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Post by Olan on Apr 6, 2021 14:48:18 GMT
That teacher knew she was caught red handed. Shame on her. I wish every racist, especially those in authority over children, could be caught on video like this. There are a lot of racist and or biased women working in classrooms. And the really sick part about it is a lot of them claim to be allies and want to be seen as good women. Luckily for me racism in public school just looked like favoritism.
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Post by Olan on Apr 6, 2021 14:38:06 GMT
Thank you for sharing this. No problem!
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Post by Olan on Apr 3, 2021 14:32:13 GMT
And in breaking news, TRump is still an asshole. With an audience. 😒
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Post by Olan on Apr 3, 2021 1:30:21 GMT
“I can't imagine you'll ever let it go. So I will.”
I’m a coward and couldn’t start out with sorry I called you a babbling fool when you were really a hurting Black woman so I’ll just forgive myself.
Man if my ancestors didn’t experience it already I wouldn’t believe the audacity you come to the table with.
A clue allyship isn’t wrapped in insults. Apologies don’t have to be accepted. Even genuine ones.
“Did you really just quote something I said 4 years ago to try to prove me racist? Whatever. Fuck off Olan. You're a drama filled bitch and your continued bumping of old threads does nothing except show how you love to stir the pot. So kiss my ass and leave me out of your future drama.
Oh, also; one last fuck you for good measure.”
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Post by Olan on Apr 3, 2021 0:57:42 GMT
Someone is mad about how they will be seen.👀Guilt and shame are interesting feelings to work through but don’t put words in my mouth. Zella did too. It’s like you are piggybacking through what I did say was super clear. Listen make a comment and stand on it or 🤐 If you can not stand behind the words that you say here that sounds like a very personal problem no? I couldn’t give a damn who stayed or who left so don’t feel ran off on my behalf love. I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted. And while I don’t care who stays or who goes. I do care about people standing by the shit that they felt comfortable saying. Such a shit quality in a woman to be more concerned with how she will be seen than her actual character. But eh what do I know about being a solid woman 🤪 Olan, I'm not exactly sure what is aimed at me in this post. I never said anything about not trusting you or anyone else. I honestly don't understand half of what you post. I also don't know how my last post made you think that I care more about how I'm seen than my actual character. You have a way of undermining someone while simultaneously building yourself up, and then making it seem like the other person is racist because of it. Believe me, nothing I say is because of the color of your skin. Things like your comment "I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted." are what makes me not like you. That comment comes off like I someone am saying you aren't to be trusted, and that's nowhere near anything I said. You want me to go sit in a corner and shut up. But holy shit, if I said that to you, you'd be labeling me a racist and tagging me in every single one of your posts for the next 5 years. I have never once on this board said anything that you can take as a racist comment. My problem with you isn't that you're trying to teach us about racism and what we can do. My problem is that rather than accept any of us white women as allies, you try to twist and turn everything everything make it seem like its against you or other poc. I'm sorry I called you names and swore at you. I did it out of frustration and anger, but in no means was it because of the color of your skin. Im not apologizing because I care about how you or anyone else on this board thinks of me, but because I lashed out in anger and I shouldn't have. I wish I had never engaged you. I can't imagine you'll ever let it go. So I will. If you told me to sit in a corner and shut up you wouldn’t be labeled a racist you’ve said much worse to me (as quoted) and no one said anything to you. I didn’t even label you a racist. You still haven’t pointed out THE TEXT that supports what you claim so I’m going to leave you to this. Anyone working on being anti-racist see again the misdirected anger. How the hell are you angry and frustrated at me when I am the one experiencing racism? Like ask yourself that? It’s so self centered. And I can’t undermine you all while building myself up. Your words represent you and my words represent me. Only you have a problem being quoted. You are right about one thing though. You lashed out in anger and it had everything to do with the fact that I am a Black woman talking about race because that’s all I was/am doing. I don’t participate in any other way. Point to another reason. Use the quote feature. What else was present in these threads? I don’t have to twist and turn anything this is literally a thread calling me a royal bitch and there are plenty of other threads that went down a similar path. Most in direct disagreement with me so much so they made it personal. What is there to twist it’s a message board and I love bumping old threads right? What exactly did I twist? Point out even one single instance! You are just big mad because what I was screaming about turned out to be this thing no one can ignore anymore. I was right. Period. Nothing about what you’ve said then or now speaks allyship. So why would I accept it as that? You don’t get to decide what I’ve declined but to be clear it wasn’t community, concern, empathy, allyship, anyone rallying around me etc. and I didn’t start out swinging.
