12 GMT
This is the kind of stuff Kamala Harris wants to prevent. Price fixing by conglomerates with a huge market share. Not to institute Venezuelan style price controls.
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Post by Merge on Aug 16, 2024 20:30:11 GMT
I do not miss being evaluated by a tool created for someone else in a very different job.
I always made up the most ridiculous crap and peppered it with edu-babble. Do whatever you have to do to get it signed off.
Just another way they strip teachers of professional dignity.
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Post by Merge on Aug 16, 2024 16:04:33 GMT
I have those, too. Love them!
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Post by Merge on Aug 16, 2024 16:03:31 GMT
Inexpensive and non-trendy but these Skechers sandals are so comfortable I have them in two colors. I’ve walked miles and miles in them with no issues. a.co/d/3Tda5MTThank you. I can get this style in Australia. My feet love Skechers. Are these these really sparkly? Unfortunately, I can't get the other Skechers ones here, nor the Chacos. No, it's more of a subtle sheen than a sparkle.
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Post by Merge on Aug 16, 2024 12:11:29 GMT
Inexpensive and non-trendy but these Skechers sandals are so comfortable I have them in two colors. I’ve walked miles and miles in them with no issues. a.co/d/3Tda5MT
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 23:57:07 GMT
The past two administrations had unprecedented situations to deal with. First, the pandemic shut down the economy, then the non-surgical stimulus payments overheated the economy. With more money in the system, prices went up. That made the Fed and the Biden administration have to reel it back in, hurting home sales because of higher interest rates. Second was the war in Ukraine and the decision to stop importing Russian oil. It was the right decision, but we paid the price at the pumps for doing the right thing. The Keystone pipeline and the global warming initiatives took a toll, too. The president doesn't usually have as much of an effect on day to day prices. I'm for Harris and I'm looking forward to seeing her economic plan. She talks about doing some things that look good to the voters but could end up having unintended consequences for people at the lowest rung. When we spend above our means, we have to borrow and that devalues our currency. We're paying a large part of our GDP for debt service which concerns me. My career was as a financial writer and I still keep an eye on this stuff. I agree with most of what you said. However, one correction. Cancelling the permits for the Keystone pipeline did not increase the price of gas. The pipeline wasn't even built when the permits were cancelled. Even if it had been built, the amount that it could carry was minuscule compared to global supply. The war in Ukraine and the reduced supply of oil during the pandemic had the biggest impact on the price of gas. Ending subsidies for fossil fuel companies and stopping drilling on public lands may have had a small impact on prices, but they were probably offset by the Biden administration releasing oil from the reserve. apnews.com/article/fact-checking-895299166310Not to mention the fact that it was meant to carry oil from Canada, and wouldn't have done crap for moving the US toward energy independence.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 23:52:36 GMT
Also: every state has its issues. Yes, red states like Texas are pretty f'd up right now. But you blue state snobs who look down on everyone else should take care of your own issues before you start criticizing where other people live.
Most can't afford to move.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 23:48:49 GMT
Sometimes I wonder what kind of alternate reality we're living in. There have been changes in favor of religion that I never thought would happen in my lifetime. All of these steps towards a Christian theocracy are alarming. Especially in light of the declining number of people participating in organized religion. This ultra right conservative Supreme court seems willing to expand religious rights and side with religious entities over anyone else. They're willing to carve out exceptions for birth control mandates and covid restrictions, and allow adoption agencies to discriminate against gay parents. Conservative justices sided with a football coach who prayed before a game. Conservative justices allowed Maine tax dollars to go to religious schools. The ultra conservative court is endorsing Christian nationalism and prioritizing the freedom of religion while ignoring the separation of church and state. Pretty soon, the separation will be non-existent. The intrusion of religion into schools is really concerning, too. In Louisiana, schools are required to post the 10 commandments. The Oklahoma Superintendent of schools declared that teachers must incorporate the Christian bible into teaching. Also in Oklahoma, they tried to set up a religious charter school but it was struck down by the Oklahoma Supreme Court. Public schools should not be religious and religious schools should not be funded with public tax dollars. www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/oklahomas-top-education-official-orders-schools-to-incorporate-christian-bible-into-teaching“The Bible is an indispensable historical and cultural touchstone,” Walters said in a statement. “Without basic knowledge of it, Oklahoma students are unable to properly contextualize the foundation of our nation which is why Oklahoma educational standards provide for its instruction.”This guy makes a great argument against religion in schools. Public schools are not Sunday schools. x.com/jamestalarico/status/1823862348236632392Public schools are not Sunday schools
James Talarico @jamestalarico Texas Republicans are trying to teach Bible stories in public schools.
I told them: “Public schools are not Sunday schools.”Weird. I would be more inclined to say some study of the bible as literature, at the appropriate age, is necessary for understanding some of our great art and literature. Students also need to be familiar with Greek mythology for that reason. (Imagine the outrage if a school offered a course in "Christian mythology" instead of the bible. So many pearls would be clutched!) I don't think the bible necessary for understanding the founding of our country at all. That's just their bullshit. A good understanding of history - including religious absolutism and persecution - and Enlightenment philosophy is far more important.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 23:44:53 GMT
I'm pretty sure the purpose of this post-menopausal female will be to alternate time sitting on beaches and fighting the patriarchy. If I'm gifted with any grandchildren, my relationship with them will be doting grandmother, not full-time caregiver. And some of us had our kid(s) later in life and are still in the process of raising them, well into the menopause years. And then they're mad at you because you weren't cranking them out at 22, am I right?
