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Post by frenchie on May 7, 2019 2:37:26 GMT
Someone I know was just invited to a bridal shower that did this. The reasoning was that the family (and therefore the guest list) was large and the bride preferred to spend the time socializing with her guests than unwrapping gifts for the allotted time frame. I'm going to one this Saturday and that's the exact explanation we were given.
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Post by frenchie on May 6, 2019 21:21:53 GMT
How awful. im sorry you had to witness that. That kind of stuff is hard to deal with. (((Hugs)))
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Post by frenchie on May 5, 2019 19:07:17 GMT
I think Project Life just wasn't making enough money for her and she saw the writing on the wall. So she started scrambling to figure out her next step, hence the crying and constant questions on her IG stories,"What do you want ?" Now, she's trying to persuade us all on a new direction and hoping we all fall for it.
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Post by frenchie on May 3, 2019 14:24:43 GMT
You can bet your arse that the people voting on this issue are predominantly male. Yet the person pushing this through who wants to see it go to the supreme court is a woman: "State Rep. Terri Collins (R), a sponsor of the measure, said the bill is intended to go all the way up to the Supreme Court and challenge Roe v. Wade, the landmark decision that legalized abortion nationwide. And then what happens to all these unwanted children? It is a documented proof that where there is freely available abortion, there is less crime. There is less child abuse. There are lower levels of poverty. To quote Joan Chittister , a nun who is anti-abortion: "I think in many cases, your morality is deeply lacking if all you want is a child born but not a child fed, not a child educated, not a child housed. And why would I think that you don't? Because you don't want any tax money to go there. That's not pro-life. That's pro-birth. We need a much broader conversation on what the morality of pro-life is." [ I will never understand how a woman would want to take away another woman's choice to do something. As manda said, it was something she never would've thought she would/could do. But life sometimes throws curve balls and circumstances change. As the mother of 2 daughters, I will do everything in my power to make sure they always have choice.
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Post by frenchie on May 3, 2019 13:36:51 GMT
As someone who was bullied in school for the clothes I wore or the stores they came from what someone wears or when they wear them doesn't phase me. I would never judge I know how that feels. I am always uncomfortable when conversations go to someone’s physical appearance (not just here, but also irl) I love the discussions about shipping problems, product releases and that type of thing. We (collectively not judging anyone or pointing fingers) put her down when she has fake eyelashes,when she doesn’t wear make up, when she wears yoga pants and when she wears dresses. She can.not.win... I 100% believe in your right to express whatever opinions about her that you see fit. This is the Ali thread and they belong here. It’s my job to scroll by when something is off to me. hutchfan I just wanted you to know you are not alone in your feelings. This
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Post by frenchie on Apr 29, 2019 15:55:03 GMT
Another one here who has had both and did not take anything. No problems at all.
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Post by frenchie on Apr 26, 2019 2:13:29 GMT
I live near Philadelphia and our local news has had a lot of Biden news these past few weeks. (I guess because he lives a few miles away in Wilmington, DE). A few weeks ago, he and Stacy Abrams met and the news here was speculating that they were meeting to discuss possible VP consideration if Biden were to run and be chosen as the Democratic nominee. I know it's really early yet, but I guess anything is possible.
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Post by frenchie on Apr 25, 2019 1:02:17 GMT
This is just heartbreaking. I don't understand how anyone could do this.
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Post by frenchie on Apr 19, 2019 2:24:20 GMT
I'm finishing up my bachelor's degree, four years after my ex-husband and I separated. I started with only a few credits so I needed to finish my AA, then transfer to another college for my Bachelor's degree. In a week I will be done with all of my classes and have my degree. My parents have been so supportive of my studies, paying for my first year of school (I received financial aid for the rest), and generally encouraging my efforts. However, after four years of hard work, they aren't making the effort to fly out for my graduation. I don't have any family in the state and my kids (13 and almost 10) won't want to sit through a 2 hour ceremony. I didn't end up signing up for commencement. I didn't think it was a big deal but the closer I get to finishing, the more I'm disappointed that no one seems to care. Hell, I flew from Ohio to Washington State with a 4 year old and a one year old, by myself!, to attend my sister's college graduation. I'm proud of myself for finishing my degree with an outstanding GPA, but it would be nice if my family was a little excited for me. I guess I just needed a place to vent my sadness. Congratulations on a well deserved accomplishment! You are a wonderful example for your children!