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:42:33 GMT
PeachStatePea is what happens when no one wants to acknowledge what happened to Black voters in years past. So when it happens AGAIN no one can recognize it as MUCH OF THE SAME. Anyone defending Georgia voting laws and saying its not a cut and dry issue of good and evil doesn’t know what the hell they are talking about. They certainly don’t have a good grasp on what good and evil actually is. Unchecked racism and masking America’s history fucking everything up again.
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:20:48 GMT
Someone is mad about how they will be seen.👀Guilt and shame are interesting feelings to work through but don’t put words in my mouth. Zella did too. It’s like you are piggybacking through what I did say was super clear.
Listen make a comment and stand on it or 🤐
If you can not stand behind the words that you say here that sounds like a very personal problem no? I couldn’t give a damn who stayed or who left so don’t feel ran off on my behalf love. I think we are getting confused about who turned into this outsider who couldn’t be trusted.
And while I don’t care who stays or who goes. I do care about people standing by the shit that they felt comfortable saying. Such a shit quality in a woman to be more concerned with how she will be seen than her actual character. But eh what do I know about being a solid woman 🤪
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:12:59 GMT
Jesus Olan, your rambling makes you seem like you're on drugs or drunk. I don't even know what the hell you just said. Just a bunch of random gibberish trying to convince everyone that you're not trying to cause drama. Ugh. This was a really rough time for me as far as mental health goes. I had a really bad work environment in addition to everything Black people were experiencing as far as racial violence goes. I was likely high at the time of this “rambling”. I’ll remind everyone how trendy it is for white women to talk openly about their cannabis usage so it would be in pretty poor taste to damn me for it. I wouldn’t care if you did. Cannabis helps with not giving a fuck about what anyone thinks of you. Especially people YOU don’t think highly of. 😏 no pun Where do I call you a racist? Where do I say what you’ve claimed? Please find a corner and sit in it.
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Post by Olan on Apr 2, 2021 22:10:37 GMT
“Ugh. Just leave me out of it. I'm so done with this thread. I'm not racist at all, and so when Olan drug me into it and claimed that my previous comment wouldn't have been said to a white woman, it set me off. I don't agree with that at all; and it pissed me off. I swore, yes, I get it. I didnt mean to be hateful, and I'm sorry for my comments. But enough. I've made one "hateful" comment in my time here at 2 peas. If that constitutes me being labeled as a racist or hateful, I will gladly leave. I don't need any crap on my life. I have enough on my plate, and if a bunch of unknown women on the internet don't like me, I'll delete my profile and move on.“
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Post by Olan on Mar 31, 2021 17:50:52 GMT
Standing idle while someone else needs help and in fear of their life is something I will never understand.
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Post by Olan on Mar 31, 2021 17:31:29 GMT
And then we were comfortable with the police discharging a weapon in a car that held a woman and small child. So yeah natural progression is what I’m seeing in George Floyd’s case what about everyone else?
The Philando Castile was recently bumped and I’m sure everyone saw how far removed from the tragedy most of the conversation was. Hearing Diamond and her daughter didn’t pull any pea heart strings. America’s either because how many died at the hands of police after him? No legislative changes. No white led protests. No stop anti-black hate ads. 🤷🏾♀️That’s why I say we are comfortable with Black suffering.
