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Post by beaglemom on Dec 29, 2017 18:54:08 GMT
My first conflicted game in a long time. I grew up in the Stanford area and we currently live there as well. I went to the games growing up and through high school. Always been a huge Stanford fan, dh and my dad both attended as well. But I went to TCU for 3 years and I love cheering for them!
Very exciting game!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 19, 2017 18:56:32 GMT
We have a half day tomorrow 12/20 and they go back 01/04. I don't like this half week to half week nonsense. The older two will probably miss the 4th and 5th to go visit cousins out of state to go skiing. I think maybe half the kids are around at school this week. The school, public, doesn't seem to care. They don't get funding based on attendance, so it's really no skin off their nose. But I feel like it means the kids end up missing a week of academic instruction (at this time of year I don't really mind since they are loving all the holiday activities) because there are so many kids gone that the teachers don't want to do anything too important on those days. Next year our kids will miss a couple days - not sure of the calendar yet, but we will be in Cabo for sure Dec 16 - jan 2 - possibly longer. So we're fine being here and not doing much this year.
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 19, 2017 17:29:26 GMT
This is the best thing ever!!! You must post every one!!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 15, 2017 20:47:22 GMT
So I know they are as seen on TV and totally ugly. But I swear by my Ove Gloves! I actually am going to go by this two pack right now, we just moved and my current set is almost 10 years old and I want a new clean set! I bake a ton and cook a good amount in general and I swear by them! I bought a set for our family's house up in the mountains because I hated the "nice, expensive" ones they had because they didn't work! But as a word of caution. Just like any hot mits - they don't work when wet!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 12, 2017 20:32:14 GMT
They've tried to turn it into secret santa and upscale the gifts in the past, people complained. Of course, their idea of upscaling the gifts was to put a higher dollar amount on it than most of us were comfortable with. There were several "crap" gifts this year, but almost all of them had a gift card with them. Except of course the one I got. I don't know why I'm pissy about it but I am. I think it's bleeding into a larger argument I'm having wth DH right now over the fact that I do 99.9% of the shopping/wrapping/baking that surrounds Christmas and all I ask in return is for him to put at least one item under the tree for me. He has yet to do this, and we got into a pretty big fight about it. I'm really tired of putting in time and effort and not getting anything in return. It makes me feel very unloved. Sorry, that went on a bit of a tangent there. I'm PMSing and it's causing me to be weepy. I liked this....as a total validation for how you are feeling. My dh sucks at gifts. We just bought a new house, I dealt with all the financing, 95% of the packing, 95% of orchestrating the movers, and now 95% of the unpacking. We do Hannukah and Christmas. I have bought 8 night of Hannukah gifts for 3 kids and him, I am 99% sure he hasn't gotten me anything. And I have bought 95% of the kid's Christmas presents. He'll probably end up getting some of the random house stuff on my Amazon wishlist (that is there for everyone other than him). I tend to buy myself something after the holidays if he fails as my Christmas present - at least that way I get something I want. Rather than the random thing that he decides I might like, but he ends up using more than me (the cold press juicer, sous vide...).
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 9, 2017 7:44:17 GMT
This is our first real move with movers and I'm wondering how much I should tip. Today there were 4 people packing from 8:30-6:30. I'm paying $250 an hour total for them. The guys doing the actual moving I think he said there will be 6 of them and that is $290 an hour. I'm grabbing bagels and donuts in the morning and I think we'll grab them lunch tomorrow to - there is nothing near by or that will deliver. Today they weren't prepared for that!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 8, 2017 5:03:08 GMT
This is fitting as my paternal grandmother passed away last night. As a child, she was my favorite. They lived less than a mile away and we spent a lot of time with them. She would make pizza crust from Bisquick and shape it like a heart and put cut up hot dogs on it. She would let us make cookie dough and keep it in the fridge and let us eat it raw. She had tons of dolls and loved playing with them with us. It wasn't till I was an adult that I realized that it was a little creepy. Up until the last year or two she still would change out the scenes in her doll houses for the seasons. She had an alcoholic father and a mean, mean mother and as a result, I think reverted to a very childlike existence as soon as she could. We had a bit of a falling out 12 years ago right before I got married and it was never the same for me after that. She said some things that I just couldn't move past, which makes me sad. They live in the middle of nowhere Vermont and we live in California and they haven't been able to travel out here for at least 4 years and I have 3 little kids. So it was really only once a year or so for the last bit.