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 20:23:23 GMT
"That's the whole purpose of the post-menopausal female," Eric Weinstein, host of “The Portal,” said. Vance replied, "Yes." Me: "No, but this is." Slap! I'm pretty sure the purpose of this post-menopausal female will be to alternate time sitting on beaches and fighting the patriarchy. If I'm gifted with any grandchildren, my relationship with them will be doting grandmother, not full-time caregiver.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 20:21:50 GMT
I think the Trump campaign knew exactly what they were getting, and that he would appeal very much to that "basket of deplorables" part of the base Hillary talked about. Also remember they picked him before Biden stepped down. So I think they were that confident about their standing against Biden that they didn't have to worry about how he came off to those outside of MAGA. I know some people were really mad about the timing but I actually think it was the best thing. MAGA was completely thrown for a loop and still doesn't quite know what to do. Yes. Waiting until after the convention and then having Biden and the DNC come out with instant support for Kamala was inspired. Threw the Trump campaign into disarray and energized Democrats like crazy.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 19:43:03 GMT
It almost makes you wonder if someone in the Trump campaign didn't thoroughly research the guy. Or maybe they were naively hoping some of his statements wouldn't come to light? I listened to the one about his mother in law and there was a lot of word salad and misogyny. But, it almost sounded like he was talking about how caregiving is undervalued because family caregivers are generally not paid. I think the Trump campaign knew exactly what they were getting, and that he would appeal very much to that "basket of deplorables" part of the base Hillary talked about.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 19:42:20 GMT
I usually avoid commenting on political threads, but I can’t help myself. My ancestors came from many different countries, including Ireland and Germany. I wonder where his ancestors came from? Are his ancestors also immigrants from other countries? The sheer stupidity is incredible. My paternal great-grandfather was a Scottish immigrant who was a gangster in NYC. Organized crime up the wazoo. My mother's side came from England and France and they were basically subsistence farmers who relied heavily on government benefits during the depression and were just living in deep rural poverty the rest of the time. Alcoholism made some of them literal "bums." A burden on society in today's terms. Yet both sides' "greatest generation" members fought in WWII and they all produced dozens of descendants who are largely productive members of modern society - some exceptionally so. I often wonder why the millions of Americans whose immigrant ancestors have similar stories aren't able to see their own humble beginnings in the immigrants who arrive now. The American experiment doesn't continue without continuing influxes of immigrants.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 19:11:40 GMT
Oh how fun for you! Back to your roots. I seem to remember you liked that school really well?
I hope you have a great year! And no Covid!
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 17:59:30 GMT
1. I loathe Steven Covey all that self-help bullshit. Loathe it. A kind of secular prosperity gospel IMO.
2. I don't disagree that we make choices about how we react to things. It is true that we can only control ourselves, but also
3. This is exactly the kind of bullshit they tell teachers when they express a need for better working conditions. It's gaslighting, pure and simple. Because they don't actually mean you have a choice about how to react to things, up to and including leaving for someplace that treats you better. They want you to just stay and take more of their crap. Sometimes conditions ARE the thing holding you back.
So call them on their bullshit. Make a choice to work elsewhere. Our state-appointed superintendent spews nonsense like this and he's reaping the effects of what he's sowed this year - 43% of teachers left our district last year and lots of classrooms started this year with subs in them because the replacements he was counting on have not materialized. Lots more have uncertified, and in some cases non-degreed, "teachers" at the helm.
When you as a leader place the blame for low morale on a supposed group of malcontents, you're failing in part of your managerial responsibility. The buck always stops at the top.
People can make a choice to be happy somewhere else. That's what "leaders" like that don't want to tell you. Or they will tell you (the equivalent of "if you don't like it here, there's the door") but they're not really expecting many people to leave.
All you can control is you. Make a plan and leave. That's the only way these so-called leaders will learn.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 17:49:28 GMT
Thanks for all of the responses. I wish more people would be more savvy and curious regarding this issue, particularly when using it as a major reason you are voting for Trump. Low-information voters are a thing on both sides, unfortunately. People don't want to be political, don't want to take the time to be informed, and just keep voting the way they've always voted. The best we can do is to shift those who are willing to listen and learn.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 16:12:30 GMT
Look at the comments this would lead to shortages. There was a long write up why this would not turn out well. Multiple people said they tried this in Venezuela. While I understand wanting to prevent corporate greed I don’t see how this could actually work. I’m not an economist but it doesn’t sound like this is the way to do it. They said they were only going to do it on groceries, and only to prevent gouging (not to prevent profit). Not price controls as in Venezuela. As usual, the devil is in the details. And of course any plan the Democrats suggest that might be popular with voters is immediately painted as socialism by Republicans. Here's a more detailed description: www.politico.com/news/2024/08/14/harris-food-prices-economy-speech-00174112As it is now, a small group of meat producers are getting together and deciding what our meat will cost. They did not reduce those prices when the cost of doing business fell after the pandemic. That is price fixing by corporations, a form of gouging. That's what Harris wants to prevent. Another example is that when the price of crude goes down, we don't necessarily see a similar drop at the pump. Oil companies agree to keep consumer prices high even when costs go down, to maximize their profits. That's also what Harris wants to prevent.
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 2:47:08 GMT
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Post by Merge on Aug 15, 2024 0:33:02 GMT
It's been shown that what inflation remains in the US is mostly due to corporate greed as they rake in record profits. No president has control over that.
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