I still believe the reason Philando Castile got a license to carry was to protect the school he worked at. No ones mind could go there because cannabis use means you are a horrible person. It’s legal and white people make a ton of money from it but when Black people use it, that automatically makes them criminal and kill worthy. No one feels that way about white women and prescription drugs. Or white men and meth/heroin.
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Post by Olan on Mar 31, 2021 14:53:24 GMT
You can be a jerk of any color or creed. You're behaving like a jerk and I see why you have so many issues on here. Describe the way in which I’m behaving like a jerk? What issues do I have outside of the same ones that exist offline. White people wanting to ignore racism and their culpability in it isn’t new and isn’t MY issue by the way.
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Post by Olan on Mar 31, 2021 13:56:39 GMT
So ALL cops should be targeted?? Just for the record I don't think what DC did was right but it would have never happened if GF would have stayed in the car! Are you seriously implying that it’s acceptable for there to be FATAL consequences for getting out of a police car without permission? Please tell me you’re not. Because that consequence is horribly out of proportion to what he did wrong..... It’s just like decades past. Regardless of presumed innocence or punishment matching the “crime” most people are perfectly fine with death being the consequence for Black citizens. Hundreds of dead Black bodies don’t move anyone into action because we are comfortable seeing Black people harmed. It’s almost like society has no real empathy/sympathy for Black people. “On March 31, 1914, a white lynch mob in Wagoner County, Oklahoma, seized a 17-year-old Black teenaged girl named Marie Scott from the local jail, dragged her screaming from her cell, and hanged her from a nearby telephone pole. Days before, a young white man named Lemuel Pierce was stabbed to death while he and several other white men were in the city's "colored section"; Marie was accused of being involved. The Associated Press wire report and accounts published by Northern papers explained that the group of white men had ventured into the Black residential area to sexually assault Black women and attempted to rape Marie Scott. According to some of these accounts, Marie stabbed Pierce in self-defense; in others, Marie's brother killed Pierce in an effort to defend her, and Marie was only arrested and lynched because her brother escaped. Local press reports, on the other hand, didn't say anything about why the white youth were in the Black neighborhood or what they did while there, and simply claimed that Marie Scott stabbed Pierce unprovoked and in cold blood. For generations of Black women, racial terror included the constant threat of sexual assault and a complete lack of legal protection. The same communities that lynched and legally executed Black men for the scarcest allegations of sexual contact with white women regularly tolerated and excused white men’s sexual attacks against Black women and girls. Given this history, Marie Scott may have been among the many Black women targeted for sexual violence during this era by white men who knew that they would face no judgment or consequences for rampaging her community. Whether she acted in her own defense or was protected by her brother, Marie Scott died at the hands of a mob, the victim of a society that devalued her life and body; deprived her of the chance to defend herself at trial; and denied her right to be free from rape, fear, and racial terror” I knew by the dehumanizing way the peas talked about other Black men and women killed by police that America had an issue seeing Black people as fully human. And that was going to be the biggest hurdle of this particular foot race. If Philando Castile was a white man killed in front of his child we would have never heard the end of it but because society somehow thinks Black children and Black women are “strong” enough to keep burying their fathers no one intervenes and more people die every year. “Experts said Floyd's killing also helped humanize Black people in the minds of White people.” "George Floyd turned Black men into human beings for White people, and he did that by calling out for his mother," Janet Helms, a Boston College professor of counseling and psychology, has told CNN. "Covid made White people sit and look at the murder of George Floyd. They couldn't get away from it, especially White women. ... They became aware they were allowing this to happen." amp.cnn.com/cnn/2021/03/30/us/witness-derek-chauvin-trial/index.html
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Post by Olan on Mar 31, 2021 4:18:28 GMT
He was an excellent witness, in my opinion. He was cool calm and collected no matter how hard they tried to anger him. I thought so too! The whole being painted out to be angry whilst people ignore the very pressing issue making you angry is very triggering for me. “I said what I said.” coined by NeNe Leakes was so fitting for that line of questioning. To be Black is to be gaslight constantly it seems. It’s been my signature for the last 4-5 years and I’m not even a Real Housewives fan.