My maternal grandmother, I adore. Up until age 10, I wasn't a huge fan of her, because compared to my other grandma she wasn't as much "fun." But around 10 for some reason things changed and she became my favorite. She was diagnosed with breast cancer my senior year of high school and it really shook me up. It came back in the other side a couple years later - but that was over 15 years ago and she is still here! I transferred colleges after 3 years and ended up in the same town they lived in. I would see her and my grandpa at least once a week. Loved them to death. My grandpa died 3 years ago and we were really worried about her, but she is still going pretty strong. We do think about moving her up closer to us (my parents, my sister, and I all live in the same area 5 hours away from her) so that she can be more a part of our lives.
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 7, 2017 5:46:48 GMT
We were just talking about this! We are going to scale back a little since we just bought a house (before we planned to and we need to sell our other house asap!).
But it looks like we will be heading to Vermont sometime either super soon or in the Spring, my grandma just passed away and we will go back for services. Part of me hopes it is soon, since I'm 25 weeks pregnant and would rather go now than in the spring with a newborn. Her husband - my grandpa - turns 90 in June and I had planned on trying to get back there for that, but we'll see what happens.
We have been going to Yosemite for the 4th of July since I was a baby, but since the new company took it over and they renamed everything it just isn't' the same. We were really disappointed this last year in all of the "cost-cutting" measures they had taken. So that is up in the air.
Dh's cousin is getting married in Washington State in August and mil/fil are now trying to convince their family (us, sil's and their families) to do a week or so long trip up for it. If that is the case we will not do our summer trip to CO to visit the sil's.
The big trip is that dh qualified for World Triathlon championships and they are on the Gold Coast of Australia in September. We haven't figured out how long we are going to go for since the kids will have started school (kindergarten and 2nd grade) we aren't sure if we want to pull them out for more than a week that early in the year.
Then Cabo for Christmas and New Years!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 6, 2017 20:39:18 GMT
Yes .. my 16 year old daughter .. who lost her battle with addiction 12 years ago .. and what you are feeling is VERY normal .. their addiction brings chaos all around them and with them. I can promise you that most times addiction is NOT the path they want to take and feel horrible for what it is doing to those who love them, even though it does not seem that way ever. NOW with that being said .. I don't think enabling them is they way to deal with it either .. you have to protect yourself and your family .. your dad needs to let her hit bottom and her death may be that rock bottom. harsh truth but that is what addiction is HARSH .. UGLY ... HEARTBREAKING .. and it effects all people who love the addict .. that is why I suggest Al Anon .. it really does help . and it gives you skills on how to deal with addict and it makes you face the part that you play and how to get out of the chaotic cycle So with all of that .. when I think about Kaitlyn I miss her with every thing that I am .. and I would do ANYTHING to have her back ..and while I LOVE her so very much it is not the addict Kaitlyn I want back .. her I am at peace as to where she is .. I want sober Kaitlyn back because SHE is who I miss .. I pray that your niece is strong enough to get the help she needs to get sober, that your family can heal from all of this and that you find peace with your feelings .. because they are very real and VERY normal .. Kaitlyn's Promise - - this is the website we create after she died .. Cheri Slight highjack....I can't believe it has been 12 years. I remember when this happened back on the old boards and the work that you have been doing since.
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 6, 2017 19:49:13 GMT
Awesome! I think that is one of the P4P's I don't have...you may have convinced me that I need it! Joined the fb groups...waiting for approval! I think I only have one George & Ginger, their stuff is super cute. I'm just not very good at sewing for myself!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 6, 2017 7:13:33 GMT
great gifts so far ladies I'm working on sewing SEVERAL gifts.... I'll have to snap some pics soon. I made myself 2 xmas shirts So cute!!! Would you be willing to share the pattern names?
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 6, 2017 5:16:40 GMT
Holy cow! That is amazing!
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 5, 2017 20:17:32 GMT
I use purpose face wash. Almost everything (except Purpose) makes my face burn/sting. I can't use face moisturizers either, but my face doesn't get dry with the purpose.
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Post by beaglemom on Dec 1, 2017 19:21:30 GMT
We just bought a new house and I know I could do it old school and use graph paper to plot out all the rooms and furniture. But I have to think that these days there is an easy way to put in all the dimensions on a website or app and be able to do it that way.
TIA!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 30, 2017 20:44:10 GMT
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 30, 2017 3:27:57 GMT
Thank you!! Done!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 27, 2017 5:18:02 GMT
We just bought a new house and this will be the first year we get to do 2 trees. The one in the family/playroom is going to have all the kid ornaments on it and what not. The one in the formal living room will have all my blue, white, and silver stuff on it. Once I get them all set up I will have a better idea of what i can get rid of. I know I have way more ornaments than I need, but I want to get it all set up before I start purging.