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Post by frenchie on Apr 16, 2019 2:40:22 GMT
Noooooo. That's how we end up with the craziest possible Democratic opponent. There is zero chance that Weld will win the nomination as Trump for President and the RNC are now one in the same. Please don't waste your primary vote. Use it to vote for the best Democratic candidate. Agree 100%
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Post by frenchie on Apr 15, 2019 18:01:36 GMT
Sick over this. So beautiful and historic😪
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Post by frenchie on Apr 9, 2019 2:10:05 GMT
So sorry you are going through this. It's just not fair. Sending you positive energy to get through it. (((Hugs)))
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Post by frenchie on Apr 5, 2019 2:22:33 GMT
How generous of you! He will have good days and bad days.... His wife has a harder recovery, or so I have heard. I wonder if the hospital has a class on what might be expected for the support persons? Maybe ask! I have been interviewed over the phone by someone at the hospital. Was also supposed to go for a meeting there, but it hasn't happened yet. Thank you for responding!!
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Post by frenchie on Apr 5, 2019 2:20:23 GMT
I don't have advice for you, but I want to give you props for doing this. I have family members who are transplant recipients, and being a support person can be a rough ride. I hope your BIL and his wife both have smooth sailing. Thanks so much. They are both such wonderful people, I am so happy to be able to help them.
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Post by frenchie on Apr 4, 2019 23:48:56 GMT
I'm going to be the support person for my BIL, who is having a kidney transplant soon. His wife is giving him one of her kidneys, so her sister will be her support person. If anyone has done this, what advice can you give me? I've been reading things online, but want to know exactly what to expect. I want to be able to help him the best I can. TIA
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Post by frenchie on Apr 4, 2019 23:32:46 GMT
What a wonderful update!!! Continued prayers for Amanda's recovery.
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Post by frenchie on Apr 2, 2019 16:15:52 GMT
I was certain I did not need this collection, I loathe purple. But your layouts are gorgeous and the purples are so soft and pretty. The houses are to die for! Thank you for sharing! Exactly how I feel! Will have to go get some Sparkle City now. Great job, craftymom101!
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Post by frenchie on Apr 2, 2019 16:08:23 GMT
I also went in to my local store (eastern PA). It was on the list as getting the products. Nothing was out yet, so I'll give it a little more time. Same thing happened with the new Heidi Swapp ink/pens, etc. It took them a couple of weeks to put it out even though on the website it said it was in stock in my store.
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Post by frenchie on Apr 2, 2019 16:00:23 GMT
Sending love and positive thoughts to you and your mom, lainey❤️
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Post by frenchie on Apr 1, 2019 23:57:09 GMT
I am so sorry you all are having to go through this. It's heart wrenching. Continuous prayers being said for Amanda, her daughters and you and your husband.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 31, 2019 3:34:44 GMT
Born and raised in Pittsburgh, so I love all of the Pittsburgh sports teams. But my youngest DH works for the Phillies, so I'm hoping they have a great season!!!
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Post by frenchie on Mar 31, 2019 3:21:19 GMT
Watching someone you love suffer with cancer is truly hell on earth. Prayers to all of you that you find comfort and strength.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 25, 2019 23:59:21 GMT
I just voted for physical products, which was behind by more than 10 percentage points. I got annoyed when she kept saying to calm down and not stress out because there's nothing to read into the poll. Then why the f*ck did she ask? And better yet, why would anyone stress out over it?