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Post by Olan on Mar 31, 2021 4:09:20 GMT
It reads Black Excellence.
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Post by Olan on Mar 24, 2021 3:34:24 GMT
So where exactly is the powerlessness? Perceived loss of power. The fact that they see their way of life changing at all freaks them out. When I say it makes sense, I am not saying it is true, but that they believe it to be true. I was not clear in my first post. ETA and apparently not this one either. Can I just back away... my gut, brain, heart, and soul agree with you, OlanETAA I wish I knew why the people who do not have power didn’t lash out more. I hope I didn’t give you the impression you needed to defend it. I’m really trying to understand why the anger but I’m sure your guess is as good as mine.
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Post by Olan on Mar 24, 2021 0:37:35 GMT
I can poll Black men pretty quickly in a WhatsApp group and so far almost a dozen men say YES to a “persistent feeling of powerlessness”.
Soldiers being lynched in their uniforms Sexuality not being openly expressed for fear of lynching Not being able to purchase a home to start a family Not being able to join a union Being paid less Being called boy Growing up poor Not being able to protect the people you love from harm (my fathers biggest) Being discriminated against etc.
All common Black male experiences. Many racist practices were designed to attack Black manhood and it’s working hence Chicago. Still no mass murderers.
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Post by Olan on Mar 24, 2021 0:24:22 GMT
What makes white men so prone to mass shootings? they feel they are losing their power. Not endorsing this, as a granny Boomer, but that is what seems to make sense. Or was that rhetorical? No it wasn’t and it’s one I’ve heard before but All the Black men in my life would report at some point or another feeling powerless because racism is dehumanizing and emasculating. The same can be said about never having a lover of your choosing and being forced to breed then that family unit split up. Actual powerlessness. Still no mass murderers. White men...mediocre ones at that control so much shit it makes my head spin. So where exactly is the powerlessness? Anyone watching/colonized would describe them as pretty powerful indeed.
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Post by Olan on Mar 23, 2021 17:32:52 GMT
Does anyone ever wonder why the shooters are never Black men? And to take it even further if you really think about it who has the most reasons to be angry enough to commit mass murders? Other men have it really easy in comparison so why are they so angry? What would have happened if gun control was meant to keep people safe and not keep Black people from being armed. Follow the money? No. Follow the disenfranchised Black citizen and see where the impact will be for everyone else 🤷🏾♀️Injustice trickles down. There was a mass shooting last week in Chicago. 15 shot, 2 died. But you don’t really care about that so why bring it up? It would seem no one wants to talk about why most every mass shooting is carried out by a white man. Why?
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Post by Olan on Mar 23, 2021 17:30:39 GMT
Does anyone ever wonder why the shooters are never Black men? And to take it even further if you really think about it who has the most reasons to be angry enough to commit mass murders? Other men have it really easy in comparison so why are they so angry? What would have happened if gun control was meant to keep people safe and not keep Black people from being armed. Follow the money? No. Follow the disenfranchised Black citizen and see where the impact will be for everyone else 🤷🏾♀️Injustice trickles down. Black men are participating in plenty of shootings. Every week. People still die, people's lives are still disrupted. The murders add up. We understand the cause of that violence. But that isn’t what I asked. What makes white men so prone to mass shootings?
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Post by Olan on Mar 23, 2021 16:04:04 GMT
Thanks for sharing the number.
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Post by Olan on Mar 23, 2021 15:54:13 GMT
Does anyone ever wonder why the shooters are never Black men? And to take it even further if you really think about it who has the most reasons to be angry enough to commit mass murders? Other men have it really easy in comparison so why are they so angry?
What would have happened if gun control was meant to keep people safe and not keep Black people from being armed.
Follow the money? No. Follow the disenfranchised Black citizen and see where the impact will be for everyone else 🤷🏾♀️Injustice trickles down.
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