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 27, 2017 4:48:40 GMT
There are a number of fabric destash groups on facebook, I would ask there. you would be amazed what people have in their stashes that they are willing to part with.
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 26, 2017 4:54:46 GMT
I would shop around. Unless it needs to be in color that seems really expensive!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 26, 2017 4:30:14 GMT
I really want a coverstitch, but we just bought an expensive house that we weren't planning on buying (at least not planning to buy till we sold our current house). So I think I am just going to be good with having a new house!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 25, 2017 20:19:18 GMT
$48,800,000 5 beds, 7 full, 1 half baths, 6,305 sq ft, 7.02 acres lot Then there are a couple in the $20-40,000,000 range, 9 in the $10-15,000,000 range. Population 5,500, town is 11.73 mi² Lots of large properties for horses.
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 20, 2017 20:33:54 GMT
We have this one and love it. We actually just ordered a second a couple of weeks ago and had it sent to my sil's where we are going for thanksgiving. Dh is planning on Sous viding the turkey and then flash frying it to finish.
I think I might order a couple as christmas presents!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 20, 2017 20:20:03 GMT
We are in the process of packing to move to a new home. It was very sudden - we put on offer in on the 9th, it was accepted the 10th, I just got a phone call from our realtor that we have closed and it is ours! They move out the 29th and we have movers scheduled to come pack what we can't the 30th and 1st and move us the 2nd. And of course, we'll be out of town the 21-28th. So we have been madly packing everything we can and trying to do some purging. But at this point, we are out of time. So the plan is that 90% of our stuff will go in boxes into the garage (thankfully it is a 3 car attached. And we will unpack from there. If it doesn't have a home while we are unpacking it gets donated or thrown out. I am really, really looking forward to it!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 17, 2017 1:42:12 GMT
My youngest ds is 19 months. He didn't get his first tooth till 16 or 17 months. He got one lower one, then his upper molars. Slowly his four main uppers have started coming in, in the meantime two bottom molars and another 2 lowers have started coming in. When at his 15-month appointment he didn't have any teeth the pediatrician said that if by 18 months he didn't have any that we would have to talk to a pediatric dentist. Thankfully they started coming in, I also had my dentist, that also does my kids, look when we were in and he said not to worry!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 12, 2017 17:36:32 GMT
I thought our current situation was crazy, but yours is worse. We made an offer Thursday, they excepted Friday. We close November 20th with a lease back till November 29th. Cash offer no contingencies. They need the cash to buy their new place and have somewhere they can live starting the 29th. We are out of town the 21-28th so it works fine for us. Plus our current house isn't on the market and the houses are only a couple miles apart so we are going to do a slow move in. So I can purge half our house.
But they keep adding things they are leaving (in a good way). My 6 year old dd wrote them the sweetest letter about what she liked about the house and now they want to leave her the furniture in the room she said she wants for her bedroom - 2 twin beds,a cute toy box and a dresser. We also mentioned something about the very nice wine fridge they had hanging out in the garage and they are leaving that too.
I think they are asking way too much of you!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 9, 2017 2:18:50 GMT
We are hoping to buy a new house and the one we are looking at has a great family room that we want seating in along with the kid's playroom stuff. We have a couch we will use in the formal living room, but we would need one for this room.
I am looking for recommendations for something that will hold up well with kids and is cleanable!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 2, 2017 0:12:29 GMT
We love flannel sheets, they are on the bed as soon as it starts to cool off and they are on until it warms up again. I do get warm generally speaking, but I don't have issues with flannel sheets. I love how cosey they are!
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 1, 2017 20:59:29 GMT
My youngest slept in the swaddle till at least 6 months and then we switched him to a sleep sack. He is 19 months old and still in a sleep sack for nap time and bedtime. My 4-year-old slept in a sleep sack till he was 2. He loved his sack and was very sad when he outgrew them.
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Post by beaglemom on Oct 29, 2017 3:36:21 GMT
We think we have found our ideal house. But we really need to sell our current home before we buy it. We need to move out to sell our house - I can't show a house with 4 kids in it. The house we are interested in has been on the market for a while. We are thinking about approaching them with an offer to rent for 6 months to a year. With the option to buy the house when that time is up (or sooner if our house sells sooner). We would possibly offer earnest money to secure, but the main part of the deal would be that any earnest money and rent money would go toward the purchase of the house if we were to buy it. Of course with the agreement that if we don't buy it that we wouldn't get that money back.
Anyone with any experience?
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Post by beaglemom on Oct 13, 2017 19:27:07 GMT
These are the best. They are pricey, but worth every penny. They wash and wear great. And they have some really nice ones that don't look cheesy!
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