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Post by frenchie on Mar 23, 2019 18:19:48 GMT
That shows how little she know about how sexual abuse damages the victims. Adults + children + sex = always wrong. Exactly. My mother was sexually abused as a child by a neighbor and she NEVER got over it. She suffered panic attacks and agoraphobia for most of her life. She developed dementia in her 70s, and in a way, I was relieved for her. She didn't have to suffer with the memories anymore. My heart breaks for anyone who has gone through it. Barbra Streisand should be ashamed.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 20, 2019 23:13:29 GMT
Yes. Our installer told us to do it.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 20, 2019 15:32:36 GMT
Do you know what it is about flying that you are afraid of? There are a lot of different shapes a fear of flying can take, so if you can pinpoint it, maybe folks with a similar fear can share what's helped them. A coworker developed a fear of flying as she got older. She says she really doesn't like all the noises the plane makes. She sees an acupuncturist regularly, and before she flies, the acupuncturist puts these little dot things on her pressure points on her ears. They're just taped on. She said when she starts to get freaked out, she watches the flight attendants, because if they're calm, she figures she should be too. Flying just straight up stresses me out, but I'm not afraid of it. I get anxiety because (1) I'm not in much control, (2) there are rules to follow, and (3) I get very, very motion sick. I take an anti-anxiety med before getting to the airport, dramamine before I get on the plane, and I wear seabands. I also have my doctor give me an anti-nausea med (which was really helpful when we hit some turbulence). On the plane, I basically try to disassociate. Three hours is about my max, but I can mark it out in little snippets of time: it takes a little bit of time to get to cruising altitude, and then in a little bit, the drink cart starts. Then they put that away and come down with the snacks. Then the flight attendants make one more pass to see if anyone needs anything else. Then they come through to collect trash. Then the pilot tells us, about half an hour out, that we're getting close. Then we land and I breathe a sigh of relief in the terminal. I fear the plane will crash. Which I know is crazy, because planes are so safe, and much safer than driving (which I also worry about, but still drive). My former neighbor is a pilot, and just went back to work now that her kids are in school. If she wasn't so far away, I bet talking to her would help! That's a great idea about watching the flight attendants! You are not alone. Many people are afraid to fly so don't beat yourself up about it. Just think about the fact that we have very well trained pilots here in the US,. You said your neighbor is a pilot and she has children. Try to focus on the fact that pilots have families that they want to get home to, as well. They take their jobs very seriously. I know that might not be a big help, but sometimes I've talked to people who don't like giving up their control when they fly. Just remember that commercial pilots have many years of experience and that you will be in good hands.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 20, 2019 1:24:33 GMT
It's such a terrible feeling when your child is upset. Girls can just be ruthless. Once your daughter graduates, she will be moving on to bigger and better things! Hang in there. It WILL get better!
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Post by frenchie on Mar 20, 2019 0:57:32 GMT
No personal experience, but I have read in multiple places that you'll spend a lot of time not being paid. Like, you don't get paid until the door to the plane is closed, so all that time the customers spend boarding? You're working for free. I think that's also true once you reach the gate and open the door-- not paid for time while passengers are deplaning. Not sure why that is or why that's okay, but seems like something to consider. We had to sign in 1 hour before our originating flight. That's when the per diem money would start. I think it was about $3.00/hour. That was from the time we signed in until the end of our trip which could be 1,2, or 3 days. The bigger money starts once the plane pushes back and stops once the airplane blocks in at the destination. So the per diem is basically nothing, but you are getting paid.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 20, 2019 0:45:11 GMT
A friend of mine was looking for a change and decided she wanted to be a flight attendant. She got turned down at the big airlines because she is only 5'. However, she did get hired at a small commuter airline that only flies to 5 or 6 places. She starts her training next month and is beyond excited about it. At the time I was hired, you had to be at least 5'2" (to be able to reach the overhead bins, for one reason) and there was a strict weight policy. The FAA also has certain health requirements. Also, another idea- unless you have your heart set on flying commercial, there are small companies that hire flight attendants. My husband is a pilot for a wealthy family in our area. They own several companies. They have some Gulfstream jets and on the larger ones, they take a flight attendant. It's something I never really knew about until my husband took a job with them. It seems like a pretty good gig. Just something to think about.
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Post by frenchie on Mar 20, 2019 0:38:58 GMT
I was a flight attendant with American for 25 years, but had to retire several years ago for health reasons.
I loved it, but I started in 1988 and the world was much different. Training is pretty extensive. I think @dottyscrapper summed it up pretty well. It was 8 weeks in Dallas, although with AA being bought by USAirways, I don't know if that has changed.
The job was great for me as a single person. Once I had kids, it obviously got a little tougher. Work days can be flexible once you've built up seniority, but when you are new, the company owns you.
I started out loving people, but there are days that you wonder why you are doing it-just like any other job. You hear people complain about flight crews, but sometimes it's hard to smile after you've been spit on, hit, yelled at, etc. And I'm not lying. It's public service all the way. I would always just tell myself that the passengers paid a lot of money to be on these flights and in some cases it could be all that they had in order to take a special trip. That got me through the tough days.
If it's something you really want to do, go for it. Just keep in mind that it's not that glamorous once you're doing it! But there are definitely some good times! If you have any specific questions, feel free to send me a message.
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